Therefore, the best way is to "tease" rather than chase!
The so-called "flirting" means that you give him a positive hint and let him pursue you actively. For example, in a chat, you say "Let's go to the movies together tomorrow", that is, you actively pursue him. But if you say, "There is a movie that is very popular recently, and the online evaluation is super high, I want to see it", then you are actively "teasing" him. In fact, as long as you say this sentence, boys will know, and boys who are a little interested in you will also pick up the words, "Let's go and see it together", which will naturally turn into him asking you out on his own initiative, not you asking him out. Of course, if you are not attractive enough, the boy may pretend not to know that you are hinting at him and invite you to the movies. (So be attractive in the early stage)
For another example, you can ask for help by saying, "My computer has been offline for several days, but the task assigned by my boss has not been completed." This way of asking for help can give you a very reasonable reason to meet and date a boy without showing that you are deliberately pursuing him. After you meet, he can "fix" your computer in a few minutes, and then you can naturally invite him to dinner, then watch a movie together, and then show your personal charm on this date.
Therefore, a girl who can flirt is a boy's dream. Knowing the skills of flirting can help you quickly harvest the "male god" you want.
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Only those who have attracted girls with their looks know how easy it is to seduce girls.
When I was in college, many girls liked me, and one of them was the most impressive. Height 170, long legs, big waist and chest, average-to-upper appearance, but she is a woman and often praises me for being handsome behind my ass. At that time, my taste was weak and I fell in love with another green tea bitch, so I didn't accept her pursuit. But I enjoyed being surrounded by girls, so I didn't refuse to date her. She often asks me out. I remember going out with her for the first time. She's a little nervous. I was particularly relaxed because I didn't pay special attention to her. I especially like staring at her and watching her nervous. I like to see her awkward in front of me, and she is generally careless among her classmates. Then I hugged her and kissed her directly. She didn't resist at all, and my hands were not honest, but she didn't mind at all. I think she will remember this special moment all her life. Later, she invited me to dinner on almost every date, and she paid the bill every time. I enjoyed it. Even then, I set myself a small goal, that is, I ate all the restaurants in a shopping mall without spending a penny. Later, although the goal was not achieved, she probably invited me to eat at 20 of the 30 restaurants. Moreover, her family is an ordinary working family, not a big lady who doesn't take money seriously, but she is still willing. I was too young to be that open, but we had sex after three dates. Her figure is really good, and she can't help it every time. I can't help but let the young me understand that sex and love can really be separated. Now think about her thoughts at that time, probably, since you can't get the heart, get the body.
Every holiday, she will give me a small gift. I often throw it around, so I left nothing behind. Later, I plan to go to graduate school. One night, I made an appointment with some friends to see me off. She came without asking. I don't remember what she said, except that she cried in the back all night. Later, I sometimes talked about WeChat, which is the kind where I said a word and she said a bunch of words, and I often didn't reply to her message.
After a few years, I changed a lot of girlfriends. She went through marriage, having children and divorce, but every time I went home, she still said she would meet me at the airport or something. Over the years, I have grown up and learned to be grateful, knowing that it is really not easy for her to do so, so I also cherish this "friendship".
It's the kind of girl who blushes when answering questions in class and suddenly confesses herself. We went to school early, and we were impressed that there was a drama of passing notes to express our feelings in primary and secondary schools. Before high school, I was a good girl, introverted and quiet. Until a flag-raising ceremony in the second semester of Senior Two, my life began to take a turn for the worse, just like a scene arranged by fate.
Our flag-raising ceremony was held on the playground by the teachers and students of the whole school, and all classes were divided into two columns. I just turned around and saw him at once. White, clean and handsome, I didn't expect it at that time, until I found out that he looks like a Korean male star.
After I found him, I probably determined the location. Actually, it's from the next class I wondered at the time that the classroom was nearby. Why haven't I seen it before? Such a handsome boy should be particularly eye-catching !
After the flag raising, I asked my best friend (her nickname is know-it-all) about the boy, only to know that he was in the next class, but he didn't seem to like dealing with people very much. In addition, he was ill at home for several months before, and now he has just returned to work for a week. I also sit on the stool's ass after class. It's normal not to see it.
After that day, I was suddenly possessed and my mind was full of his white face. To tell the truth, I've never seen him like this. What's more amazing is that I began to see him on the toilet road, by the window, in the canteen and on my way to school. What I didn't expect myself was that I could recognize his shadow at a glance at a distance of tens of meters. I feel crazy. I'm almost a senior three, and my study is getting worse and worse. The high hopes of my parents and teachers forced me not to think about him.
