Learn to understand each other. Everyone has his own living habits and personality. We live in a group rather than an isolated individual. We should pay attention to the influence of our actions on others. For example, don't disturb others' rest, respect others' privacy and so on.
Learn to tolerate each other. When the other party makes mistakes, learn to tolerate each other and don't haggle over every ounce. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes. Tolerance to the other party is the embodiment of our demeanor, and it will also make the other party feel your goodwill and enhance your goodwill.
Learn to help each other. Giving selfless help to roommates when they are in trouble can not only cultivate our quality of helping others, but also help roommates get care and enhance trust when they are vulnerable, which is also very beneficial to the cultivation of the relationship between the two sides.
Learn to share with each other. Sharing here includes not only material sharing, but also spiritual sharing. You can enjoy delicious food with your roommate, or you can share some happy things with him, so that two people can achieve spiritual communication.
Strengthen communication. Communicate more at ordinary times to avoid conflicts. When conflicts arise, they can also be solved through effective communication. Through heart-to-heart communication, we can achieve the purpose of understanding and ease the roommate relationship.
Don't eat alone, share often.
Don't hide all the delicious food you bought and eat it yourself. You should know how to share with your roommates in the dormitory, so that the snacks or fruits bought by your roommates will be shared with you next time. Of course, some people will think that they are ordinary snacks. If they can afford them at home, they don't have to share them with their roommates. Many people here have misunderstood that the focus is not on what to eat, but on sharing this behavior. Everyone will feel lonely when they leave home and go to school with their parents in a strange environment. Sharing your warm heart is a very good way to attract good feelings.
Don't touch your roommate's things.
You can't tamper with other people's things without permission. This is what our parents told us when we were young. We should pay more attention when we go to college. Although you live in the same dormitory, you can't touch your roommate's things casually, which is very disrespectful to others. Especially some fragile and perishable items, if they are damaged, you may find out who touched them, which may involve the issue of compensation. Moreover, if your image in the dormitory is a person who likes to tamper with other people's things, people may be wary of you and will call you first if you lose something. There will really be a hundred schools of thought contending.
Respect your roommate's privacy and don't gossip.
Everyone has their own secrets, or private things that they don't want to talk about, especially family problems. When they find something that others don't want to talk about, they must cleverly avoid it. Don't pry into other people's privacy like a bitch.
Remember to keep quiet if you find your roommate still resting, whether in the morning or at night.
Because everyone's life is different, there are both night owls and early risers, so there will inevitably be some friction in the process of getting along, but in any case, we must remember that when others are resting, we must keep quiet or lower the volume.
Respect each other's interests, and don't deny or evaluate others' preferences and love beans.
Everyone has his own style, so he has his own hobbies and likes. No matter how different others are from yourself, whether in food, clothes, love beans or books, don't rush to deny others. You like others for your reasons. Only when others respect each other can you get along more happily!
Roommates are not relatives, so don't "dig your heart" from the beginning.
Prevent your roommate from leaving anything on you. Just after freshman year, everyone is unfamiliar. Everyone will hide themselves and show you the best. Finding a stable good friend will not come true until the end of sophomore year, so don't tell any secrets at first.
Don't borrow money easily
It is not easy for everyone's parents to make money. If you dare to lend it to him, he may not pay you back. Many relationships are broken from the beginning of borrowing money. If you are a good friend, I don't know how to ask him for it!
You are not RMB, so you can't "love everyone".
Whether there are four people, six people or more people in a university dormitory, their family background, growing environment and personality hobbies are bound to be different, so the way they interact with people will be very different. And in the process of getting along with these roommates, you will meet like-minded and like-minded people, and there may be a "eight-character disagreement." Facing this roommate who can't walk all the way, we should take it lightly and don't affect our mood.
Don't be afraid of a bad relationship, a person can live well.
If you are unfortunate enough to meet a roommate who is difficult to communicate with, likes to take advantage of small things and keeps saying that it is not good, don't tolerate retrogression because of the dormitory relationship, and express your views boldly and bravely. Even if the relationship is stiff, you can live a good life in college. Roommates are just passers-by living under one roof. No big deal.