In this case, can I let my father and mother live for a while? The first is to cultivate the feelings he lacked after so many years of separation. The second is to show my mother that you can really take good care of yourself during this time. She has no chance to take care of you here and let her know that you don't want your classmates to laugh at you as mom's baby. I believe she can understand you.
In reality, many parents, mostly mothers, put all their focus on their children. When children grow up and become independent, they find that they can't find themselves, because all their focus in these years is on children, and there is no one at all. At this time, they should reposition themselves, find themselves and do something they want to do.
Children can't stay with their parents forever, and parents can't stay with their children forever, so parents and children can support each other and rely on each other, but they can't rely too much. If you focus on one person, then one day, when this person has his own choice and his own life, then you are likely to be hit hard, or even devastated.
The worst person in the world is "watermelon becomes a square". For a time, a special-shaped fruit was popular in the market. Watermelon is no longer oval, but square or even heart-shaped, which is very novel. But no one noticed that this twisted watermelon was not only unpalatable, but also had an unusually thick skin. In fact, people are the same. If you leave your original life track for some people and things, it will make you more and more difficult, so all life must not be.