A month later, on Christmas Day, the school held an activity that night, and the whole school watched movies together. We were a multimedia classroom at that time, so each class prepared a lot of snacks, balloons and gifts, and everyone watched movies to celebrate Christmas. Perhaps because of the beautiful atmosphere, I walked to the corridor of the next classroom and happened to see him sitting by the window looking out. I looked him in the eye. How embarrassing!
I didn't know where I got the courage, or maybe the apple my friend gave me happened to be in my hand. I really handed it to him. He was obviously a little surprised, but he immediately smiled at me and said, thank you, wait a minute ... He turned around at the table and handed me a gift box. At that time, my heart was almost jumping out and my head was blank. I was afraid that he would see me red to the neck, so he took the gift and said thank you and ran away.
Back in the classroom, I carefully looked at the gift box and realized that such a beautiful package must have been prepared before. This is too careful. It's completely different from what my friend said before. I can't wait to open the present. I thought it was an apple, but when I opened it, I found it was a red apple hairpin, very delicate, and a card. ...
Speaking of which, you should have guessed that this gift was specially prepared by him, and it was clearly written on the card. It turned out that he had noticed me since the flag was raised. I didn't expect to see me everywhere, just like I saw him in many places ... so our story began.
Maybe it's like that sentence: when you like someone, you will find that the whole world is his shadow.
Boys are handsome. How active can girls be? Generally, girls can actively pursue boys in the following ways.
Take the initiative. Girls can take the initiative, preferably with a thunderclap. Fat boys are defenseless and have to accept your love. It can create the illusion and public opinion that you are his girlfriend, and make his colleagues, family and friends think that you are his girlfriend. You can always ask him out with his friends on an excuse, and then act close to him, so that everyone will think that your has a special relationship. Over time, he will get used to your intimate relationship, so that you will naturally be together.
Soft grinding hard foam is a very effective method for girls. It is hard for boys to resist the hard feelings of girls. You can play coquetry with him and soften his heart. Surround him every day so that he can see you all the time. You can find the places he frequents and often create random encounters. After such a long effort, I'm afraid he won't follow you.
Win men's sympathy, have a heroic plot and a natural desire to protect girls. You can make good use of this. You can ask him to help you move. After moving, you owe him a favor. You can invite him to dinner later. If you are sick, you can ask him to send you medicine and take you to the hospital for examination in a pleading tone. If you are sad, you can comfort him and ask him out to talk. If you do this for a long time, he will have feelings for you.
I am an uncle born after 70, and dare not say that I am handsome. When I was young, I looked very delicate. 10 When I was in junior high school, some gangsters passed by and squinted at me and said "handsome boy". Later, I went to Guangdong to work, and my young sisters in the factory liked me very much. I am too stiff and too thin-skinned to fall in love. In 1996, I worked as a security guard in a factory! There are more than 300 people in the factory, and there are more than 80 women workers/kloc-0. I am the youngest security guard who doesn't fall in love! Many girls are very kind to me, and finally a cheerful and lively Hunan girl took the initiative to pursue me and became my real girlfriend! Later, I broke up because my father came home seriously ill! Figure 1: 18-year-old photo, taken as an adult many years later, started a club at school. A beautiful girl leader of a brothers' club was very fond of me and kept sneaking around for months (both leaders in the club should pay attention to the influence), and then I got married and had children. Figure 2: The wedding photo failed for ten years, and now I live alone with my 7-year-old son! Youth is gone, and there are a lot of vicissitudes and mature experiences! Now I'm single! Happy! Enjoy the free life of motorcycle travel! If you have the same hobbies, you can pay attention to add my friends to discuss! Figure 3. Figure 4. Now
This problem can only be said from the examples I know around me. First of all, if I were myself, I would be a timid type, and I would not take the initiative if I liked it more. I know two women who chase men.
One succeeded and the other failed. The first thing that has not been done is a woman's character. She is outgoing, cheerful, careless and straightforward. I like a boy who works in the office next door, so I often create opportunities to talk. I will make an appointment from time to time after work. Of course, the man is also single, so he often eats together and makes an appointment to play together on weekends. The man is more mature and sophisticated, and others know that it is interesting for women to be together often, but it didn't work out in the end. After a while, the man resigned and left for complicated reasons.
Let's talk about the agreed couple first. The woman's personality is neutral. I didn't expect her to chase us. Maybe she just likes it too much, and the man belongs to humor. Maybe working underground is better. Without warning, the woman actually confessed the boy in the office. Finally, holding hands succeeded.
All I know is that it is so dull, without twists and turns, bizarre and vigorous plot.
Welcome to watch Fruit Fruit Emotion!
Boys are handsome. How active can girls be?
Needless to say, wanting a handsome guy will definitely attract many girls to like him. There must be many flowers and plants coming to him. After all, girls like boys in Shuai Shuai.
