Prepare before the meeting

1. Get to know each other's family briefly.

Occupation, family status (brothers and sisters), hobbies, personality, and whether it is convenient to start a topic when meeting.

punctual

Don't be late, don't be late! First impressions are really important!

3. Go to the other person's house to prepare gifts in advance.

The way to be a guest, even if you don't go to see your parents, you should prepare a small gift and choose a gift that suits your partner's heart.

4. Personal image is decent

Make up lightly, dress collocation should be close to warm colors, and the overall style should be simple and comfortable.

Pay attention to the meeting.

1. Chat and answer

When you ask your family, you don't deliberately cheat, but you choose well.

2. Talk about business and praise each other

Don't just be happy or shy when the other person praises you.

Praise each other for their youth, temperament, good craftsmanship, etc. And praise each other with the merchants. It's safer to know the way the other parents speak before dealing with it.

3. Inquiries about chatting

Before and after meals, ask questions to let the other person talk and create a topic. Such as physical condition, recent interesting things, boyfriend's past.

4. Don't try to please

You can help with some small things, such as clearing the table and pouring tea.

There is no need to please deliberately, just keep a natural and graceful attitude.

What to do after meeting.

1. Go home and send a voice.

Mainly to thank each other for their hospitality today, expressing that today's food was delicious and the chat was very happy. Secondly, compliment each other and hope to make an appointment again next time.

Make friends and keep in touch after dinner.

You can have a drink and chat with each other when you are free. They send friends, they will like it, they will attach comments, and they will become more and more familiar.

Send a small gift occasionally.

When you see a small gift suitable for each other, you buy it and give it to each other from the beginning. You can brush your kindness and enhance your feelings, but you don't mean to kiss up.

Step 4 analyze with your parents

After the meeting, discuss with your parents according to the actual situation and your satisfaction, and you can refer to their opinions. After all, ginger is still old and spicy.

Don't step on the thunder spot of chatting.

Don't be glib. Speak simply and without affectation.

Don't brag about yourself. You know, if you don't show intelligence, you are smart.

Don't be timid. Timidity, formality and shyness are the taboos of the first lover.

* Don't swear. Speak politely and don't say rude words.

Please don't talk about health if the other party is in poor health or sick.

Don't get involved in each other's private affairs. For example, retirement salary, previous employer, etc.

Don't look tongue-tied. It will make people feel very unstable and love to express themselves.

Don't talk about sensitive topics such as property, even if your family has good material conditions, keep a low profile.