Recently, the reporter started from the county seat of Huanjiang Maonan Autonomous County and drove for more than two hours to reach Meng Weisa's hometown-Hubangtun, auspicious village, Minglun Town. When I first met Meng Weisha, I wore a purple T-shirt with the Tsinghua University school emblem, and I couldn't hide my smile under a pair of black-rimmed glasses. In the conversation with reporters, she pushed her glasses and pinched her mouth from time to time. When she spoke, she spoke at a speed like setting off firecrackers, without any formality or nervousness.
Optimism, cheerfulness, self-confidence and no sense of distance are Meng Weisha's first impressions to reporters, but when it comes to her family experience, Meng Weisha once choked and her eyes were wet. She waved to reporters: "It's all over, stop it!"
Family is a watershed in adult life.
Monvisa was carefree until she was 7 years old. When I was a child, my father played music with VCD at home, and my father and daughter kept spinning and dancing in a mud tile house of about 20 square meters, holding hands. This is Monvisa's only memory of his father.
In 2003, Monvisa's father suddenly fell ill and died two months later, leaving the whole family helpless. Family changes have attracted some people's cold-eyed ridicule, and Meng Weisa can only face it with tears. Since then, she has been talking less and less, unwilling to associate with people, and the smile on her face has faded.
My mother, 4 1 year-old, shoulders the heavy responsibility of raising three children, and the youngest brother has just learned to walk. Euro4 1 I am busy making a living with my brother all day and spend little time with the other two children. Monvissa, the second child who was not paid attention to, and his sister began to rebel, didn't study or even go home, because even when they got home, there was no one at home, so they hung out with the children in the village all day, and their grades plummeted. Monvisa wants to win her mother's attention in this way.
When he was 9 years old, his stepfather Meng entered Monvisa's family. His new father only had one arm, which made Monvisa feel very uncomfortable. At the request of her mother, Monvisa reluctantly called "Dad".
When the stepfather comes to the door, the mother can take time out to educate her children. At that time, Europe and America set up stalls in the street to buy fruit. Their stepfather Meng cultivated bean sprouts at home and sold them in the street when he grew up. In order not to let her daughter go home, Europe and America let her help watch the stalls after school every day. I helped my mother start a business at an early age, and Monvisa also realized the difficulty of her mother. At the same time, Europe and the United States continue to instill in their two daughters the concept that "the children of poor families should take care of themselves as soon as possible". I didn't expect my eldest daughter to enter the society after graduating from junior high school, and she married in Chongqing in a few years.
The rebellious Monvisa got attention. She began to change, helping her mother watch the stalls after school every day, and cooking and washing dishes when she got home. It's already 8 o'clock in the evening, and Meng Weisha began to read and study. Slowly, her grades improved little by little.
Stepfather becomes "father"
Meng has been trying to bridge the gap between her husband and daughter.
In 2008, Meng Weisa, the sixth grade, will take the exam, and his ideal is to be promoted from Minglun Middle School to Huanjiang No.1 Middle School. However, with the results at that time, Meng Weisa was still difficult to get into the middle school in the county. Meng saw her daughter's mind and encouraged: "Dad believes that you can be admitted to the middle school in the county. Even if the score is similar, I will try my best to send you there." Monvisa said that it was the first time I felt my father's warmth from my stepfather.
The results of the quiz were not satisfactory, and Meng Weisa entered Minglun Middle School with some regret. In the new environment, Monvisa began to become cheerful and willing to communicate with people. At this time, Meng continued to cheer for her daughter and promised to send her to the county to study. Monvisa lived up to expectations and ranked among the top three in the first year of junior high school.
Meng has not forgotten his promise. He took his daughter's report card and contacted Huanjiang No.1 Middle School through acquaintances. Meng Weisa was successfully admitted to his ideal middle school in the second day of junior high school.
Thanks to his stepfather's good intentions, Monvisa accepted his new father from the bottom of his heart. Europe and the United States revealed that the reason why we reorganized this family with Meng was because Meng promised her that she would treat her children with dear dad's attitude.
