Did you have a relationship when you were young, giving everything for love and leaving no way out? But in the end, I found that not all love can bring a happy ending.

People who thought they could spend the rest of their lives together often can't accompany you to the end. Too persistent, too hard-working, too emotional, and often "affectionate".

When you give everything you have and are disappointed by others, will you still believe in love and continue to love bravely?

Some people, after being hurt by feelings, will never believe in love again, while others are more frustrated and brave. Even though they were black and blue, they still pursued true love again and again without hesitation.

Wang's Red Rose and White Rose belongs to the latter.

Jiao Rui, described by Zhang Ailing, is the most desirable red rose in men's hearts. It is bright and warm, which makes people want to stop.

Tong Zhenbao stayed at a friend's house after returning to China. After many days together, he fell in love with his friend's wife, Wang.

Jiao Rui was originally a social butterfly who didn't understand love. She is kind everywhere, attracting bees and butterflies. But the carefree and happy life of this social butterfly has changed because of the emergence of treasures.

Wang's wife fell in love with Zhen Bao, a diaosi boy who was born in poverty and returned from studying abroad. Like Hua, she was moved by Zhen Bao.

Zhen Baoming knows that a friend's wife can't be bullied, but he still can't resist the temptation of Jiao Rui. Jiao Rui, with all kinds of amorous feelings, is sycophantic, coquettish and dissolute, which is also an irresistible fatal temptation.

But Jewel has the thinking of a traditional man in China, and a woman like Jiao Rui can only be a lover, but can't marry. Looking for a wife is to find a good woman with an innocent family background, so as to suit a family.

So Zhenbao abandoned Jiao Rui, who was desperate for him, and married the same woman in his heart-Meng, a college graduate with clean net worth, handsome face and gentle temperament.

Zhenbao has a man's inferiority complex. Emotionally, she likes a slutty prostitute, but intellectually, she knows how to marry a decent woman.

At the end of the story, the dissolute lover becomes an ordinary wife, but the innocent wife has an affair with the little tailor.

Treasure has to face a real world full of holes.

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Red Rose Jiao Rui's love is warm, no matter what.

This article describes Jiao Rui's love for Jewel: Jiao Rui sat next to Jewel's coat, letting the smell of cigarettes on her clothes hang over her, and even lit the cigarettes he left behind ... The cigarette ends still smelled of him, so she imagined love through such contact.

This woman in love loves a man deeply, so she will do such a thing, covet his breath and fall in love with everything about him.

Since falling in love with treasures, Jiao Rui knows what true love is.

Once upon a time, Jiao Rui's heart was an apartment where all kinds of men came in and out. However, in order to protect the treasure, she demolished it and rebuilt it. With the completion of her heart, she cleaned her heart and abandoned everything. From then on, there was only one treasure in her heart.

Once a woman like Jiao Rui falls in love, she never wants to leave a retreat for herself.

Jiao Rui was completely caught up in the whirlpool of love and divorced her husband desperately. However, in the face of the passionate love of her lover Jiao Rui, Zhenbao ran away timidly.

As Jiao Rui himself said, this time, it was a bad woman who was cheated.

In love, whoever falls in love first loses. Whoever loves deeply is humbler.

Jiao Rui, who is brave, passionate and eager for love, meets Zhen Bao, who is cowardly and selfish. This time, she was completely hurt in love. She was deeply hurt and defeated.

Later, Zhenbao married an innocent woman. In the trivial life day after day, he couldn't stand the indifferent life, and spent all day having fun in the outside world.

Jiao Rui, who knows what true love is, fell down here in the treasure, but in the later days, she bravely searched for love again and again and lived bravely, calmly and resolutely.

After all, Bai Yueguang became the rice grain on her clothes, and the red rose became the Zhu Shazhi in her heart.

After many years, Tong Zhenbao reunited with his lover. Jiao Rui is still red lips, still tall eyebrows, still so enchanting amorous feelings, but powder can't cover the old face, and beauty is always lost to the ruthlessness of years.

