1, there are really no other empty beds. Most schools have arranged beds at the beginning of students' enrollment. Even if someone moves out of the dormitory, there may be other arrangements for beds, which is inconvenient to vacate.
2, change the dormitory, disrupt the arrangement, bad management. Most schools arrange beds according to colleges and majors, which is not only convenient for colleges to check beds, but also convenient for housekeeping.
3, set a precedent, and some people followed suit. Once a precedent is set, there may be other students asking for a change of dormitory because of some trivial contradictions, which will increase management problems;
4. Students' contradictions are not resolved, and it will be even more troublesome if more contradictions breed. Counselors, as managers, of course hope that students will be healthy and graduate smoothly without accidents, especially the psychological health of college students, which has become a hot issue of social concern from time to time.
Changing dormitories does not only affect one person or one dormitory. There will be another dormitory involved. Suppose you want to change from dormitory A to dormitory B, which happens to have beds, and the counselor should consider whether the people in dormitory B want new members to enter; If dormitory B is full, it will be in trouble. Counselors can't force people who live well in the original dormitory to move out, and then you can go in.
Generally speaking, getting along with classmates also reflects a person's ability to deal with interpersonal relationships. Personal differences are great, and contradictions are normal. When we face the contradiction with others, we should first consider how to ease the contradiction from our own point of view, instead of intensifying the contradiction or dealing with it coldly.