The subject said that the students who came out of their countryside have all entered the same university now, and everyone's starting point is the same. This mentality should be adjusted. We should constantly exercise our emotional intelligence in our study and life in college. The first step to exercise EQ is empathy. Now, because most of the friends born after 1990s are only children, they live a carefree life at home, so they seldom consider other people's feelings. When you communicate with others sincerely, you should stand in the position of others.
Second, if you are not good at expression, learn to speak and think before participating in the discussion.
Many times we pay attention to a hot topic. Some people can express their opinions in a humorous way and cause laughter, but some people just talk after saying it, so learn to speak. Sometimes we should not try to use our quick wits, but think about it in our heads first. What should I say? It may be hard, but after a long time, we will have our own way of speaking. Sometimes it is not silence that can solve the problem. We are not independent in college, but it is also an important part of our life to participate in group activities and get along well with our classmates.
Third, you must tie the bell to solve the problem, and you must be down-to-earth at every step.
The subject also wants to improve himself and exercise his ability by running for class cadres to participate in the student union. In fact, this is also a good way, but if we run for class cadre and student union, we don't devote ourselves wholeheartedly, and make such a choice just to exercise our future interpersonal skills, sometimes we may not get good results, so if we want to win the position of class cadre or student union, we must work harder and exercise more privately. Class cadres and student union positions must first win the hearts of the people. Therefore, when running for class cadres or students' union-related positions, we should learn to communicate with our classmates actively, so as to win the hearts of the people. Only in this way can we really vote, and everyone will choose you, so we must do our work well first, not because we are unlucky. Actually, we didn't work hard.
Fourth, don't pursue perfection too much, you are your different fireworks.
In high school, we eagerly looked forward to the university, thinking that the university is a place where we can fly ourselves and do what we like. We hope to put on high heels like adults, then smile with a leather bag on our back and become a mature person, but we should not pursue perfection too much, because after all, we are still eighteen or nineteen years old, and we should enjoy the beautiful life now and contact the society with our ignorance or pure heart. Contact our university, when you feel the university with a pure heart and a sincere heart, you gain a lot. In fact, you should be true to yourself in college and not be too sophisticated. If we are too mature, or look at problems too mature, we will lose our original true and simple self.
Fifth, be a reliable person and always reflect.
In a larger environment, I will become smaller, so if I want to improve my ability to deal with others and let myself deal with problems more maturely, then I must first take the initiative to contact and communicate with others. Sometimes we don't do well, so I should think and reflect in private. For example, we often brag about something, which means that we have lost others' trust in ourselves, so we should always. Only in the future work can we become more reliable and responsible. A person who keeps his promise, whether in life or work, is more likely to be recognized by others.
Sixth, learn to be confident and deal with problems rationally.
Maybe we are in the countryside, but we are more exposed to the fragrance of the soil. We must face the problem with confidence, optimism and rationality, and don't care too much about other people's evaluation and behavior. At the same time, don't be a good person and have your own opinions. I believe that no one will refuse to get along with a confident and independent person, strive to develop their talents, cultivate their hobbies in college, and have a persistent attitude to deal with problems and exercise their strength.