A letter from my parents to my daughter-my dear daughter.
This is the first time my mother has communicated with you by letter. My mother has a lot to say to you.
First of all, from the first day you were born, you brought infinite happiness to your mother and the whole family. You are a chubby, lively and lovely beautiful little girl, and you are the darling of your mother.
But, baby. You may not be cute sometimes. You are always careless when you study. When you do your homework, you always write slowly. When encountering difficulties, always try hard and retreat. Mother wishes you could be more careful when you study. When you do your homework, I hope you hurry up, hurry up. You have no idea how anxious your mother is about this. She is worried that your homework is too slow, which will affect your rest, study and health. Mom also hopes that when you encounter difficulties, you can persevere and stick to it? Question? I won't stop until I figure it out. My mother likes Fan and other children.
You are also a broad-minded child, a very caring child. Usually, when you play with children, you will let your friends. When you hear that children in mountainous areas and earthquakes need help, you always pester your mother to donate money and materials, which makes her feel very gratified.
You are a child with good expressive ability and strong articulation. When reading, you are full of feelings. Mom wants you to give full play to your advantages. Raise your hand more and answer the teacher's questions more in class. Actively participate in activities organized by schools and classes. I hope you can cherish your present study life better soon. I also hope that you can give full play to your advantages, exercise yourself in many ways, and make yourself an excellent student and an excellent daughter.
In a word, mom said a lot to you. A few thin pages can't express your mother's love and expectation for you. You are the darling of your mother and the hope of your mother and the whole family. Mom wants you to be a lively, lovely, thoughtful, idealistic and moral boy in the process of healthy and happy growth.
Love your mother.
XXXX。 X. X
Letters from parents to their daughters Part II Dear Baby:
Study hard! This is the first time that Mom and Dad have written to you since you were born. At this moment, my father's mood is complicated, just like an overturned cruet. I don't know what language to use to describe it. For thirteen years, you have been by your parents' side. Mom and dad grew up with you and watched you grow from a babbling little girl to a slim girl. If the teacher hadn't assigned this homework, we would never have thought of writing to you or saying anything. Son, this is mom and dad's dereliction of duty!
You know what, son? Your mother happened to be in poor health when you were born. In order to ensure your health, her mother chose caesarean section and suffered a lot. Up to now, she still has a long and ugly scar on her stomach. Sometimes I am willful, lose my temper and yell at my mother. Do you know that your mother almost died trying to save your life? When we open the photo album, we often think of you as a child, with big black eyes, red lips and pink and tender face, which is embarrassing and pleasing. Whenever I hear music playing, I can't help twisting little ass, and every time I go out, I will lean on my father's shoulder and refuse to come down. At that time, how much laughter and happiness you brought to your parents! In the past 13 years, this home built for you by mom and dad is warm and full of love, although it is not grand and rich. /kloc-every day for 0/3 years, mom and dad have been caring about you, and we have been doing our best to give you the best care. No matter what you want to learn and buy, as long as it is beneficial to your growth and helpful to your study, mom and dad will try their best to satisfy you. Son, do you know all this? Do you feel it?
As you grow up day by day, we find that the clever and sensible baby is gone, and you begin to become willful, unruly, lazy and even indifferent. Our concern for you is nothing in your eyes. You can yell at your mom and grandma regardless, and shut yourself in your room when you are angry. How can you play dumb and ignore anyone? What you think is just hidden in your heart, and you won't tell mom and dad again. It's not like before, when mom and dad do things, you always follow behind and try to help us. We find that you are getting farther and farther away from us.
Son, mom and dad didn't mean to blame you for telling you this. We just want to tell you that when you grow up, you should learn to see the world with your own eyes and learn to think. Your task now is to study, learn how to live in the future, learn how to get along with others, and learn how to stand in this competitive era. There is no doubt that you are a clever boy, and the reason why your academic performance has not improved may be that your study method is wrong. My observation is mainly manifested in the following aspects. First, the teacher didn't concentrate in class, didn't listen carefully, had a little knowledge, and didn't understand it in time after coming down; Second, review and consolidation is not to study hard, but to finish homework and deal with things; Third, I don't know or master solid knowledge, and I don't explore and understand, so I am confused; Fourth, you dawdle and procrastinate, and a lot of time is wasted on dawdling. Children, learning this thing is irreplaceable by anyone. Only by your own efforts and slow thinking, don't regard it as a task or responsibility, but as interest and fun. Your future, everything in your future, depends on your continuous enrichment and improvement in your study, so that you can take every step in the future. Mom and dad can never replace you.
