First, Y keeps in touch by telephone, QQ, WeChat and other tools. More contact, even if you can't achieve the effect of him being with you, can also increase his sense of existence. Saying no contact doesn't mean you don't miss him, but for a long-distance relationship, contact means you miss him. Who can deny that you are unhappy when you receive his phone call and see him chatting with yourself? And if you don't even have the most basic contact, how can you prove that you still exist with her? So for a long-distance relationship, not contacting means breaking up to a large extent.
Second, go and see her when you have time. The biggest obstacle to long-distance love is distance, and behind the distance is the lack of companionship. Many people don't like the feeling of being alone, just like being abandoned by the whole world. Therefore, the lack of companionship has become the most common reason for long-distance lovers to break up, so the most effective way to maintain long-distance relationships is to accompany her.
Of course, it is impossible to stay with her all the time, but on holidays, you can go to see him, especially Valentine's Day, Christmas, Christmas Eve and her birthday, because these festivals are exclusive to couples, and she is prone to loneliness, which is exactly when she wants you to stay with her most. You can take her to see her parents or accompany her to see her parents for the rest of the small holiday or holiday.
Third, I often buy things for her. Although talking about money is vulgar, buying things is also an important way to prove that you care about her. You can also send her usual hair conditioner, shampoo and other items, indicating that you are missing her and haven't forgotten what she likes. Moreover, she will definitely use the daily necessities she sent in the past, and it is inevitable that she will often think of you. Especially when she receives these items, her friends will generally say that you are considerate or kind to her, and everyone has vanity. Under such circumstances, she will be more persistent.
Fourth, send her a letter. Although there are many chat tools now, it is a cold machine anyway, but the letters I write are different. He brings you full of thoughts and attachment.
5. Find a few single brothers or girlfriends. In the final analysis, you are afraid of loneliness, so you can make more friends, take care of you when you are sad, accompany you when you go shopping, and reduce your loneliness.
Sixth, find your own goals and keep yourself busy. Because of lack of company, I was lonely, and because of loneliness, I needed someone to accompany me, so at the end of the story, I didn't walk together. Therefore, we long-distance lovers, whether boys or girls, are busy at work for our own careers, and those who go to school are busy for their own studies, so that we can get busy and have no time to be lonely and deeply missed.
Have your own plan and work hard for it. Many long-distance relationships don't last for a few years, but they can't see the dawn of the future, because they don't know when they can really be together, and they don't know when they can end this grinding long-distance relationship, so it's best to be clear about the goal and give her a target period for being together in the future so that she can't see hope.
There is no good way to make each other like, love and trust each other. When I am lonely, I have to hold back my thoughts of you. When I miss you, I can only talk to you. We all have to understand this truth. I believe that one day we don't have to maintain a long-distance relationship, we will run a marriage together.
Of course, it is best to have a long-distance relationship. If you have to, keep in touch, meet properly, stay passionate and have hope together, not too long! Come on, long-distance relationship.