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Investigation on the Present Situation of College Students in Jiangsu Province
She obviously wants to win the attention and care of her parents by raising cats. In her mind, her parents love her younger brother more than her, so when her parents don't agree to have a cat, her reaction is particularly fierce. The purpose is to let her parents see her existence, and it is best to coax her to persuade her. It doesn't matter whether she has a cat or not.

First, it's just a cover-up to say that parents will jump off a building if they don't allow cats. In fact, they just want their parents to care more about themselves. The news that a 20-year-old female college student in Jiangsu wanted to commit suicide by jumping off a building spread on the Internet. At that time, she put one leg on the guardrail of a window, which looked dangerous and would fall from it at any time. Her parents couldn't persuade her, so they had to ask the firemen for help. When the firemen arrived, they began to persuade her. Only then did they know that she really wanted to have a cat, but her parents always refused under various excuses, so she wanted to realize her wish in this way.

According to news reports, the girl's grades in school are very good. She usually concentrates on her studies and doesn't go out often. It is common to study until the early hours of the morning. Maybe she is under too much pressure to study. After her parents refused her request for a cat, she began to think about it. She even feels that her parents only love her younger brother and don't care about her at all. In addition, I seldom communicate with my parents, so I have the idea of suicide.

Second, is it useful for girls to threaten their parents like this? Netizen: It is estimated that parents are not aware of their mistakes at all. At present, the girl has been rescued by firefighters, but threatening her parents in such an extreme way may not be much better. At present, her neighbors and relatives should know the true relationship between the girl and her parents. Judging from the girl's feelings, she should not be taken seriously at home, at least her parents have a limited relationship with her. In this case, her parents will be aware of their educational problems. I do not think this is necessarily the case.

Most parents in China are not concerned about how their children are, but what their children can bring to themselves. Children can brag about their studies and their work, but if their children are a little bad, their parents will keep blaming them. This is not the problem of parents, but the accumulation? Traditional netizens think that her parents will reflect on themselves after this incident, but what I want to say is that there are too few parents who are good at reflecting on themselves, and most of them are those who push things on their children.

Finally, at present, the country has opened the second child policy. Although we can have two babies at home and live a lively life, parents should not forget to balance the relationship between their children. Overfavoring anyone will have bad consequences. Don't wait until something happens to wipe your tears here.