Many people have extremely contradictory mentality and indescribable self-denial and self-torture because of deep-rooted traditional concepts. Under the collision of self-esteem and inferiority, on the one hand, they have a strong desire to express themselves, on the other hand, they think it is despicable to show off too much. But in today's fierce competition, if you want to do great things, you must give up those indifferent faces. As the saying goes, "A brave eagle usually shows its sharp claws." Cleverly recommending yourself is an indispensable means to turn passive waiting into active fighting and accelerate self-realization.
If a shrewd businessman wants to sell his goods, he must first attract customers' attention and let them know the value of the goods. If you want to sell yourself properly, you must learn to show yourself, show your virtues to the maximum, lower your expectations of life, show your talents appropriately, and give yourself an opportunity to show your talents in all directions.
For a college student who just graduated, he must learn to sell himself. If, like other graduates of the same period, you only send resumes and stick to the rules, there will never be any unexpected results. If you want to have good news in a short time, you must find another way and dare to recommend yourself directly. For those who have already worked and have a certain professional foundation, establishing public image is a long-term investment, which is of inestimable value to the long-term development of their career. Among them, actively attracting others' attention is a shortcut.
The reason why we should actively recommend ourselves and attract others' attention is mainly because opportunities are precious, scarce and fleeting. If you can be more active than people with the same conditions, the opportunity will be more easily grasped by you. Therefore, taking the initiative is the best strategy to seize the opportunity. In addition, in the world, Bole is always in the bright, "Maxima" is in the dark, Maxima is more, and Bole is less. Bole has a good eye. His energy, wisdom and time are limited. Waiting may delay your life.
Since we all know that "waiting for a rabbit" is stupid, we don't need to wait for the appearance of "Bole", but should actively look for Bole. What is more noteworthy is that the times are advancing and time waits for no one. With the emergence of new people, everyone who is determined to become a success should consider the time cost he has paid. Lost opportunities can lead to months, years or even a lifetime of waste. Understand this truth, we will have a sense of urgency, rethink our attitude towards life, be more active in action, and let more people pay attention to ourselves.
However, being a volunteer is not a simple matter for many people, and it requires a certain amount of courage and courage. People who are not confident and afraid of failure dare not try. Only those who have courage can succeed.
Pavarotti, the king of world Song, visited the Beijing Central Conservatory of Music when he traveled to China. Many students with musical background and social background have tried their best to show their singing voice in front of the king of songs. You know, this is a rare opportunity, even if it is affirmed by the king of songs, it will be enough to arouse the hype of Chinese and foreign journalists, so as to make the music scene shine as a new star.
In a classroom of the college, Pavarotti sat patiently, listening to everyone singing one by one, noncommittally. When I was bored, a boy was singing loudly outside the window, singing the famous "No one sleeps tonight". Hearing the singing outside the window, Pavarotti raised his eyebrows: "This student has my voice." Then he said to the school waiter, "What's this student's name? I want to see him! And accept him as my student! " The boy singing outside the window is Hei Haitao, a student from the mountainous area of northern Shaanxi. With his qualifications and background, he had no chance to meet Pavarotti in person. He can only recommend himself by singing. Later, under the personal arrangement of Pavarotti, Hei Haitao was able to go abroad for further study smoothly.
1998, Italy held the World Vocal Music Competition, and Hei Haitao, who was studying in Austria, wrote to Pavarotti. Therefore, Pavarotti personally wrote to the Italian President and recommended him to participate in the music competition, in which Hei Haitao won the ranking. With the courage of self-recommendation and the spirit of continuous efforts, Hei Haitao has made extraordinary achievements on his own music path. Now Hei Haitao is the lead singer of the Royal Austrian Opera House.
This seems to be a miracle, but this successful example is enough to make some people without talent think: opportunities are fleeting, and it is important to be good at self-recommendation. Hua, a famous mathematician, once said, "Find a good chess player and make an axe at the door." He believes that we should dare to show ourselves in front of talented people and dare to "try to compete with the masters". When he was in a township primary school, he dared to question the theory of the great mathematician Su Jiaju. It was his precious spirit that made him break into the mysterious palace of mathematics kingdom early.
Opportunities are hard to come by, so many times, we take the initiative to fight for them. People who are afraid and unwilling to recommend themselves often miss the opportunity. Therefore, if you are really a talented person with special skills, you don't have to restrain yourself too much at the critical time, but you should recommend yourself in time to get opportunities for development.