Yuan Yue, chairman of Zero Research Consulting Group, also wrote in the book My Road to the Rivers and Lakes: "Our university has become the graveyard of countless young people's hobbies, ideals and abilities."
The purpose of writing this book is to open the graves of these thoughts, spirits and beliefs and expose them. This is particularly important in today's universities.
Soft power is to tell others to take fewer detours, make clear their goals, be full of motivation and get rid of depravity through university planning, career planning and goal analysis. Restore human nature, teach people how to think and how to survive, and change from "student person" to "social person".
Great people are unprofessional, but they have soft power, the legendary swordsman.
My failure in learning.
1. We all failed in these places.
I clearly see that countless college students are confused by my confusion, humbled by my inferiority, impoverished by my poverty, and making mistakes ... I attribute these wrong efforts to blindness in postgraduate entrance examination, English madness, sequelae of college entrance examination, and castration of business consciousness. ...
People with good character have the antidote to failure.
Since I was five years old, I've been herding cattle, chopping wood and cutting pig grass ... since I was eight years old, I've been killing chickens and ducks, cooking and cooking ... since I was 10, I've been in love ... I think my eyes have not turned into dead fish eyes after reading dead books for so many years, which has a lot to do with my spontaneous training for flirting. ...
3. High School: What made me rise in failure?
In my life, this kind of irony, contempt and ridicule by others has always been one of my motivation sources ... There are always a bunch of people who say to me, "I heard your lecture three years ago and found you very passionate, but after listening to it three years later, you are still so passionate." Why didn't I have passion the next day? "
4. University: I completed the most important change in my life in failure.
There are "two mountains" in my university, one is introversion, inferiority and timidity, and the other is ignorance in knowledge ... I come to the conclusion that most people around you have no reference value. ...
Failure is a fertile soil with rich nutrition.
I have met many college students, who basically only play games and go to QQ. They don't know how to send emails or transfer files through QQ. Another classmate asked me where Baidu was, and I took him as a "Martian"? You can have nothing, but you can't be enterprising ... 1. If you don't learn English, you will die.
In the eyes of many English enthusiasts, life seems to be incomplete without learning English well ... Some people are doomed to be killed by English, because they have studied English ... The four or six grades that kill thousands of knives occupy your youth ... Don't take English as a lifeline ... Some people turn to English to fill their boredom once they have nothing to do, and turn to English for help once they encounter a crisis ... Poor English has become an outlet for loneliness and confusion. ...
2. Braving the gunfire of the postgraduate entrance examination, advance foolishly.
After finishing my master's degree in scientific research, master's degree and doctor's degree, I will take the "martyr" exam, no matter why, whether it is necessary or not, I will only take the exam until I fail ... If I don't take the postgraduate entrance examination, it will vary from person to person and from major to major. Not everyone is suitable for postgraduate entrance examination. If there is no clear career goal, I will see the bride again when I enter the bridal chamber in ancient times ... If I fail in the exam, I will regret it for a hundred years.
Brother, it is not enough to work hard!
The more self-study, the faster you die ... Brother, it's not enough to work hard, you have to work hard ... Which household unit you see recruits people according to their grades ... Society and schools have different criteria for judging talents, and the definitions of good students and good employees are two different things ... In school, they are three good students, while in society, they are ninth-class citizens ... This is an era when teachers and students fool each other ... People in poor schools use it.
4. College students castrated by business sense
According to his logic: any business-conscious teacher is not a good teacher, and any teacher who doesn't understand business is a good teacher ... Qian Qian, there are only a few reasons for getting rich and a few reasons for dying poor ... You can compete for scholarships like slugs ... You can use money to fund your university ... There are two kinds of people who despise making money: hypocrisy and naivety ... Only those with the strongest sense of work can concentrate on it. ...
Although "overestimating yourself" will have bad consequences, more people will die because of "underestimating yourself" ... If you are not a chicken, then don't compete with those "chickens" for bugs, because you are not a chicken ... If you know yourself, you will know the whole world clearly.
2. Those college students who are not weaned.
In such a society where the internet is prevalent and real communication is full of obstacles, many people's sense of independence is increasingly lacking. For example, when they go to class, they have to wait for someone to go with them; For example, if you want to study by yourself, you must make up a group of people to go; Even if you go to the toilet, you should hold hands, otherwise you would rather suffocate than go ... Those who fail are those who give themselves a holiday ... The future belongs to weeds. ...
