With the college entrance examination in 2008 drawing to a close, another group of students who have gone through the cold window for ten years will soon step into the beautiful university campus, the ivory tower that fascinates them infinitely in the autumn and September harvest season. I hope that young students can make some preparations for life in advance, take the initiative in life and study, and face the future easily. I wish every student a colorful and relaxed college life!
The intense middle school life is over. After a period of complete relaxation, many graduates began to have some curiosity and questions about college life and study. So, what psychological preparations should freshmen make before entering school?
1, it is not good to relax completely.
Many students think that after studying hard for 12 years, they finally went to college and achieved their goals, so they should relax completely. Some students with poor self-control play all day because they are far away from their families and have no parents' advice and restraint. As a result, some freshmen light up a red light at the end of the first semester, facing persuasion and re-reading. In fact, the study life in college is very different from that in high school. On the surface, it feels relatively relaxed, but it emphasizes students' self-management and independent learning. Therefore, a completely relaxed attitude is particularly necessary for freshmen.
2. Adjust your self-mentality
Another freshman situation is also very common. Many students who scored well in the college entrance examination were outstanding in the eyes of teachers and parents in high school, but when they arrived at universities, especially prestigious schools, the students around them were very similar in level, and naturally they lost their original aura. Some people will have psychological problems because they can't adapt to such a big gap. In this process, freshmen should learn to re-recognize themselves and their surroundings, adjust their mentality, find their own advantages, and learn from their classmates, their advantages and methods.
3, familiar with the environment to adapt to life
Entering the university gate, whether it is campus area, learning environment or lifestyle, it is very different from middle school. Most students want to go to school in other places, which is a big change. There will be a certain gap between the living environment and humanistic environment in my hometown and the school environment that I will face soon, which may make some students feel extremely unaccustomed. Some students, in particular, are accustomed to the life with clothes in their hands and food in their mouths, and feel even more at a loss in the face of the upcoming independent life. Therefore, parents are strongly advised to teach freshmen some life skills before they enter school.
In addition, if you are studying in a different place, it is suggested that freshmen can use their leisure time to walk around the new city, get to know the local customs with their new classmates, and let their new life get through the running-in period and get on the right track as soon as possible.
4, master the correct communication methods.
No matter where you go, friends are indispensable to everyone. College students come from all corners of the country, and the differences in living habits and cultural background are more obvious than in middle school. Some students with poor family conditions sometimes feel inferior and are unwilling to take the initiative to communicate with others; There are also some students who only care about their own reading and study, and their interpersonal relationships are in a mess. Their view is that as long as you study hard, nothing else matters. As everyone knows, this will miss an excellent opportunity to exercise your interpersonal skills, and in the future work, if you don't get along well with others, you are likely to hit a wall everywhere. Therefore, in college, bold and sincere communication with students with different personalities will make your life colorful.
5. Self-management and independent learning
After 12 years of study, I can be admitted to the university. I believe that most people also have certain learning ability and learning methods, but university study emphasizes autonomy more. Without the supervision of teachers and parents, some people may relax themselves, skip classes and study by themselves, just waiting for the exam to sharpen their swords. The consequence of doing so is often that they will encounter a red light and retake the exam, which will not only waste time, but also affect graduation. Some people have even been dismissed because of too many failed courses, and years of hard work have gone down the drain. It can be seen that freshmen are responsible for themselves and their future, and it is very important to learn self-management and autonomous learning.
6. Set goals and prepare early
To spend a meaningful four-year college life, you must make a plan for yourself. During my college years, I set some basic goals and make an overall plan for my four-year study time, such as when to take CET-4, when to pass CET-6, what professional skills to master, and what qualifications to get before graduation. Set goals, make preparations in advance, and take the initiative in future graduation work, which will be easier in the future. If you think about it after graduation, you will torture yourself to exhaustion. At the same time, the determination and gradual realization of the goal will also give you enough confidence and support!