Indeed, there is indeed an atmosphere of "table communication" in society at present, and many things are "done" in eating, drinking and having fun. However, before imitating this kind of communication, college students must realize that there is an essential difference between dining table social interaction and college students' social interaction.
What is the motivation of the university party? There are nothing more than two things in college reunion: unifying thoughts and celebrating thanks.
Unifying thoughts, to put it bluntly, is to use the dining table as the medium, drinks and warm atmosphere as the catalyst, and the organizers instill ideas, unify their understanding, reach an understanding and complete mobilization.
There are relatively few such gatherings in universities, because this process of unifying thoughts can often be realized in regular meetings with ministers, presidents and seniors. Therefore, it is more common only when people in the same grade and similar positions need to unify their thinking.
Celebration and thank-you parties should be the theme of most college students' parties. The sports meeting was very successful, and the president of the student union invited all the ministers to have a potluck. After getting along for a year, the old minister will retire and invite all ministries to have a meal; At the end of the party, the Minister of Literature and Art invited the staff behind the scenes to have dinner and sing a song.
? Will so many dinners be a blessing or a curse? Many students who often eat together think that this is the first step to start college. They think that eating together is one of the ways to open up social ways. On the one hand, they can get to know more students through proper "eating together". On the other hand, they can also contact each other; Furthermore, we can also learn some basic table manners from them, so as to avoid the embarrassment of "being ignorant" in society in the future.
All kinds of class get-togethers, club get-togethers, fellow villagers get-togethers, and get-togethers in a good mood, even if you get a grant. For students from poor families, having dinner frequently is a heavy burden. Getting together occasionally can enhance feelings, but too often is a bad phenomenon!
Frequent dinners between classmates have become a burden! Appropriately through the "dinner party", on the one hand, you can know more students; On the other hand, they can also contact each other; Furthermore, we can also learn some basic table manners from them, so as to avoid the embarrassment of "being ignorant" in society in the future.
However, eating meals every once in a while wastes a lot of time for eating, which is also called "internal friendship";
Still constantly claiming "work needs" and discussing work tasks while eating, but often the food is not good and the work is not arranged well;
Some are even keen on "fighting for wine" at the dinner table, forcing students who can't drink to "persuade wine" in various ways.
All this is undoubtedly "going too far."
College students are a youthful and energetic group, and beauty is an element that truly belongs to the university campus. If they fail at the dinner table before leaving society, how can they be more brave and confident in their future work and life?
As a college student, learning should be the main business. Instead of wasting energy on "gathering and socializing", it is better to read more books, participate in social practice, enhance your own value and gain people's recognition.