During college, everyone came from all corners of the country, and there were many differences in family conditions and looks and heights, especially in the north and south. When you go to college, you will know that boys will be so delicate and gentle, tall and burly, and naturally many girls will meet the prince charming they expect in their hearts.

However, when looking for a boyfriend, it is not recommended to find a boy whose family background and face value are far apart. Even if the other person pursues himself, or occasionally encounters, such feelings may be doomed to be unequal from the beginning. If the other person is just having fun on a whim, then it is himself who is injured in love, because the boyfriend is handsome and feels proud, because the boyfriend is willing to spend money on himself, which leads to his excessive dependence on his boyfriend.

If you can't extricate yourself from such feelings, what you have to insist on is to constantly improve yourself and make yourself a valuable person who has reason to make the other person inseparable from you. If you compromise, you will eventually be in a passive position in such feelings, and naturally there will be no better results.

love rat

I don't know if you have heard the saying "men are not bad, women don't love them". This is not unreasonable. Bad men can often say a lot of sweet words and do a lot of things that move girls, which will naturally please girls, but such boys are often affectionate and most of them have to bear a lot of injuries together.

Even before that, many people were proud to be "love rat", which made people feel very puzzled. Responsible for a relationship and a person, shouldn't it be the most admirable look of a man in love?

You can tell if a boy is love rat. Sometimes just look at his cell phone. When a girl decides a relationship, she should know whether the boy in front of her is loyal to her feelings and will not make herself sad. If they persist in starting this love regardless of love rat's image, most of them will be hurt emotionally.

People in society

For this stage of the university, although it has entered adulthood and started the transitional stage from school to society, and its identity has gradually changed from a student to a social person, students are still students, and there will be a big gap in personal experience, vision and dealing with people.

I believe many people are more or less familiar with the news reports about female college students being killed and cheated. It's true in life. Due to the lack of social experience, it is often difficult to distinguish what to do, what not to do, what is true and what is false when falling in love with young people who work in society in life, which will become the cause of injury.

So try not to fall in love with people in society at school. There may be some novelty, some excitement, and some experiences that schools can't give, but these will often become their own injuries later.