Jiao Rui calmly said to Treasure, "Only since you started, have I learned how to love seriously ... Love is good after all. Although I have suffered, I still want to love in the future, so ... "She went on to say," When I was young, I always met men, but in the end, there were other things besides men ... "

Jiao Rui, a former lover, became ordinary and old when she smiled, but she still had a slightly gaunt, greasy, gaudy and old beauty.

Even if the beauty died, Jiao Rui was happy.

Tong Zhenbao first felt embarrassed and jealous, and then shed inexplicable tears. From this experience, in Jiao Rui's calmness and calmness, he read Jiao Rui's bravery, calmness and fortitude.

Zhen Baoben thought that meeting again after many years should be the woman who was abandoned by himself, but unexpectedly, in the face of gaunt and old Jiao Rui, Zhen Bao shed tears off guard and didn't even understand himself.

Jiao Rui, reunited with his lover, just looked at each other quietly. In her eyes, after Qian Fan, she was relieved, and she loved without regrets.

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When I was a child, I watched "Red Rose and White Rose", only remembering the most classic passage of Zhang Ailing:

"Maybe every man has had two such women, at least two, and married a red rose. Over time, the red one turned into mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still' the bright line at the foot of my bed'; " When you marry a white rose, the white rose is the rice grain on your clothes, and the red rose is the Zhu Shazhi in your heart.

It's human nature that what you can't get is always the best, and what you are obsessed with is never available.

No matter how bright and moving the red rose is, after the passion fades under the polishing of time, the bright red will be dim and the original heart will become numb; No matter how pure the white rose is, with the passage of time, Bai Yueguang will become a yellow-faced woman in the blink of an eye.

When I was young, I couldn't understand the tears of treasures. Obviously, he abandoned Jiao Rui, a woman who loved him, but when they met many years later, they couldn't help crying.

I only read sympathy and regret from the tears of Treasure.

Zhen Baoying should still remember the beauty of falling in love and feel sorry for ruining the glamour in Absolute Beauty.

After many years, I reread Red Rose and White Rose and suddenly understood a lot.

In fact, Zhenbao loves himself the most.

Zhenbao certainly didn't expect that the lover who was abandoned by himself had a calm happiness after many years, but the life he worked so hard to build was full of holes and could not bear to look straight.

Treasure's tears are full of helplessness to reality, pity for the woman she loved, jealousy of her happiness, regret of her love, and all kinds of complicated emotions turn into tears.

As Professor Chen Guo of Fudan University said, in fact, the person who pays the most in love is not necessarily a loser. You are kind to a person, even if you don't return it now, at least it will never be in vain. Many years later, it suddenly occurred to me that it was definitely not you who shed tears. Have you ever seen anyone let go of their feelings? Have you ever seen anyone who can escape?

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Recently, I saw a letter from a divorced wife to an derailed husband on the Internet. I believe it tells the hearts of many women who have paid their youth in marriage, but they have paid a deep affection by mistake:

I love you. I tried my best.

Leave, I won't look back.

Years later, who knows who will regret it? Who will cry?

In real life, there are many men like Zhenbao who yearn for the passion of red roses and demand a stable and decent life. However, in the end, we have to face the reality of the heart. Red roses will turn into mosquito blood, and Bai Yueguang will turn into rice sticks.

No matter who you are with, the passion will eventually fade, and the emotions that have been precipitated for many years will be stronger. Plain is the most real life.

There is a saying in To Youth that we should all be ashamed. We love ourselves far more than love.

Many years later, when we think of the past, maybe what we give up and miss is a completely different life.

If you love, please love deeply, if you don't love, please let go, and you will never look back in this life. I don't know the value of love until I leave. Don't wait until it's too late to regret it.

I hope each of us can have a life without regrets. Looking back after many years, there will be no debtors and no tears of regret.