Personal image is constantly enriched and improved through our own efforts, and it is also reflected by others. In life, we often hear such words: a leader has a strong affinity, a person is very popular, and everyone is willing to associate with him. This is a good expression of personal image. The shaping of personal image was not built in a day. A good personal image is a process of constantly showing good things to others and gradually improving bad things through one's own accumulation. If you want to establish a good personal image, you must pay attention to your words and deeds. However, there are many phenomena around us: some students are swearing, and it seems impossible to say a word without the word "dirty"; Some students vomit endlessly in public places, as if there are endless dirty things in their mouths; Some students only ask others what to do, what to do, don't disturb his study and speak clearly, but this is not the case when it is his turn to show and carry forward his style. In fact, for these details in life, we only need to remember one sentence: don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. It is enough to practice this sentence hard. We don't need to remember so many rules about what to do. Imagine if you talk to a guy with a foul mouth, can you have the patience to listen to him? If there is a boy sitting opposite you, can you still sit there and enjoy life like no one's watching? If you are dealing with a guy who nags you all day and turns a blind eye to his own shortcomings, can you still maintain a permanent relationship with him? Most of the time, we only care about our own feelings, and rarely or even completely care about others' feelings, which leads to many embarrassing scenes and makes our image in others' minds collapse a little. Personal image is like the facade of a shop. The quality of a person's personal image directly determines the success or failure of your interpersonal communication. Personal image is constantly enriched and improved through our own efforts, and it is also reflected by others. In life, we often hear such words: a leader has a strong affinity, a person is very popular, and everyone is willing to associate with him. This is a good expression of personal image. The shaping of personal image was not built in a day. A good personal image is a process of constantly showing good things to others and gradually improving bad things through one's own accumulation. If you want to establish a good personal image, you must pay attention to your words and deeds. However, there are many phenomena around us: some students are swearing, and it seems impossible to say a word without the word "dirty"; Some students vomit endlessly in public places, as if there are endless dirty things in their mouths; Some students only ask others what to do, what to do, don't disturb his study and speak clearly, but this is not the case when it is his turn to show and carry forward his style. In fact, for these details in life, we only need to remember one sentence: don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. It is enough to practice this sentence hard. We don't need to remember so many rules about what to do. Imagine if you talk to a guy with a foul mouth, can you have the patience to listen to him? If there is a boy sitting opposite you, can you still sit there and enjoy life like no one's watching? If you are dealing with a guy who nags you all day and turns a blind eye to his own shortcomings, can you still maintain a permanent relationship with him? Many times, we only care about our own feelings, and seldom or even completely care about others' feelings, which leads to many embarrassing scenes and makes our image in others' minds collapse a little. Some students can't distinguish the concepts of putting on a show, showing off and publicizing personality. In this era of fierce competition, we advocate the liberation of human nature and the publicity of personality. Only by publicizing one's own personality can we not bury the talents among all sentient beings. But we must make it clear that putting on a show and showing off and publicizing personality are two different things. Showing off needs intelligence as capital. Not everyone has such capital, but showing off is different. As long as you have a thick skin, almost everyone can do it! We are clamoring for individuality all day long, so what is individuality? I'm afraid many people will say: it's just different from others. However, if you have a unique advantage, it is understandable for you to make public. If you make your shortcomings public, then I don't understand what your purpose is. A well-bred person may say: this person likes to show off and has no taste; For most ordinary people, I'm afraid I just think of you as a buffoon. Your performance is nothing more than adding some jokes. No one is perfect, and gold is not enough. I'm not saying that each of us can become a saint as long as we work hard, which is obviously unrealistic. But having a good personal image is probably what we all dream of! Since we all have this beautiful wish, we should work hard for it. So, how can we create a good personal image? First of all, sit and stand. At least let others look like you are a student, not an unemployed person on the street. Second, use some polite expressions such as "thank you" and "you're welcome" appropriately, which makes people feel that you are a polite person. Third, pay attention to the collocation of clothes. Don't dress up so that others can't look at it at once. It's too unsuccessful. Fourth, use facial expressions flexibly. For example, the use of eyes, the use of smiles and so on. Try to give the people you associate a sense of intimacy and trust. Attention should also be paid to the cooperative use of gesture skills in communication. The most important thing is the way and skill of speaking. Misfortune comes from the mouth! The same thing, different ways of speaking may achieve different results, depending on what you say. Some students around me like to turn around and swear, thinking that this is humor and can show his intelligence. I'm afraid this can only backfire. No one wants to say nothing in front of others. You know, you have done a lot of good things, and others may not remember you, but you have done something wrong to others, and others may remember you for a lifetime. Why are we doing this? In short, a good personal image is gradually established through successful interpersonal communication. In order to achieve successful interpersonal communication, we must make the people we associate feel comfortable and willing to associate with you, and think that it is a very happy thing to associate with you. Dream bravely and you will win if you work hard. As long as you work hard for it, you will eventually realize the infinite charm brought by a good personal image. Some students can't distinguish the concepts of putting on a show, showing off and publicizing personality. In this era of fierce competition, we advocate the liberation of human nature and the publicity of personality. Only by publicizing one's own personality can we not bury the talents among all sentient beings. But we must make it clear that putting on a show and showing off and publicizing personality are two different things. Showing off needs intelligence as capital. Not everyone has such capital, but showing off is different. As long as you have a thick skin, almost everyone can do it! We are clamoring for individuality all day long, so what is individuality? I'm afraid many people will say: it's just different from others. However, if you have a unique advantage, it is understandable for you to make public. If you make your shortcomings public, then I don't understand what your purpose is. A well-bred person may say: this person likes to show off and has no taste; For most ordinary people, I'm afraid I just think of you as a buffoon. Your performance is nothing more than adding some jokes. No one is perfect, and gold is not enough. I'm not saying that each of us can become a saint as long as we work hard, which is obviously unrealistic. But having a good personal image is probably what we all dream of! Since we all have this beautiful wish, we should work hard for it. So, how can we create a good personal image? First of all, sit and stand. At least let others look like you are a student, not an unemployed person on the street. Second, use some polite expressions such as "thank you" and "you're welcome" appropriately, which makes people feel that you are a polite person. Third, pay attention to the collocation of clothes. Don't dress up so that others can't look at it at once. It's too unsuccessful. Fourth, use facial expressions flexibly. For example, the use of eyes, the use of smiles and so on. Try to give the people you associate a sense of intimacy and trust. Attention should also be paid to the cooperative use of gesture skills in communication. The most important thing is the way and skill of speaking. Misfortune comes from the mouth! The same thing, different ways of speaking may achieve different results, depending on what you say. Some students around me like to turn around and swear, thinking that this is humor and can show his intelligence. I'm afraid this can only backfire. No one wants to say nothing in front of others. You know, you have done a lot of good things, and others may not remember you, but you have done something wrong to others, and others may remember you for a lifetime. Why are we doing this? In short, a good personal image is gradually established through successful interpersonal communication. In order to achieve successful interpersonal communication, we must make the people we associate feel comfortable and willing to associate with you, and think that it is a very happy thing to associate with you. Dream bravely and you will win if you work hard.