Children, people will encounter many things in their life, including happiness, pain, complacency and depression. Everyone came step by step. You grow up, but your parents are old. There is nothing we can do about your future. After decades of hard life experience, we just want to tell you a few things. I hope you can think deeply and take it as a warning in your future life and study: (1) There is no pie that can't be dropped. If you want to succeed and live better than others in the future, you must work harder than others now. No one can and cannot help you. (2) A person's life is short. If you don't cherish it today, you will find that life is far away from you tomorrow. Therefore, the sooner you cherish life, the more days you will enjoy it. In your life, no one has an obligation to be nice to you, except mom and dad. As for those who are kind to you, learn to cherish and learn to be grateful. (3) Learn how to get along with others, be kind to others and treat others sincerely. How you treat others doesn't mean that others will treat you. As long as you treat others sincerely, you will have many sincere friends, which will be a rare asset in your life. We won't ask you to support us for life. Similarly, we will not support you for life. When you are old enough to be independent, our responsibility will be over. Whether you want to take the bus or run Mercedes-Benz in the future, eating shark's fin or vermicelli is your own business. (5) Relatives have only one fate. No matter how long we will get along with you in this life, please cherish the time of * * * *; In the next life, whether you love it or not, you will never meet again.
Son, you must be tired of dad's nagging. I hope you can give yourself a good future and carefully taste what mom and dad said to you today.
Love your parents.
XXXX。 X. X
Letter from parents to their daughters: Dear baby daughter:
Now my mother has been regretting hitting you yesterday afternoon, and she can only confess to you through a pen. I hope you can forgive your mother and understand her heart. Thinking of the scene where you were beaten yesterday, my mother was very worried and uncomfortable. Forcibly subduing a minor who has just entered the third grade of primary school is a rude and cruel act. But you repeatedly refused to listen to your mother's advice, and her mother was extremely angry. But when mom saw you being beaten, she didn't even have the consciousness to resist. That was on you, breaking her heart. Mom would rather you avoided my waving hand at that time, rather you refuted me with reprimanding language than you didn't resist at all. You are weak, you are your mother's heart. My mother has always had high expectations for you, hoping that you will have a bright future, so it is inevitable that she will hate iron when dealing with your education.
Daughter, mom is sorry for you. She shouldn't beat you and discipline you forcibly, because you are weak, just like a small flower without buds in spring. Mom wants you to be strong, and I hope you can summon up the courage to protect yourself with strength. When I hit you, can you analyze the reason for hitting you? Why were you beaten? You can avoid me and go to another room when I hit you. You can take the initiative to admit your mistake. You can denounce my violence loudly. You can use your brain to deal with this matter, so that you won't be beaten. But don't wait to be beaten because you are afraid of being beaten. Mom's motivation is right, but the fault lies in the way she handles it. Because you are wrong, and let mom be wrong.
Your bad behavior:
(1) I didn't change my shoes when I came home from school, and I trampled the house very dirty. When your mother criticizes you, you just walk around the house in your socks, so your socks are not clean.
(2) Go to bed without brushing your teeth or washing your feet before going to bed at night. My mother told you earnestly that you just wouldn't listen and didn't implement it.
(3) Sleeping late every night, but staying in bed and reading late is not good for your eyes.
(4) I like to eat snacks, knowing that snacks are bad for my health, and insist on letting my mother buy them. It's not easy for mom to make money, and you don't pay attention to saving.
(5) If you don't like math class, it's because you didn't find it interesting. Every time I ask you to review your math, you feel bored. This is not good, because math is not good because you haven't practiced repeatedly, and your poor grades are not because you are careless, but because you are not skilled in doing problems and are not good at giving inferences. No matter what university you enter in the future, mathematics is the most important. Mom wants you to have fun, because mom believes that babies are the smartest.
Actually, my mother likes babies best. You are my mother's favorite person in the world. My mother wants you to study hard, get ahead in the future and give yourself a bright future. Among many children, you are the best, so my mother has always had high expectations for you. She doesn't want to push you forward. Mom wants you to be sensible and study hard. Listen attentively in class, read a lot of extracurricular books and learn a lot of knowledge during recess, and my mother will be very happy.
Mom doesn't put pressure on you. As long as you try your best, you must do your best. Even if I can't get into a key university in the future, my mother won't be disappointed because the baby has worked hard.
Does the baby have confidence to get rid of those bad habits? Are you confident to learn math well? Please give mom an answer.
At that time, my daughter cried after reading it and wrote me a letter, which moved me to tears and said that I valued the score too much and asked too much of her. Every time she failed in the exam, she was scolded. Also, I told her father to stop running: Dad, you are already very thin. Don't run away in the morning I hope you are fatter! ?
Although it has been nearly a year and a half, I feel that my daughter has grown up now. After reading the letter I wrote to her before, I felt that my education method at that time was really naive and secular. I don't know how I thought about it at that time. How can a child bear so many complicated questions about his future plans? Ha ha! Seeing my lovely daughter beside me, I will silently say:? Daughter, I'm sorry to forgive my mother's ignorance and childishness! ?
Love your mother.
XXXX。 X. X
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