Love is the eternal theme of mankind. Since the emergence of human beings, there has been love, and the history of love constitutes a part of human history. Love is the most beautiful and deepest feeling of human beings. Goethe once said, "Which young student is not good at love and which young girl is not good at Chun Qing", which is the purest feeling in human nature. However, in real life, everyone's love experience is different and their feelings about love are different. It can not only bring happiness and happiness, but also unbearable pain and trouble. The so-called love is the strongest, most sincere and lasting attraction and admiration between men and women based on their physical and psychological needs under certain social relations.
College students' love view and existing problems
1, dependence psychology. It is caused by the loneliness of the only child and the habit of others' care and care. It belongs to the "emotional sustenance" type of love motivation, lacks independent consciousness and self-reliance ability, is easily frustrated, and needs someone to talk to.
2. Loneliness. Some students feel that they are too lonely in college, doing nothing all day, and eager to find the other half to spend boring time with them.
3. Game psychology. His love motive is to satisfy the desire to communicate with the opposite sex, seek excitement, and even have premarital sex, which is completely irresponsible. 4. Popular psychology. Everyone around me is in love, and I feel embarrassed that I haven't fallen in love yet.