Because first of all, you go to college, your parents work together, and you go to college. However, it is understandable for relatives and friends to get together to congratulate you because you have passed the exam, but you can also take the ceremony according to your own economic situation, but I don't quite agree with this trend of taking the ceremony. ?
First, why should we follow the ceremony? What will happen in this atmosphere? First of all, I think it is possible to follow the etiquette when going to college, but if every family who goes to college starts to hold banquets, it will have a great influence on the growth of students' psychological character. First of all, people learn imperceptibly according to their environment, so if you give your child a psychology that I will gain something as long as I work hard, I feel that it will have a certain impact on the development of children's personality. At the same time, do we have to follow the ceremony like this? In fact, although etiquette is a manifestation of encouraging children to study hard, I think it may have a great impact on children if the etiquette has changed, and if it has always existed in society, it may not be seen for a short time, but in the long run, it may also be a deformed social phenomenon.
Second, how to follow the ceremony rationally. Then how should we rationally follow the ceremony? First of all, we should divide the ceremony into several default relationship levels. For example, for some very good relatives, we should encourage children to study hard according to their own financial strength, that is, give red envelopes in private, but I don't advocate it very much, that is, give money while he is hosting a banquet, which is just a formality, because this phenomenon is very common in today's society. So in fact, if you need to give this student some pocket money, you can actually give it privately or in an encouraging way, but not just in a formal way. Giving in a formal way has no effect at all, and it will breed that kind of comparison psychology in students' hearts.
Third, the advantages and disadvantages of the ceremony atmosphere? So, what are his advantages and disadvantages? As far as advantages are concerned. It is a sign that parents of relatives and friends encourage their children, but to the extreme, if parents don't know how to guide this matter to make students understand, they may actually have a psychological comparison with students. Therefore, when we do everything, we must think about his every result and influence in advance. ?
To sum it up. We have analyzed the pros and cons of what happened at the ceremony and how to follow the ceremony rationally, so if you have any good ideas, you can leave a message below.