At first, I didn't understand the meaning of this sentence. After graduation, I realized that love in college is the purest and cleanest. College students are not oppressed by material life in love. Like to be together; If you don't like it, leave. The love of college students can last forever. Because their love is pure and flawless.
At the age of college, men are well-proportioned and women are graceful. In this period of rapid hormonal expansion, they are eager for the love and attention of the opposite sex. When they are in love, they can't get around this controversial topic: "Should college students have sex?"
All along, one faction supports and the other opposes. Supporters say that love between lovers is made. Since they are lovers, it is understandable to have sex; The opposition said: college students are immature both psychologically and physically, and they can't afford the relative responsibility. There are countless cases of love rat cheating guns in the name of love; Both sides hold their own opinions. They hate each other and neither obeys the other.
During the Spring Festival, I heard a reader's story backstage. I hope to share it with the young people here and hope it will help you.
Ben was as big as a flower, but he died young. Meihua was born in a happy family and got excellent grades. The happiness of family always makes plum blossom full of unspeakable charm. Since junior high school, there have been many suitors, but Meihua has never paid attention to them because she knows that her first task is to study.
Because of her outstanding achievements, Meihua was admitted to a key university with excellent results. She never wore makeup before, and received a cosmetic bag prepared by her mother during the summer vacation of college entrance examination. From the initial surprise to what clothes to wear and what lipstick to wear later, she is handy. The implicit beauty and various skills of talented women make Meihua quickly become a shining star on campus. College is less stressful than high school, and there is no class teacher to supervise who is in love every day.
Meihua, a shining star, has become the courtship object of male students in various departments. Love letters and flowers can be seen everywhere, but Meihua is not blinded by this illusion. She is absorbed in doing her own thing. Meihua longs for love, but Meihua also has its own standards for love.
In my sophomore year, a caring community organized a visit to a nursing home, and Meihua met Xiao Wei. This sunny, handsome and caring boy attracted Meihua, but what Meihua didn't know was that Xiao Wei fell in love with Meihua from the first sight. Maybe this is love at first sight in others' eyes.
Perfect match and beautiful appearance soon fell in love. They were inseparable. No matter how busy they are, they will make an appointment to visit the campus together every night. Meihua and Xiao Wei are walking along the road to see the scenery. They have become the envy of other couples and a widely circulated story in school.
On Xiao Wei's birthday night, Xiao Wei and Meihua didn't come back and spent the night outside. That night, Meihua gave everything to Xiao Wei. Xiao Wei also said that he would be responsible for Meihua all his life.
I thought everything was so beautiful, but how did life go so smoothly?
After two people taste the "fruit of love", they can't restrain their inner desires. In fact, we can all understand each other. Sometimes, because of the lack of sexual knowledge and the unbearable desire of both of them, they didn't take any safety measures in the process of stealing the "fruit of love" several times, so they often walked by the river without wet shoes.
Finally, after Meihua's holiday didn't come, two people realized the seriousness of the problem and went to the hospital. Sure enough, Meihua is pregnant, and it is still a difficult ectopic pregnancy, followed by borrowing money, having an abortion, and cultivating self-cultivation. From then on, Meihua became silent, and Xiao Wei looked distressed, but there was nothing she could do. In fact, both of them feel uncomfortable when such a thing happens.
Wei is also a responsible person. He wants to bear all the consequences, but love is always so subtle. It always comes and goes gently, without taking anything away. Leaving only pain and scars. In the end, Yuanyang parted ways.
After the separation, Meihua concentrated on her studies. Because of her excellent grades, she was assigned to a very good foreign company after graduation. After experiencing a painful trough, plum blossom also ushered in the climax of life, with a double harvest of career and love. However, just years ago, when they were about to get married, the next bad luck came.
Before getting married, the obstetrician in Meihua said that the abortion in Meihua had a great influence on the ovary, which may not be the mother's fault. This is undoubtedly the biggest blow to the bride. She doesn't know what to do. After she finally calmed down, Meihua decided to tell her husband all her secrets at the wedding, because Meihua felt that since they were getting married, they should be honest with each other, don't be angry, don't cheat, and her enlightened husband accepted Meihua. Meihua finally found their own happiness, and I believe they can be happy all their lives.
I wonder what you thought of sex when you were a student. As far as I'm concerned, I think we should restrain ourselves, because we have no self-control and no ability to bear the mistakes we made when we were students. As for the "sex life" as a student, there is nothing wrong with it if you can control it reasonably and live a reasonable and safe private life. If you can't handle it rationally, I don't think so, because we are in that state.