Han Huang: Ph.D. in Social Psychology, a famous psychologist and vice president of Jiangsu Social Psychology Association. I once hosted "There's a lot to say" with Murphy. They have been Murphy's good friends for more than ten years. I have been an emotional analyst in many TV programs. I am intellectual, wise and not rigid. Moreover, the analysis of problems is clear-headed, quick-thinking, knowledgeable and often witty. I believe that the newly joined female psychologists will definitely bring warm feelings to the stage of If You Are the One. Let's look forward to it!
Le Jia said modestly: Because he can't give full play to his professional skills, he just quit "My husband sees you" and will launch a new program on Jiangsu Satellite TV alone.
Lover: Yuan Jian, independent critic, one of the most concerned political and economic critics in China. Have a daughter.
Han Huang's daughter delves into Le Jia's Weibo every day. Recently, she saw Le Jia openly claim to love her mother, but the little girl shouted "Lies"! Not to be outdone, Teacher Le Jia retorted: This Weibo is for Han Huang's daughter. Yesterday, I posted a message "I love Miss Huang" in Weibo. Because the girl studies my Weibo every day, her mother goes back and asks her what she saw today. Unexpectedly, the little girl sneered and solemnly said to her mother, "It's a lie at first glance." So now, I officially report to the girl that my love for * * * can't reach your father's love for * * * and my love for Morphy, but as a comrade-in-arms, my words are true.
Classic quotations:
When a lofty girl meets a proud boy, someone will always humble herself, but if you can, don't put yourself too low.
Le Jia: Women will have a feeling of peak experience during childbirth. Han Huang: Have you tried it?
The smell of a woman lies in the smell of a man standing beside her. The most successful thing in a woman's life is to choose the right man.
When a man loves you, you are often moved by details. Similarly, when a man doesn't love you, you can also find it in the details.
If a woman makes a man think of sex at first sight, then she is a failure.
Men are not as good as you think. They can really love, but not deeply. Leave yourself a way out in love, or you will be caught off guard when you are injured.
Don't believe men's sweet words. Facing the girl you like, an illiterate man will become a poet. And poets don't live in reality.
About Morphy: "We have known each other for 15 years"
Huang Han missed the recording of "If You Are the One" a few days ago because of teaching conflicts. Unknown viewers called the program to ask where Han Huang had gone. Referring to this matter, Han Huang said: "My main teaching task in school is to be responsible for the teaching of on-the-job postgraduate classes. As we all know, the on-the-job postgraduate classes are held on weekends, and the program recording time is also on weekends. Before that, I tried my best to coordinate, but when I really couldn't get through, I could only manage my own work. "
As many viewers know, Han Huang is also a professor and director of the administrative management teaching and research department of jiangsu provincial party committee Party School. What many viewers don't know is that earlier, Han Huang and Morphy co-hosted a program called Enough. Compared with the partnership at work, Huang Han called Morphy her friend from 65438 to 2005, and she grew up together. Talking about Murphy's differences in life and stage, Han Huang said: "Murphy has an innate sense of humor in addition to his language talent. His humor on stage is less than half that in life. After all, life can be relaxed and free, and you can say whatever you want, and the screen is a public platform, so your speech is bound. What I admire most about him is that after he has suffered a lot, he still has a generous and tolerant attitude towards life and a feeling of compassion. "
Talking about Le Jia: "He really scared me."
Han Huang and Le Jia started to cooperate from If You Are the One. Compared with Murphy, who was familiar with him before, Han Huang was a little nervous about cooperating with Le Jia at first. "After all, I don't know him well. I heard that he speaks very sharply." However, Han Huang said that Le Jia gave her a very good first impression. Recalling the scene at that time, Han Huang said: "If you want to cooperate well on the stage, there must be communication under the stage. In fact, Le Jia is very kind in life. I remember very clearly that we first met in the dressing room of Jiangsu Satellite TV. I got here first. After he came, the first thing he said to me was' the party school teacher is still so beautiful'. It was this sentence that made me relax at once, and communication was not so formal. "
According to the staff of the program group, the original state of the program is that Le Jia and Han Huang are tit for tat, expressing their opinions. Judging from the current program presentation, the two often have the same idea. In this regard, Han Huang said: "Actually, Le Jia and I have more similar views than different ones, and our more differences are not opinions, but expressions. My evaluation of Le Jia is six words-keen, cutting-edge, sharp, and I am just the opposite. "
On the show, whenever Le Jia made a surprise comment, Murphy would say with a smile that Han Huang, who was sitting next to Le Jia, should be insured. Speaking of which, Huang Hanxiao said that he was really scared by Le Jia. She said, "I once asked a male guest,' What was your state when you were giving a lecture?' Then Le Jia suddenly shouted, "How many times have I told you? "What did you tell me?" Actually, he was playing the scene where the male guest lost his temper, but it really scared me. I thought he was scolding me. It's so vivid. I also said that he can play his temper so well off stage, which shows that he is really a person who will lose his temper in life. "
The guest said, "No one can see through it."
