Find the right time to encourage children.

Some parents feel unreasonable about their children's timidity and lack of confidence. Children are still lively at home. How can they be coy and afraid to speak in crowded places or when they meet strangers? In fact, lack of self-confidence is a manifestation of children's imperfect personality development and a common problem in childhood. Although there are some genetic factors in the formation of over-introverted personality, it is mainly caused by improper education and the influence of surrounding environment.

Too much doting at home, too strict with children and frequent threats may make children's personality more and more introverted and timid. When parents realize that their children are too timid, on the one hand, parents can't worry, and blindly asking and blaming will only make their children feel more insecure. Protecting children's self-esteem and finding appropriate opportunities to encourage them are the right choices.

There is another girl in our class, Yi Yi, who is very introverted and unconfident. Usually talk to me in a low voice. One morning, I was inviting a student on duty. When asked, "Who wants to be a student on duty today?" The children scrambled to raise their hands, and Yiyi timidly raised her little hand. I quickly seized this rare opportunity and asked her to be the duty student today. She looks very happy. After eating snacks, she was busy counting and putting cups; After lunch, she carefully separated the spoon ... Before going to school, I praised her in front of everyone, and the children clapped their hands for her and even smiled shyly.

Since then, I have found that Yiyi can take the initiative to participate in activities, and her enthusiasm has also improved. From this, I thought about the influence of group activities on children's psychological quality. In group activities, we should pay more attention to let children have a sense of accomplishment and pleasure. After a while, in a story performance, Yiyi actually raised her hand several times, and each time her answer was more accurate. Therefore, parents encourage their children to communicate with their peers and teachers.

Collective communication plays a great role in cultivating children's good psychological quality. Children often have strong emotional experiences in groups. When they finish a job, they gain experience and enhance their self-confidence. When they face problems again, they can overcome difficulties with confidence.