3. How did they get abolished by QQ?
I found a rule: the harmonious relationship between roommates in a dormitory is inversely proportional to the number of computers in the dormitory ... When you are depressed, sitting in front of a computer is like beating chicken blood; Usually a cripple, he turned into a warm-blooded man in front of the computer. Their life banner is: Dance Academy! They can have no ideals, no food and no women, but they can't live without game equipment ....................................................................................................................................................... ...
4. How are vampires made?
There is a good saying in society: "People who often have no money like to pretend to have money, and rich people like to pretend to have no money." "Look at what a person shows off, and you will know what he lacks." ... the "special" function of my reading is "take it in with my left hand and use it out with my right hand" ... For those who can't do it, time is worthless ... Self-knowledge and self-positioning are the powerful driving forces in your heart. ...
5. Live like a maggot
These maggots-like people either have no ideal, ambition, passion and perseverance ... Generally, people without brains will say that "the plan can't keep up with the change" ... The more corrupt the environment, the more maggots there are. ...
6. Are you a college student with ears hidden?
Look at you now, you don't have the same skills and experience, your knowledge is very narrow, your thinking is very simple, your words are faltering, your eyes are blurred, and you have no spirit. To put it bluntly, you need a diploma without a diploma, skills without skills, certificates without certificates, thoughts without thoughts, temperament without temperament, and nothing. How can I make a good career plan for you? Career planning is useless to useless "mud type" people. ...
7. Nowadays, college students have more "leg disability" than "brain disability".
Many people prefer to stay in the classroom or dormitory, but they don't like to participate in various activities and competitions, and they don't like to listen to various lectures, whether inside or outside the school, no matter how much they charge. They only live in their own world, smiling at the discount of clothes, complaining about the price increase of fruits, complaining about the bad food in the canteen, and beating their chests for winning or losing a game, and gradually becoming a wretched and ignorant frog in the well.
8. Talking about college students
Most of the condor heroes were depressed for the opposite sex for too long before the college entrance examination. Once you go to college, your hormones can't be controlled. If they catch one, they will never give up. In addition to each other's eyes or each other, in addition to the love in my heart or love, I don't eat fireworks. Once the flower heart is full of jealousy, once it is separated, it will be suspicious, once it is derailed, it will cut melons and vegetables, and once it is lovelorn, it will die. This kind of person belongs to the kind who has never seen the world. If they are hungry for too long, eating green vegetables and radishes will feel like delicacies. Loneliness is too deep, and walking under the moon is thought to win countless times.
There are many excellent sparrows in this world.
Many people are pretentious because the school is good, complacent because of the professional craze, complacent because they have a few dollars at home, and feel good about themselves because they are temporary "small officials" in the school (students call them some student cadres). Such people may be excellent people, but they will never be excellent, just like sparrows, no matter how high they fly, they can't become a phoenix ... sparrows are sparrows, no matter how good they are.
10. Foot wraps and foot draggers
The power of mediocrity is enormous. As long as you are different from them, they will pull you back ... just like a group of eunuchs pointing to a normal person and saying, "Yes, why are you different from us?" Let's make you like us. " So some people read it and really felt that they were different from others, so they castrated themselves. ...
1 1. Why can others brainwash you?
Many schools are closed all the year round, and no lectures or academic exchanges are invited. Because I am afraid of being brainwashed, I implement a completely ignorant "closed door" policy ... Think about it, who can instill ideas in pig heads?
12. Why do you often pervert?
Ignorant people always think that everything I don't understand is your fault. What I haven't heard of is the pyramid scheme ... A group of degenerate people pointed to an early riser and said: You are not normal; A group of decadent people pointed to a person who came home late and said, you are abnormal; A group of idiots pointed to a thoughtful person and said, you have been brainwashed. ...
13. Idiot law
Never argue with an idiot, because he will pull your IQ to the same level as him, and then beat you with rich experience ... Facts have proved that there are many things that fail, but there are also many things that succeed.
14. Exit at this time.
This group of people who are not confident, this group of people who are often introverted and timid, and this group of people who often doubt themselves are always listening to others and can't talk ... Many people will not "show mercy" because of your low profile, and many people will not respect you because of your low profile. ...
15. I am different from you.
They build their value on other people's mouths or eyes. As long as others comment on him, he feels that he is nothing; As long as others look at him with contempt, he will despise himself. This kind of person lives in the eyes and mouths of others, and decides his own value according to the value of others, so he never knows who he is all his life.
Choose your own beauty.
A reporter made friends with me after interviewing me. He told me many stories about their "system" and the complicated interpersonal relationships within their system. "There, I'm not sure who is who, so no one can offend, it is difficult for anyone in North Korea to get a promotion. I am hanging around there now, as long as I don't make mistakes and don't get laid off. " After hearing what he said, I once again realized how wonderful it is to start a business! 1. Are you still looking for a stable job? ?