From "Bean Sprout Boss" to "Sprinkle Master"
When I was studying in Minglun, because my mother often set up stalls, my classmates gave Meng Wei a nickname-bean sprout boss. Young Meng Weisa developed a set of business philosophy. Every day, in addition to completing his study tasks, Meng Weisa also goes to various classes to sell fruits and bean sprouts. "Classmate, I have fresh fruit and bean sprouts to sell at home. If anyone wants it, just tell me. " Because of her outstanding academic performance, many students are willing to pay for her. Monvisa sells more than 200 yuan a day.
20 1 1, Meng Weisa took the senior high school entrance examination and entered the top class in huanjiang high school with excellent results. In the monthly exam in the first month after entering school, she stood out in the ranking of the first grade. Seeing that he was ahead in the grade, Monvisa became more confident and decided to devote all his energy to his study.
Visa is always the first person to come to the classroom. The students all say that she is not only diligent, but also injects a positive energy into the class. In the grade air volleyball competition, Meng Weisa, as the squad leader, took the lead and shouted to his teammates: "Move! We want to win! " Meng Weisa turned the whole team into a twist, which made Class 9 get the second place in the grade, breaking the embarrassment that the top class missed the ranking in sports events. When a classmate cried because he failed the exam, Meng Weisa handed me a note that read: I believe you have the ability, come on! In the self-study class, a classmate suddenly fainted because of hypoglycemia, which scared the classmates to be at a loss. When Meng Weisha saw this, she immediately stepped forward to help her classmates and ran to the infirmary behind her back. All the boys followed him and felt ashamed.
On one occasion, the school leaders led a team to visit Meng Weisha's home, and the teachers raised their glasses to pay tribute to their parents. Meng Weisha took a look and grabbed the glass from her parents' hands and drank it instead. Teachers wonder why she is like this. Later, I learned that Meng Weisa's father has a bad stomach and his mother has high blood pressure, so they can't drink. Whenever a guest comes home, Meng Weisa will propose a toast to the guest on behalf of his parents. And this "female man" character that she developed in her study and life won her the nickname "running wild".
Success belongs to those who are prepared.
On 20 12 college entrance examination, a brother from the same school won the first place in Tsinghua University's "Self-improvement Plan". Meng Weisa heard about it and ran to ask the class teacher. The head teacher replied: "To join this program, you should not only get good grades, but also get all kinds of honors as much as possible during high school, and your grades should be excellent." After figuring out the requirements, Monvisa began to "plan" to be admitted to Tsinghua for two years.
She began to participate in national Olympic competitions in various subjects, such as English, physics and chemistry ... Within two years, she won all the prizes in national competitions, such as "three good students" and "excellent class cadres" at the municipal and autonomous levels, and Meng Wei became a veritable prize-winning professional. Three or five semesters of high school ranked the top two in the grade.
With such outstanding performance, she also won a high monetary reward in high school, and won a total of about 30,000 yuan in competition bonuses and scholarships every three years. After the joy, she saved all the bonuses for tuition and living expenses. After three years of high school, Monvisa didn't hit home with a penny. After the college entrance examination, there is still a balance of more than 2,000 yuan in her bank card. You know, in high school, she set herself a monthly food allowance standard in 200 yuan.
At the end of last year, Meng Weisa took part in the written test and interview of Tsinghua University's "Self-improvement Plan". In March this year, Tsinghua University announced the approval list, and Monvisa was on the11national admission list. In June, the results of the college entrance examination were released, and Meng Weisa was admitted to the major of water conservancy and hydropower in Tsinghua University with a high score of 649.
Through years of hard work, Meng Weisa's parents have tens of thousands of yuan in savings, which they intend to use for their daughters to go to college. As early as last year, Meng Weisa said to her mother, "You can use this money to build a house. I'm going to borrow money to go to college without your money. " Hearing this sentence, Europe and the United States are extremely moved, and it is worth having such a daughter. This year, the Monvisa family moved into a new house.
At the end of the interview, Europe and America were red-eyed. She told reporters: "My daughter has decided her own career since she was a child, and I have always believed in her." Monvisa said that reading is not only for yourself, but also for parents.