Therefore, during college, your growth determines whether your future life is painful or relaxed. Only by quickly absorbing the growing nutrients can we become strong. In addition to learning the necessary professional knowledge, you should also master at least four skills.
1. Self-study
In our life, teachers are temporary, and only self-study is a lifelong thing. Educator Qian Weichang said: "Whether a person can develop the habit of self-study during his four years in college not only determines whether he can learn college courses well and really learn knowledge, but also affects whether he can continuously absorb new knowledge, do creative work and make greater contributions to the country after graduation."
Learn to teach yourself and have the motivation to learn by yourself. Give up halfway and accomplish nothing. With motivation, we can persist in self-study to the end and even find pleasure in self-study. In this era of constantly updating knowledge, on the big stage full of youthful vitality, the master of university learning is himself. If you want to achieve your own sustainable development and become a leader in the university, it is far from enough to rely solely on the classroom. Self-study is a necessary skill.
Learn to socialize
Socialization is an essential skill in life, and it is inevitable to deal with all kinds of people when you first enter the workplace. Many young people, because they are not polite and social, have left the impression of being "naive" or even "uneducated".
In college, you should learn some basic social knowledge in your spare time. For example, learn some common sense of interpersonal communication, learn the etiquette of some special occasions (such as wine tables and dances), and get rid of some bad habits that are easy to offend others.
Politeness and self-cultivation are your plus points on any occasion.
3. Self-management
Without self-management, life is hard to get better. To learn self-management, you need to master the skills of self-management: first, you should have a deep understanding of yourself-not only know your own strengths and weaknesses, but also how you learn new knowledge and deal with others, and what your values are, so that you can make the greatest contribution to it.
At the same time, we should learn to distinguish between ineffective and effective social interaction. Birds of a feather flock together, people are divided into groups, people have different views and abilities, and there is no friendship and cooperation. If you want to expand your social circle, you must start from yourself. Only by improving one's abilities in all aspects can one be more confident in rejecting ineffective social interaction and choosing and participating in effective social interaction.
Develop self-confidence
Almost everyone will admit that it would be nice if they were more confident. But a common misconception about confidence is that confidence comes from ability. If you want to have confidence, you must be very good at what you do. This is actually a wrong concept.
A person can have no ability at all, but still have amazing confidence. Besides, this person may know that he is incompetent, but he is still confident. Confidence has nothing to do with ability.
Because self-confidence is not about the existence of anything, self-confidence comes from reducing your concern about other people's eyes and opinions. In other words, to become more confident, you must forget what others think of you and take it for granted. Confidence is not something you can feel or have. Those things are used by others to describe you in their eyes.