Speaking of being a man, I think there is a classic saying in Fang and Yuan: Fang is the foundation of being a man; Circle is the way of life. This sentence sums up the essence of being a man. Being square is the foundation of being a man, that is to say, each of us should have our own principles, not to say that bad habits are also principles, but to tell us to have our own position and not to let others influence our thoughts. Harmony, as a way of life, requires us to be smooth, and smoothness is not cunning. It requires us to look at things from multiple angles and find the best way to solve the problem.
2) Don't show it to others for your own self-interest.
This sentence also tells us that for the sake of mental balance, don't do things that hurt others. There are many such examples in real life, and we often hear such words: I am in a bad mood today, so don't tamper with my words. What's more, it is to vent your unhappiness directly on others. In fact, what you get is only a short-term balance. Your behavior is likely to lose friends and sometimes even gain a permanent enemy.
3) Maintain physical and mental health
Speaking of which, I think Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature is very good. There is a simple example. When you concentrate on one thing, do you find yourself forgetting everything around you, sometimes even yourself? This is a good way to make yourself happy. Why do you say that? I don't believe you can try. When you treat everything you do as art, the result is art, and when you do one thing to the best effect, your art is born. So you have a sense of accomplishment? Needless to say, I must have been happy.
4) Know how to say no.
Speaking of which, there may be many people who don't understand. Don't worry, don't mind if I tell a short story. I still remember reading such a short story in a book, which impressed me deeply. It's a French boy. He is studying abroad. Once, his aunt went to see him. When she saw him, her aunt said, I'm hungry. I haven't had breakfast yet. You should treat me to breakfast. At that time, boys didn't have much money, but they couldn't refuse, so they went to an upscale restaurant with their aunt. His aunt ordered a lot of high-end snacks, and the money far exceeded that of the boy. Until his aunt finished all the snacks, the boy didn't speak, and his aunt spoke: it's time to check out. The boy didn't move, menstruation said. Isn't there enough money? The boy bowed his head at this moment, and menstruation said, silly boy, menstruation always only drinks a glass of milk for breakfast. You killed my aunt today. Actually, I know you don't have enough money, and I've been waiting for you to say "no"! So, is there such an example in our real life? Many people fight with others for so-called loyalty and not to exclude others, and some even go on the illegal road.
5) Know how to say nice things.
Since ancient times, no one has been unwilling to listen to good words. In the past, some eunuchs did not rely on one mouth, but in the end they still had supreme power. The same is true in real life. If you praise others, maybe they didn't show it at that time, but he (she) will be very happy and have a good impression on you. So, how can we know how to say good things? Not to say something unrealistic, but to grasp the psychology of others and find what others feel most proud of. At that time, others will have an idea that you and he (she) have a * * * sound in their hearts. At that time, he or she will soon accept you as a person.
6) Look at people from different angles
Why do we look at people from different angles? I wonder if we have met some people we hate in real life? Then, at this time, you will accept this question. No matter what kind of person, he or she has advantages. Let's not only see his (her) shortcomings, then you will lose many friends and won't see annoying people again, which will affect your mood. Therefore, in real life, we should find the advantages of others and use them for reference.
7) Know how to express your ideas in this way.
In real life, we often encounter such things. Sometimes we know something in our hearts, but we just can't express it. Because of this, we are often rejected by others on the way to job hunting. Then, learn to show yourself. First of all, we should improve our self-confidence, then we should understand what we want, and more importantly, we should keep a normal mind and not be nervous at critical moments.
8) Treat people sincerely
I have always felt that treating others sincerely will be rewarded one day, and there will always be times when I have never heard of stones. Maybe in real life, there are many things. When you care about others, you will be eager to get something in return. Then you will be disappointed, because not everyone knows how to be grateful. On the contrary, you will make yourself unhappy. Many people insist on it a few times, and it will pay off, but you will give up because you are too eager. So we should treat others sincerely, and then you will get their sincerity. It's only a matter of time.
9) Don't always keep love in your heart.
Why do you say that? Because everyone sometimes doesn't trust his intuition, sometimes he (she) clearly feels your love, but he (she) will want it from you, but for some reason, you don't say it, so he (she) will think that you are like this to everyone, and sometimes it will cause emotional breakdown. Therefore, love should be talked about sometimes, so that your lover can.
10) Treat your lover and don't ignore his or her existence.
Speaking of which, I am very touched, because I have lost it. When someone cares about you all the time for a long time, you will lose your feeling, just like you have been breathing, but sometimes you forget the existence of air. Then, treat your lover, especially the lover you spend your life with, and don't ignore his or her existence, because everyone wants to be affirmed by others, especially those closest to you. If you ignore it, your lover will find that you don't care about him or her and don't love him or her, and then you will choose to leave. Only in this way will you find that you have lost yourself.
1 1) Remember not to chatter.
I believe that few people will like chatterboxes, because your chatter will make people feel very annoyed. Even a restrained person can tolerate you once or twice. . . . . But one day, he (she) will be unbearable and will erupt like a volcano. You will lose your lover, friends and sometimes even betray others.
12) There are more strangers than enemies, especially women.
Perhaps speaking of this, our female compatriots will be unhappy, but I didn't say that all women hold grudges, but most of them hold grudges. They are not as tolerant as men. When what you have done has done great harm to her, she will be forced to do stupid things, and some even hold the idea of living and dying with you. Is it bad now? Therefore, in real life, we would rather have one more stranger than one more enemy, which is good for both people and ourselves, so don't harm others for our own selfish desires. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = As for starting a business, of course, college students should also consult their superiors and learn the entrepreneurial methods of successful entrepreneurs.