Good interpersonal relationship is an art. All people need constant study and practice to master it. I hope you can make a self-analysis according to your own specific situation, break through the self-enclosed barrier with an open mind and build a harmonious interpersonal relationship.

The distance between people is not the length of spatial distance, but the psychological distance between people and the harmony of communication between people. In real life, we can often see many such situations. Classmates, colleagues and even cohabiting couples end up like passers-by because they can't communicate. While some friends are separated from Wan Li, and may never meet again, but their emotions are closely linked. There is a poem written like this: "I look at the people around me, very close, but I feel far away;" I look at the clouds in the sky, far away, but I feel very close. "This profound emotional experience has become one of the most touching and worth thinking about among people's emotional factors in human history. This reminds me of a famous poem: "However, China holds our friendship, and heaven is still our neighbor", which accurately expresses people's emotional experience. If we avoid emotional factors and simply abstract people as people with material significance, then the relationship between people is indifferent.

Only by respecting others, helping others and trusting others can we close the distance between people. bale