Many students responded: "After going to college, I suddenly lost the direction of struggle. I don't know what to do for a day, and it's no fun to listen to the teacher in class. I just feel like I'm wasting my time every day. What should I do? "
I believe there are many students who feel this way, especially those who have just entered the freshman year.
If you want to avoid falling into this "confused" state, it may be more useful to do the following three things.
0 1 read more books
If you feel "confused", it is mostly because your heart is empty. Seeing and thinking about problems is only superficial and lacks depth.
The main reason for this problem is too little reading and lack of in-depth thinking.
So, if you feel confused, read more books.
You can read some books on common sense. You can read a lot of books in the early stage. In the process of reading, we should also learn to think.
Below, I recommend some books suitable for college students to read.
Cognitive essence
Author: [America] Peter Brown Henry Rodig III, Mark mcdaniel.
I have read this book twice myself, which has a great influence on me, especially many ideas in it, which may make people shine at the moment.
It turns out that everyone has the potential to become a "schoolmaster", but our methods are useless.
Self - control
This book is also good, it can help you learn to concentrate, make you have more self-awareness and learn to control yourself. I highly recommend you to watch it.
After reading these two books, we will learn faster.
The principle of golden pagoda
This book has been recommended by many people, and its value has been explained. This book can mainly teach us how to think, express and solve problems efficiently.
It is very helpful to improve our thinking ability.
Third option
This book has a large readership and is suitable for people in all fields, including college students.
This is also a book to improve our thinking ability, especially the way of thinking to solve difficult problems.
To be honest
This book is very useful for professionals, but students can also read it. There is no harm.
This book can help you improve your work efficiency and let us do less useless work in our daily work.
deep ploughing/tillage/culture
You can know the content of this book by reading its title, which is to teach us how to work deeply and make our brains solve problems more effectively.
In this book, there will be specific methods.
Deliberate practice
This is a very general book, which can be applied to various industries and fields.
By fully studying the best people in all walks of life, the author found that they all followed a series of general principles, and he named this general method "deliberate practice".
This can be said to be the most powerful learning method discovered so far.
speed up
This book will teach us 49 life management methods, which can help us to balance work and life, gain insight into future risks and quickly realize self-iteration.
Non-violent communication
"Illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth" and "A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June", which shows how important communication is to us.
In our work, we will find that the most effective way to solve problems is effective communication.
Many serious problems are mainly caused by poor communication.
This book teaches you how to communicate with high emotional intelligence and prevent "violence" in communication.
Intimate relationship
For college students, love is also a compulsory course.
And this book is to teach us how to get a long-term intimate relationship in love and marriage.
This book is humorous and readable, and I believe everyone will gain something after reading it.
The above are the most worthwhile books recommended to you for the time being.
More good books will continue to be recommended to you in future articles.
Besides studying, another measure to bid farewell to confusion is to find an internship.
Find an internship
Internship is the closest way for college students to get into the workplace.
If you can find an internship related to your major, the benefits will be even greater.
Not only can you better understand your major, but you can also find your interests as soon as possible and make a good career plan in the future.
Therefore, it is strongly recommended that you find an internship, even if there is no salary and the company is small, there is no problem. Take a long view.
Please believe me, you will benefit a lot!
This is the second way to avoid falling into "confusion". Of course, the above two methods need the following measures to ensure.
Say goodbye to laziness and take action.
Since ancient times, many celebrities have summed up the "shortcut" to success for us, and diligence is one of its essential qualities.
Carlisle said, "Genius is the infinite ability to work hard." .
The famous painter Leonardo da Vinci said:
"After a hard day, you can have a good sleep; If you work hard all your life, you can sit back and relax. "
The famous mathematician Hua also said: "Intelligence comes from diligence, and genius lies in accumulation".
Diligence can make up for it I have to say that diligence is the key to ensure everyone's success.
For college students, the key to avoiding confusion is "diligence".
If you lie in the dormitory bed all day, and then keep complaining and sighing, you may only drift away on the road of "confusion".
What is really useful is to take action, find your own interests and experience more things, even if it is failure or frustration, isn't it also a kind of growth?
Just staying in the dormitory and thinking about it will only make you more confused. The more confused I am, the less I know what to do. This is a waste of time.
These are some suggestions for college students. It's okay to be confused. "No thought, no action, no action" is the most terrible.
I hope I can inspire everyone and leave some regrets for my four years in college!