First, holding hands If the other person takes the initiative to hold your hand, it means that he is willing to have close physical contact with you. Generally speaking, as long as men and women have the feeling of heartbeat, they will want to have intimate behavior with each other. This move is not to say that 100% couples, but most men and women, with the behavior of holding hands, has meant that he (she) acquiesced that your relationship is a couple relationship. Bian Xiao and her boyfriend were together by default after holding hands on a date and watching a movie. A boy holding your hand shows that he wants to be close to you, which is also a hint of a relationship he wants to give you. Who has nothing to do with people they don't like? Second, hugging is more intimate than holding hands, which represents the expression of love between men and women. I can only hug you when I like you, and I want to convey my warmth to each other, especially in the cold winter. It is really a very happy thing to be hugged by the person I like. If you have entered the stage of embracing each other, congratulations, your's love relationship has taken another step. But there will be hugs between friends, such as an encouraging hug and a cheering hug, so hugs don't completely mean that your is a couple, so let's talk about other behaviors of Bian Xiao. With the following behaviors, there is really no doubt that you are a proper couple. Kiss If the other person kisses you, it means that he really likes you. Men and women in love, under the physiological stimulation of hormones and androgens, will want to have some intimate behaviors with each other, and kissing is the most representative love behavior. If a boy kisses your forehead, cheeks or lips, it only shows that he is really interested in you. The hit film sealed with a kiss, which has just been released recently, is the best typical representative to prove this point. Although the man does not admit that he is in love with the woman, his behavior will not deceive himself. When Jiang Zhishu, the man, took the initiative to kiss Qin Xiang, the man had fallen in love with our lovely and poor Qin Xiang. If there is a kiss between men and women, don't beat around the bush. Let's talk about sweet love together. 4. Confession If the other person clearly expresses his love for you in words or actions, there is no doubt that he really likes you. If you have a crush on him too, have a happy relationship. Some boys or girls are different when expressing their love, some are shy, some are bold and lively, and some are embarrassed to say it. Colleague Ru Ru was really the envy of all the girls in our company when she was confessed by her boyfriend. At the annual meeting of the company, all the colleagues in the company were present and gave her an idol drama-like confession. Balloons and roses filled the room, just like proposing marriage. A girl will envy it. It can be seen how much her boyfriend likes her and has been married and has children until now. I really envy others. Normal intimate behavior in love 2 How to treat intimate behavior in love? Intimate behavior in love, generally speaking, girls are more passive. For example, a couple walked together, and suddenly the boy leaned over, and the woman rarely chose to refuse even if she didn't mean to. Even if it is rejected, it is often fruitless. But for some intimate behaviors in love, girls still have to learn to refuse decisively. For example: First, we haven't been in love for long, and premature intimacy is accepted by many people, even if one's feelings are difficult to control. But if two people have established a relationship, maybe they should control the rhythm. Usually, the man will be the active party of all kinds of behaviors, and often he will take the other person's inability to refuse as a default or "want to refuse to welcome". Therefore, it is necessary for women to learn how to express their refusal resolutely. Because the relationship has just been determined, everything about the development of mutual feelings is still unknown. If other emotional factors are mixed in too early, this kind of feelings will be complicated to a certain extent. Second, too exposed occasions I believe that many people have had such an experience, that is, walking on the street or in public places and seeing misbehaving couples are either disgusted or despised. So from another point of view, it is necessary for us to reach some kind of tacit understanding with our lover in some exposed occasions. Moreover, when the other party has these behaviors, we should know how to refuse. Because, there are three results. First, the other party will become more and more bottomless. Second, when we choose to accept such behavior, in fact, indirectly in each other's hearts, there are some self-destructive images. Third, in our ecstatic love, we became people we hated at first. Third, only talk about love, don't talk about love, we must pay attention to distinguish those who persecute each other in many ways under the guise of falling in love. For example, those who only think about intimacy, but never talk about love. A small number of friends were introduced by colleagues. After the blind date, they felt that it was not bad, and there was a follow-up. After that, they often meet and even date. Sometimes, after dinner, boys will take her home. That is, on the way home again and again, their relationship slowly made progress. However, there are a few doubts. In fact, they have never talked about boyfriends and girlfriends. According to their current intimacy, they have already exceeded the definition of ordinary friends. On this issue, a few people don't want to ask, so let nature take its course. But she didn't ask, and neither did the other party. It's just that after every date, boys will still send her home, or there will still be some intimate behavior. So nearly half a year passed, and the family asked, are they talking about friends? A few suddenly don't know how to answer. So she forwarded the original words of her family to the boy. But several hours passed and the boy didn't reply. Finally, a few people began to realize the seriousness of this problem. Before, she always told herself that some people fall in love, and that's it. No one said anything and they naturally fell in love. Facts have proved that her fears are correct. Unexpectedly, after sending a small amount of news, that person disappeared completely, which made her heart sink. It turns out that the feeling she imagined still doesn't apply in blind date. If two people with different purposes want to have further in-depth communication after blind date, they should first determine the good side of their relationship. In order to avoid the "rogue" behavior of some people with a heart, we take advantage of it. It is difficult to define the intimacy in love, but as a woman, we must learn to express our position, don't be led by the other side, and passively do something we don't want to do. For premature or unsightly behavior, we must stand firm and not let the other side mess around. At the same time, it is also a kind of respect for yourself. For those who like to talk about love under the guise of love but don't love it, don't be fooled by their sweet words. Adult feelings, don't believe too much in the word "tacit understanding", many things, it is better to make it clear.