1990 I came from Nanjing. I was in the countryside when I was a child. My family condition is just like that, not so good. My family is the poorest of my relatives. Because at that time, I was also in trouble at home. . . One of my father's brothers, grandparents 1 years ago died of cancer, and it cost a lot of money to see a doctor and have an operation. . . In those years, my mother was sick, I was sick, and my father broke his spine and lay in bed for a year. . . . There is little money left at home. . . Very poor. . . My uncle and menstruation look down on my family, and so do the villagers, who are poor. . . In those years, building was popular for nine years, and even houses could not be built in the countryside. My uncle deliberately keeps his distance during menstruation, afraid of borrowing money to build a house, and he has no money to pay back! My cousin had a good life at that time and had a good family foundation. What is exasperating is that the menstrual cousin has a good marriage condition and found a city wife. He got married in the first year and didn't bring his wife to my house to pay a New Year call, because my family was poor! I feel ashamed to have a poor relative in front of my wife. . . My parents were really angry for the first month. When Uncle Menstruation knew this, he always said that my family was stingy. My mother cried and so did my family. Then my parents made up their minds to try to surpass them! Always tell me, be a man, don't live up to your expectations! If you are poor, everyone looks down on you! Later, parents got up early to do frozen wholesale business, retail food market, unit canteen takeaway and so on. . . Life is getting better. With the development of society, people pay attention to frozen food, so they don't eat it, and business is not good. . . Later, my dad switched to aquaculture, contracted fish ponds in the mountains and raised hundreds of pigs. In those good years, he made a little money. But my dad has been hiding money, very low-key, with a dirty face and driving a broken van all day. At that time, the family conditions in the village were superior and many houses were built. When I was 20, my father bought me a modern car. It was popular to buy houses and speculate in real estate in those years. My dad quietly bought a flat 100 in the development zone. It was not until a few years later that the news broke. Relatives had no idea. Later, they learned to buy a house, but the house price was already high. 1 1, rural demolition, divided into 5 suites. My dad's farm was also demolished. Later, I went to a social worker, always remembering humiliation and trying to fight for breath! I found a beautiful local wife, classmate, good job, only child, relocated household. In recent years, my family bought three cars, gave my old car to my father, and just bought a BMW myself, and bought a suite in full. Ironically, when I bought my first car, six months later, they bought one car after another, and the price they bought exceeded my home. They are so proud! They never imagined that my family bought another one two years later and another one two years later. I was shocked at the time. The price of the two suites I bought later doubled. The present conditions have left Uncle Menstrual's family far behind. At present, it is particularly difficult for family members to speak in front of relatives, and parents are particularly proud. It's refreshing to see them lend money to their son to buy a house. I am no worse than my cousins myself, and I am better at finding a wife in all aspects of my work. Looking back, I have always remembered humiliation for more than ten years, and I wanted to surpass this group of influential relatives since I was a child. It's a pity that my dad engaged in frozen wholesale when he was young, leaving behind the root of the disease, internal rheumatism arthritis, gout and joint deformity. He is often ill and in great pain, and he has to avoid eating, which is very painful. . . If it weren't for such a group of relatives behind my family, maybe my family wouldn't have the present life.