1. College students: students studying in institutions of higher learning. It is a set concept, which refers to college students as a whole. Judging from today's debate, he has three characteristics:
First, the main task of college students is to study.
Second, college students are still in psychological weaning period, and their social experience is not mature. Third, college students are generally not completely independent economically. 2. Extensive: a wide range and scope. Its extension excludes any restrictions. Judging from today's debate, it requires college students to contact the society from all angles.
3. Social communication: refers to the communication between people in society. For the special group of college students, this word refers to interpersonal communication besides learning various professional theories and related knowledge.
Logical level: (1) Advantages and disadvantages are relative. We admit that social communication has its advantages, but in the real society, its disadvantages are more prominent and have a greater impact on college students.
(2) The breadth of horizontal scope will inevitably lead to the lack of vertical depth, and extensive social interaction will easily lead to insufficient communication depth and understanding of people or things.
Theoretical level: (1) Psychological research shows that college students are still in psychological weaning period. In this psychological state, extensive social communication will only be affected by the trend. Finally, it is difficult to extricate themselves in various communication activities, and some even don't know the direction.
(2) From the materialistic point of view, there must be a limit for doing anything, and the practical level beyond this limit is as follows: (1) College students are too socialized, make friends carelessly, and go astray. (2) College students are inexperienced and become victims of illegal pyramid schemes and other criminal activities. (3) College students have extensive social contacts, but they can't know people, which leads to physical and mental injuries. (4) College students have a wide range of social contacts, but they can't distinguish various ideas well, which leads to the breeding of bad ideas such as money worship and hedonism.
College students spend too much time socializing, which leads to the decline of academic performance, and some even fail to graduate.
(6) Generally speaking, college students are not completely independent economically, and truly extensive social communication requires not only time and energy, but also a certain economic foundation. Value level: (1) From the personal value point of view, college students' extensive social interaction does more harm than good, so they can't weigh the relationship between social interaction and learning more rationally, so as to make themselves grow better.
(2) From the perspective of social development, college students' extensive social communication does more harm than good, which is not conducive to our contemporary college students to study professional knowledge more intently on campus, leading to the inability to better promote social progress in the future. Conclusion: Moderate and beneficial socialization of college students is helpful to improve their comprehensive ability. But once it is widely socialized, it will do more harm than good to college students, a special group.
Second, another argument speculates that:
1, ignoring the special identity and main tasks of the debate subject "college students" and not considering the issue from the perspective of college students. 2. Simply understand extensive socialization as socialization, ignoring the special requirements of the word extensive. Or add "selective" conditions before extensive to narrow the scope of the debate.
3. Emphasize that college students should exercise themselves in social activities, but ignore the principle of gradual progress, and their mentality is too impetuous. 4. It is too one-sided to only see the benefits of socializing without realizing the disadvantages of socializing, especially the extensive socialization. There is no specific explanation of the relative logical relationship between the disadvantages outweigh the advantages and the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.
Although universities are different from primary schools and secondary schools and have certain independence and autonomy, they are still highly theoretical schools. College students, in particular, have a successful college entrance examination experience, an ambitious environment and a certain knowledge base, so they generally have lofty goals, high momentum and even pride. However, the emergence of this mentality is not completely mature, because the university is only preparing for the success of its future career and has not done anything. How can tomorrow be inconclusive?
Therefore, there are the following problems:
1. Through extensive communication and social practice, I have a deep understanding of the practical operability of production and life, and realize that success is "stepped on" step by step, not "jumped out", but with my feet, not with my eyes. This is conducive to walking down the steps, being serious, doing things seriously, and studying hard.
2, extensive communication, is conducive to learning the advantages of others, remind yourself of shortcomings, improve communication skills, professional ability, way of thinking and comprehensive quality, and so on.
3. Understand the society, discover and create future employment opportunities.
4, extensive exchanges, you can make like-minded people.
5. Extensive communication can make you feel happy.
But also pay attention to:
1. In communication, you should have a choice. First of all, you should have a good personality and don't do harm to yourself.
2, thinking in communication, to gradually mature.
3, to allocate time reasonably, can't affect the study.
4, don't cause economic burden.
In a word, extensive communication is necessary, which is an invisible compulsory course in universities.
Everything has two sides. Although there are advantages, there are also disadvantages. I think it depends on the actual situation. As a college student, the first thing to learn is how to be a man. In this case, we can only communicate with others. After graduating from college, we will go to the society. Socialization is one of our learning tasks. Only by learning well can we enter the society smoothly, but we can't just mix in the society. Entering the university is our top priority, and we can't make ends meet. I think as long as we join some clubs in the university, we will get exercise there, and learning is very important. Although extensive socialization has given us certain abilities, I believe that extensive socialization in universities does more harm than good.
Let's learn how to communicate with others, how to be a man, how to better integrate into society, and teach us what we can't learn in school.
The disadvantage is that if we can't handle the relationship between the two, we will neglect our studies. Wouldn't it be better to step into society without going to college?
Students are born to learn and can only enrich themselves after class.
As a college student, extensive social contacts can help you to exercise your eloquence and communication skills in your future work, which are the most needed abilities in your future work. No matter what industry you are engaged in, you will face this test in the interview. If you exercise in college, you will be very comfortable at work!
Good evening, judges and opponents.
The richness of college life gives college students a broader space for activities outside of classroom study, and various social activities are numerous. With regard to the discussion on the advantages and disadvantages of today's extensive social activities, we believe that the so-called extensive social activities refer to actively participating in various social activities and expanding the social scope after completing the task of classroom learning. Social activities here include both on and off campus.
Our argument is based on the following four aspects:
First of all, extensive social interaction is not excessive social interaction. When we talk about socializing, we don't completely give up classroom learning and put most of our energy into socializing. Extensive social communication has a positive effect on the ability training and future development of college students, which is essentially different from excessive social communication.
Secondly, social ability is an extremely important part of college students' education, and social ability is an important part of comprehensive ability, which has a great influence on college students' future society. The most direct and main way to cultivate social ability is to practice, that is, to participate in various social activities extensively. Therefore, college students' extensive social communication is not only to cultivate their own ability, but also to accumulate their own development.
Thirdly, an English writer once made a metaphor: "If you have an apple and I have an apple, if we exchange with each other, we will have two apples. If you have an idea and I have an idea, we will have two or more ideas when we communicate with each other. " This metaphor points out the most distinctive advantages of people in the process of communication. There is a saying in the classic ancient book "The Analects of Confucius" that "three people must have a teacher". On the road of college students' growth, there will inevitably be shortcomings and deficiencies, which makes us need extensive communication more, so as to get help from all sides, improve ourselves, make ourselves learn better and make our thoughts progress faster.
At the same time, only when college students learn how to socialize in this small society, can they just adapt to society when they go to society. We don't deny that college students lack social experience, but we can't refuse to socialize because of all kinds of people, let alone behind closed doors because of chaotic interpersonal relationships.
Fourth, university education is different from high school, and it cannot be evaluated only by academic performance. The university has a transition stage from campus to society, and university education only prepares and lays the foundation for future life development. It pays more attention to the improvement of comprehensive ability, not just the accumulation of knowledge. Therefore, the judgment of advantages and disadvantages should be based on the improvement of comprehensive ability, not just the failure of academic performance.
As a college student, extensive social contacts can help you to exercise your eloquence and communication skills in your future work, which is the most needed ability in your future work. No matter what industry you are engaged in, you will face this test in the interview. If you exercise in college, you will be very comfortable at work!
To sum up, college students should socialize widely!