Stepping into the university campus, we started a brand-new university life. Without the constraints of teachers and parents, students will have the idea of falling in love more or less, including me. Every time I walk into the playground, there are couples passing by; In the restaurant, couples sit face to face. Makes people jealous. Some people say that "college is the most beautiful stage of life, and we need to talk about a vigorous love." Even if they are not together in the end, they will become the most precious memories of life "; He also said that "the main task of the university is to study, and falling in love will make us unable to concentrate on our studies and waste valuable time in the university." Nowadays, the problem of college students' love has become the focus of social attention. What we need to do is to treat love in college rationally and not to fall in love for the sake of falling in love. In my sophomore year, I talked about the first love in my life. There are no beautiful flowers or romantic poems, only a simple "Let's be together". Since then, we have entered each other's world. We go to class together, and we go to a restaurant to eat together. I have experienced the happiness of love that I have never had before. Some people say, "We live in an era when love is called fast food, and the passion for love comes and goes quickly.". I think our relationship is much more than that. She said to me the most correct sentence from the three views: "Love itself is mutual verification. There will always be some people who can't stand the noise and quit halfway, and those who stay will continue to be tested. " We usually have some arguments and quarrels. There are no lovers who quarrel in the world, but every time they quarrel, I will think of this sentence. Maybe she also realized that things were not serious enough to be irreparable. We all give each other time to ease each other's emotions. Falling in love has taught us a lot and can be said to have benefited a lot. Let yourself grow up unconsciously and become a responsible and responsible person, which not only tempered your patience, but also broke through your bottom line for the other party, made up for your shortcomings and exercised your various abilities. Therefore, rational love can not only give each other spiritual sustenance, but also break through the shackles of the fast-food love era. Now that we have entered the junior year, the school has arranged internship tasks for us, requiring us to practice in various enterprises for a period of time, so that we can start a long-distance relationship and can only call each other after work to talk about work experience. I asked her, "After we are separated, will our love for each other decrease with time?" She said: "Although there is a distance in different places, love has never studied geography. "I have lived in a different place for three months now, and we keep an hour of telephone conversation every day. I won't feel that our love is slowly disappearing; On the contrary, our love grows stronger and stronger when we are away from home. Falling in love and going to school seem to be incompatible. Either love delays school or school can't compete with love. But in fact, contemporary college students can't artificially position love as a scourge with this black-and-white attitude. As long as we can keep a proper balance between love and academic life, firmly believe and practice, love and academic life have never existed binary opposition, and they can often have both. Love and academic life can be catalysts for each other, so that we can reap the sweetness of love and the joy of academic success at the same time. Finally, I wish every college student can meet the right person in college life, make the right choice for each other and talk about a suitable love.