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After entering the university, I don't want to contact my parents more and more. Is it a psychological problem?
Even if it is psychological growth! After entering the university. We started, our own independent life. No longer dependent on parents. Clothes make a living, food makes a living. We should learn to take care of ourselves. Sometimes I feel I don't want to contact my parents. In fact, it is an independence in your heart. This is a necessary stage of growth.

Our parents cannot stay with us forever. We will eventually live independently from our parents. So I don't want to contact my parents, which means that I can not only live independently, but also really no longer rely on my parents psychologically. You should be happy for yourself. I finally really grew up. Really an adult. You can live independently in this society. Don't let your parents worry about themselves.

There is another possibility, that is. We are in college. See the wider world. Accompanied by us is a wonderful college life. We are always addicted to novelty. No longer controlled by parents. You can do whatever you want. With parents' money. Dare to do what you want. Although this freedom may be good. This kind of life may feel very free. But we must adjust this kind of psychology. Because this kind of psychology is wrong. We consider ourselves independent. We can take care of ourselves. But there is one thing we must admit. Our economy comes from our parents. Still living on parents' money. So there is no real independence. We haven't really grown up yet, and I don't want to contact my parents more and more. Just trying to get rid of their control. This is the child's psychology. We have gone to college. This is a responsible and responsible adult. We should not only learn knowledge well. At the same time, we should also have a good personality. It is also necessary for the Wei family to care about their parents. Although we have our own independent life. But we can call our parents once a month. As long as we are conscientious and filial to our parents, our parents will understand us.

University life is rich and colorful. But don't forget that we still have a home. There is hope at home and our parents are successful. Indulge in the present, forget it and devote yourself to our good parents. Go home often. Always keep in touch with your parents and do your little filial piety.