Only "novices" are so afraid of competition and elimination ... I always think that the more stable a place is, the more mediocre people gather and fight for a little profit ... the longer they are stable, the faster they die. ...
Hope is a good thing that can keep you mediocre?
Many people are ruined by "hope" ... For such people, tomorrow is today and next year is this year ... Hope is really a good thing, because it gives you a reason to live, and it can keep you mediocre. ...
3. Many people work hard?
If you really realize that many people live in a difficult place, you won't talk to migrant workers with your nose covered, you won't gruffly pretend to be an uncle in front of waiters, you won't show off in front of poor classmates, you won't always ask your parents for money to collect debts, and you won't follow suit. ...
4. Why is my university so painful? ?
You are "lonely, not studying" ... A big misunderstanding of China students is "hard work = self-study" and "study = reading" ... self-study is only one of the manifestations of hard work, and reading is only one of the ways of learning. ...
Why is it so painful for me to find a job? ?
I have many professional certificates and honorary certificates, but they are just like waste paper in the employer. Why are diplomas and certificates worthless? Now the unit is very realistic. They will not pay for your diploma, but only for your ability.
6. Those days when I struggled with the game?
In almost any dormitory, you can see the traces of depravity: either a few people are lying in bed bored, or they are full of energy in front of the computer, too lazy to wash clothes, brush shoes, do cleaning, eat, and even have no time to take a shower ... It turns out that people who play games are not all decadent, nor are they all empty and lonely. ...
7. Three suggestions for college entrepreneurs?
Many teachers have no other function except misleading children ... Those who are afraid of failure in starting a business and prevent others from starting a business are the real utilitarians and narrow protectionists ... It is the sorrow of the country and the nation that so many young people in China try hard to take the civil service exam. ...
8. Why have I never been "wasted"?
College students are decadent for their own reasons, such as being confused and not knowing what to do. For example, people around you degenerate to be affected. For example, I am not interested in my major and disappointed in my school. For example, their interpersonal relationship is too poor to read books. For example, in their concept, universities don't need to study ... going out to find a job is to die, and sitting in school is not to die. ...
9. College love: Should I tell the truth?
"I am not reluctant to break up, but I am sad after breaking up. You see, I am 28 years old now. For a woman, not getting married at the age of 28 means that the old woman has been dumped. It is difficult to find a partner in the future: you find young men, but they don't want old women; It is impossible for you to find an old man, because an accomplished bachelor despises my 28-year-old girl, and I don't want to marry a poor man without diamonds, not to mention that he may have a modest child, and I can't be a stepmother. " 1. Save your communication skills.
I often think that if a person's mind is not sound, his mentality is unhealthy and his personality is abnormal, what's the point of more books? There is a good saying: "If a person has no good conduct, the more knowledge he has, the more reactionary he is." I also think: "If a person does not have good interpersonal skills, the more he reads, the more abnormal he is."
2. Why are EQ imbeciles the darling of failure?
As long as a person has a grateful heart, you will understand others and your emotional intelligence will be high. There will be no selfishness, meanness, etiquette, quality and empathy ... I call on parents and teachers in China to teach students to "study hard" and add, "You should be a good person."
3. My relationship with soft power
Problems and adversity are a double-edged sword. Some people are trapped in it, while others succeed ... Soft power refers to abilities that cannot be assessed by certificates, such as thinking ability, communication ability, expression ability, leadership, quick learning ability, teamwork ability, personality quality, etc ... How to practice soft power? ...
4. Message to "Pinger Generation"
Why don't you send your children to the midwest and grassroots for employment? ...... "Pinger" If you don't work hard and take off the hat of "Pinger" from your generation, you will become the ancestor of "Pinger" and "Pinger", thus writing off the happiness of several generations.
5. Write to some ugly people in China.
The more ignorant people are, the more afraid they are of thoughtful people, because thoughtful people are relatively difficult to manage ... They advocate thinking, but someone always gives you thinking ... As long as you are "not extreme in thinking", don't skip classes and manage well, you will be a "good citizen" and will be issued a "good citizen card" when you graduate ... You are a eunuch and are not allowed to marry. ...
6. Vision and thinking
Many people have lost the soft power of thinking ability after reading for so many years ... The habit of "asking with your mouth open" may be praised at school, but in the company, it will die miserably ... If you know this star and buy that shampoo, what does it matter ... Modern college students should read books with one eye and see the society with the other. ...