Entering the university means that we have entered the society. In this process, we will know more and more friends. The deepest feeling we can get from contact is the interest relationship. We may treat a friend sincerely, but we may not be good friends with each other. Everyone wants to defend their own interests. And you will see more hypocrisy and indifference in interpersonal communication, especially in universities and society. At this time, we will be lonely and helpless, and even have a sense of self.

First: adjust your mentality and improve yourself.

Since you can't change the environment, change yourself, adjust your mentality and learn to appreciate others, because life is not so fair and just. In addition to strength, many things also have certain components in interpersonal relationships. But if you are a sincere person, then stick to your nature, work hard silently, improve yourself, and learn to be a calm person and a kind person, because no matter how the environment changes, efforts themselves make people feel at ease.

Second: find the right goal and appreciate yourself.

Life is not always smooth sailing, and you will always experience inner waves to gain a foothold in the years; If you seem out of place at the moment, or feel a little emotionally antagonistic, then find your own goals, what you want, and work hard for them, learn to appreciate yourself, see your own advantages, stick to it silently, and complain about the surrounding environment as little as possible. This is also an opportunity for you to learn to be strong. I believe that there will always be your light.

Third: Be the truest self.

No matter how the environment affects you, please insist on being the truest you. Don't go with the flow. Everyone is an independent individual and has his own characteristics. Reduce unnecessary complaints and treat and communicate with a peaceful heart. University is still a place to study. Focus on your major and study hard. Remember, this society is still sincere, and it is the most important and cherished.

Fourth: Open your heart and make friends.

? Not every friend is fit to be a friend. There will always be people you don't like, but you can find like-minded friends, work together and cheer together. I believe tomorrow will be better.