On the stage, Han Huang often said, "How nice the male guests are! Why are all the lights out? " . When talking about the phenomenon of turning off the lights in the interview, Huang Han said that he actually understood the female guests. She said, "They always turn off the lights for their own reasons. After all, they are looking for something that suits them, not just a good person. But as a guest commentator, I need to make my own voice and represent the general evaluation of society. If the male guest is already strong, I will suppress him. If he has been besieged, then I will give him some encouragement. After all, the male guests on the stage belong to the weak side. As long as he refutes the female guests, everyone will say that he is sophistry. Someone has to help him say that I am the one. "
Many guests who participated in If You Are the One left a deep impression on the audience. For example, they hoped to find a material man to let their parents enjoy the happy clock. Looking forward to love at first sight, Liu Tingting, who is unmoved even if a male guest comes specially for her; Dr. An Tian questioned each other's lack of public interest, refused to hold hands with warm-hearted girls, and so on. Among the female guests, the most controversial is Luo Aixuan who "fights" with Le Jia. In the column of "Do you want children" in your profile, Luo Aixuan wrote, "I hope to have four or more children, and I think I should cultivate pillars for the country". Many viewers also pointed out that Luo Aixuan often turned off the lights when praising male guests. Referring to this matter, Han Huang said: "I once talked with Ai Xuan in my life. I told her that from her expression, we can see that she has been striving for truth, goodness and beauty, but people sometimes have moral ideals and wisdom in life, otherwise it will bring false feelings to others and make their lives suffer. So I sent her this sentence,' If I am not good, I am not true, good and beautiful, and others don't like me, that is a tragedy. If I am too good, I can't like people who have shortcomings, just because I pursue beauty too much. Isn't that a tragedy? If I can't adjust the relationship between the two, then such a person is doomed to be respectable but unlovable. ”"
Among the male guests, Han Huang had a very good impression of "geological brother" Chen Xiaowei. "Because the boy's image is healthy, sunny and enterprising, his progress will not make people feel that it is for his own fame and fortune, which is very good. In fact, many viewers also like him very much. When voting for the returning male guests, he got a very high number of votes. I heard that he has found the right person and got the marriage certificate on May 1. However, Huang Han said that she hoped that everyone would not blindly draw conclusions for the guests. She said: "Yu Xia, Li Shixian and other female guests dare to express themselves and stick to their choices. They are different in mate selection and values, not the traditional ones. But can you say they are wrong? I often ask myself, can I see through the guests through those ten minutes on stage? I can't do it, so I will be extra cautious when commenting on the guests. "
On the concept of marriage and love: "Love is sometimes blind"
On the stage, male guests often say, "I just want to find a teacher like Han Huang." Han Huang laughed and said it was all a joke. Han Huang was not surprised by the popularity of If You Are the One. She said: "It is defined as a large-scale life service project, and it really meets the needs of today's society. Now is the age when there are too many leftover men and women. After I did this program, many people asked me to be a' matchmaker'. "
Referring to his views on marriage and love, Han Huang first sighed with emotion: "Many parents have given their children too many constraints during their growth. In their view, children like the opposite sex in junior high school, as if the sky were falling. In high school, falling in love is a big violation. In college, parents will also tell their children that it is not yet time or early to conclude that' this person is not suitable for you'. Over time, the child lost the impulse to fall in love and became a leftover man and woman. In fact, this is unnecessary. When children have a good impression on the opposite sex, they will naturally look at the problem with very rational standards. "
In Han Huang's own view, love is sometimes blind. She said: "A happy marriage is not that I choose a good person, but that after two people choose to be together, it means that they choose to understand and adapt to each other and adjust themselves. Now, for the leftover men and women, with the growth of age, the framework of setting standards and models for each other becomes clearer and clearer. It seems that the requirements are not high, but it is getting harder and harder to select people. " Taking the guests as an example, Han Huang said, "A male guest put forward more than 20 conditions when choosing a partner. At that time, I told him that according to your standards, the chance of choosing someone is one in ten thousand. After the program, some netizens corrected me, saying that my math was too poor, and the chance of male guests choosing candidates should be one in a million. In life, even if you pick up a blind date, you may participate in hundreds of times at most. Slowly, the choice will become more and more difficult. "