As long as a boy is handsome enough, he will certainly attract many girls to take the initiative. Some will take the initiative to send her flowers and love letters, and some will take the initiative to talk to him. As long as he is handsome, he is sure to find many people who like him. I remember there was a particularly handsome boy in our class before. He is the type that girls in our class like. Other boys can't get into the eyes of girls in our class at all. They all think he is the grass in our class. Someone sent him flowers, someone wrote him love letters, but there were many, many more. At that time, they all offered him as a male god. When talking to him, he was so happy that he said a word to another girl and she died. I don't know why so many girls liked him then.
I will not take the initiative to talk to him. I don't know. I guess I just don't like his type. He doesn't lack food every day, because someone sends him breakfast today, lunch tomorrow and dinner the day after tomorrow. In short, it's like the school grass on campus. That kind of male god gives it to him every day. At that time, cheering, cheerleading and so on have formed a male god for him.
I don't know what a boy has to chase. Hundreds of girls like boys, and they still do. I feel that those girls have never taken the initiative to be with someone they like before, but she is super active with this boy. No matter how the boys ignore her, she still takes the initiative. I think they are particularly wronged. It's probably because this boy doesn't seem to like so many girls chasing him.
There must be a lot of girls chasing handsome guys. After all, who doesn't want to get a good-looking one? Just like when you see a handsome guy, you will definitely go to him. This is a girl's nature, right? But some girls may be really different, but most of them can't walk when they see a handsome one.
At the moment, I am telling my story in tears.
When I was in kindergarten, the little girls were willing to squeeze into my bed during the nap.
When I was in primary school, girls asked me to jump rubber bands with me and take out the best and latest rubber bands.
When I was in junior high school, everyone brought their own lunch at noon. I never brought it, because girls give me delicious food every day.
In high school, I filled in my volunteers. There were several girls who could have entered a better university, but in order to enter a school with me, all of them ruined their future and lowered their standards.
When I was in college, girls took notes for me in class, occupied seats for me in self-study classes, and the beauty queen of the school washed my clothes.
When you graduate, apply for a job in your favorite company. After seeing me, the female examiner immediately persuaded the others behind me to leave, and then said that I was "good material, so I should stay with me and cultivate it well"!
Now women are always around me, and men are jealous of me. To tell the truth, I really wish I were a plain-looking man, so I wouldn't have to be so upset.
"It's all over, it's all over, No.250, stop giving a speech, get off the table quickly and take today's medicine!" The nurse greeted me.
"So many people are saying that they are handsome, why should I give it to myself?"
Boys are very handsome. If you meet a girl who is infatuated with flowers, you may not imagine too much. It is possible to actively pursue and even throw herself at you day and night. The popularity of small fresh meat is a typical example. Just like meeting a beautiful woman, boys will be fascinated.
Men and women have some differences in emotional attitudes. Boys are more susceptible to sexy factors, and the requirements for emotional loyalty may not be as high as those of women. Although the younger generation is more active, direct and casual, what they ultimately need from each other is a stable life.
Handsome is only the expression of appearance, and can't determine the internal factors. If you like it, you like it. Girls like handsome guys and boys like beautiful women, which are instinctive reactions to appreciate beauty. Just like enjoying beautiful scenery, different forms of beauty in life are pleasing to the eye, happy and comfortable. It is not the same thing as possession or not, nor is it a concept with love.
The ideal feeling is to hope that the other person is handsome, the flowers will tremble involuntarily, and the other person is not that kind of playboy. He likes himself as much as he likes each other, regards himself as the only one, and finally walks into the marriage hall happily!
Love and being loved, only two-way is happiness!
Well, hehe, tell me about your own experience. Please don't talk about it. When I was a sophomore, my cousin came to tell me that a girl had confessed to him. The content is, can you introduce me to your brother? I like him very much. I was too embarrassed to speak. During the third year of high school, freshmen are strangers. As soon as they entered the classroom, all the girls in the class laughed inexplicably. The university once took a train to play in other places, but the girl opposite had nothing to say. The point is that her grandparents are embarrassed to sit together. Later, she was a little tired, so she stood up and walked around for less than ten seconds. Another girl asked me, are you from Nantah (Nanchang University)? Um (o )… ...... I realized later that I was dressed very fancy that day. . . When I first started working, a little leader invited everyone to dinner. He is about 26 years old. I should be 23 by then. The leader's girlfriend has been saying that you are so handsome at the dinner table. Do you have a girlfriend or something? It is estimated that after three or four times, my boyfriend has a little opinion and reluctantly agreed. Fortunately, we were shy and became wives after talking about one. Now that I think about it, there are really many opportunities. My wife joked with me that it's not a problem to change girlfriends once a month if you are more courageous (O_O)?