Love also pays attention to fate, and we can't talk about it if we want to. Man is a very complicated creature, and it is not easy to meet someone who is congenial to him in many ways.
High school life is restricted by strict rules. Under the realistic influence of parents and college entrance examination, we may have had a budding spring, but in the end, most of us will choose to suppress ourselves and concentrate on our studies.
Entering university life, relaxed system, abundant funds, rich time, parents thousands of miles away, beautiful little sister, handsome little brother, everything seems to hint to you.
Here, I want to analyze the reasons from the perspective of boys. First, due to the limitation of majors, there is little contact with the opposite sex, and most science and engineering men are really unsociable, which increases the difficulty of making girlfriends. Second, playing games, eating, drinking and sleeping almost occupy most of the time of science and engineering men, so they have no time and energy to fall in love. Third, personal reasons, stop-and-go, stop-and-go, miss one, maybe there will be no next one.
Contemporary college students' lifestyles are more diverse, and their understanding of happiness is also changing quietly. When a person is used to it, he is not only used to loneliness but also loves freedom. Suddenly it becomes a two-person mode, but I feel tied behind my back, which adds a lot of burden to meeting inappropriate people. After reading the complicated and changeable love stories in the adult world, I am more worried and afraid of love, more insecure, unwilling and afraid to put love in the supreme position.
"As a song goes,' If I really decide to give my heart, can someone tell him not to make me sad?' It is not difficult to understand why they are more willing to' meet the right person' to end their single life. In addition, college students begin to accept blind dates and acquaintances, which also shows their desire for love and the limited scope of their interpersonal communication.
I suggest that college students should establish a correct concept of love, pursue love in the right way, love others and love themselves, and sweet love is the time when two people get better and better together. "Now everyone is talking about' soul mates', and everyone is more serious about feelings than before. It is not easy to talk about a vigorous love. Many college students ignore their own lack of mature spiritual world and relatively perfect material conditions, and are not ready to be responsible for their feelings. In this case, rashly saying that you want to fall in love hurts yourself and others.