Although in the eyes of many people, friends are extremely important to them, and they can even be said to regard friends as the only one, some people have been hurt by friends in their daily lives, and even speak ill of their friends behind their backs. I've had the same experience. That was my first job when I graduated from college. At that time, due to the lack of certain social experience and workplace experience, I ignored the most important rule in the workplace, that is, not to treat colleagues as friends. As a result, I took a new boy as my friend. At first, we got along well, but later, with the casual competition and resource struggle in our daily work, our relationship changed subtly. Maybe it's because I have an advantage over him in some way, so my boss always takes special care of me and makes him uncomfortable, so he deliberately creates all kinds of bad public opinions for me in front of other colleagues, speaks ill of me and lets other colleagues isolate me. I didn't find the reason at first, but one day an old colleague of the unit told me about it as an experienced person. I am aware of this problem. Although this experience made me sad for a while, I soon woke up. I realize that such friends are not real friends, and I should always believe that it is difficult to make real friends in the workplace. Such a lesson should be a good thing for my future career development, and the best way to respond to being isolated and speaking ill of such friends is to try to be myself. After all, it's a long way to go, Xiu Yuan Xi, depending on people's wishes. Indeed, after a while, other colleagues in the unit also got to know my so-called friend, which soon made him feel very isolated.