When a child goes to college, parents will feel that time passes faster and the child is drifting away. Parents are no longer the only ones in their world. They can take the initiative to contact their parents because they have no living expenses. They usually don't reply to messages for a long time, and then hang up after a few perfunctory words on the phone. Is the child really not sensible, or is it "something else"?

Every child is the pinnacle of parents' hearts. If you put it in your mouth, you are afraid of falling. Nowadays, many families are only children, and several people in a family revolve around a child. When you go to college, you will be completely separated from your parents. At this moment, don't mention how uncomfortable it is. If you don't let go, you may hurt your child.

When children go to college, most parents reach retirement age, and when they have more leisure time, they miss them more and more. They often think about what their children are doing now, whether they are cold or not, whether they are hungry or not, whether they are wronged or not, and even the more they think about it, the more afraid they are. Once they don't reply to the message immediately, they will stage a picture of the child being bullied in their minds and then start phone bombing.

In fact, the reason why parents think so is mostly because they feel that college life is very relaxed and there is nothing at ordinary times. Since there is no urgent matter, I will not contact, and my heart will come up. After all, it is understandable that children are worried about thousands of miles away.

Some parents think that their children are not sensible, so they forget their parents when they go to college, thinking about their own happiness and enjoyment, completely ignoring their lonely hearts, clinging to their children like old children, hoping to be together as when they were young and thinking about their children all the time.

First of all, college life is hardly that easy, especially in famous schools like 2 1 1 and 985. It's harder than high school. In addition to attending classes every day, I have to study by myself. The course content is very difficult. If you don't study by yourself after class, you will easily fall behind. Moreover, aspiring students want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, take the civil service examination or do textual research, and their study will be busier.

Not only mental work, but also mental fatigue. No one studies all day, and there will be other activities, such as joining clubs and social welfare activities and dealing with interpersonal relationships. It may be perfunctory when chatting. Actually, they are just very busy.

Second, after going to college, children grow up, their thoughts are more mature and stable, and they are independent in spirit. If there are any problems in life, they don't want to bother their parents. Most of them are solved by themselves, and they will not contact their parents often. Some students are very sensible, and they are worried that they have talked too much, and their parents are in a bad mood or in a wrong mood, and then they are worried.

Third, universities are semi-social. It can make many friends, form its own circle of friends, live in the same school, have more topics, chat with parents, have fewer topics, and naturally have less contact with parents.

Children are very busy and can't keep in touch with their parents often. What should parents do?

There is no parent who doesn't want to be with their children every day. Even if it's just a few simple words, they will be satisfied. But every time I contact my child, I am perfunctory. What should they do?

Just because children don't contact you often doesn't mean they don't care about you. When they encounter difficulties and setbacks, parents are the first people they think of, because parents are their most solid backing, so don't think that children are not sensible.

I went to college, I have reached the adult stage, and I will enter the society in another four years. Parents can't follow their children all their lives. After all, we should face the wind and rain alone, let go appropriately and give our children enough room for growth.

It is normal to have a "generation gap" between parents and children, but it should be expanded and more tolerant of each other. College students should consider from their parents' point of view, and parents should try their best to study, so that chatting can be more harmonious.

Nowadays, college students are still very sensible. They understand parents' eagerness to love their children, but they should not contact frequently. When chatting, we should also grasp the scale, and don't always blame the children's practices. If you have any questions, you'd better meet and communicate. The language is warm, but it may not be able to properly express the attitude at that time.

For college students, going to college is not too busy to talk to their parents. They still need to spend more time with their parents. Don't wait until their children want to keep them, then they will regret it. You will always be the treasures of your parents. Why not treat your parents as treasures?

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