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I have been writing online for some time. Thanks to the internet, I met many new friends without leaving home, added WeChat to each other, and talked a few words intentionally or unintentionally. Because most of them are college students, it is natural to talk about where to go to school. When they learn that my university is a graduate school, they often express admiration and envy, thinking that I must be awesome. For these compliments, I always reply in the same way: "Nothing, just a coincidence." This is not modesty or conceit, but genuine heartfelt words. ?
Although, as far as the current ranking and title are concerned, my school is really first-class in China. Project 985, 2 1 1 project, directly under the Ministry of Education, is the top three in Beijing and the top ten in China ... but in my opinion, the glory of the school is nothing to boast about. ?
After all, what kind of university we are admitted to only reflects our college entrance examination level, but it does not prove our other abilities, nor does it mean that we will lay the foundation for future development. University should be the beginning of a journey, not the end. ?
High school management, the university will go by itself.
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I still remember the first class meeting when I first entered school, and everyone had to introduce themselves. Some students can't get rid of the same theme, that is, they were admitted to the top of the city and the province, but they didn't do well and missed the highest institution of learning before coming to our school. There was a trace of pride and disgust in their words. However, most people are still happy and excited to come to this school. ?
This excitement only lasted for a short time. As the days passed, the freshness and pride at that time were replaced by the cruel reality, and the students no longer mentioned their former glory and felt how proud they were. It is gradually discovered that a school is like a business card with various titles printed on it. Even if we hold it in our hands, it won't help. We should rely on our comprehensive ability to muddle along in the Jianghu. ?
In fact, from the moment I entered the university, no matter what achievements I made before, everything was zero and it was a brand new beginning. Self-pity for the past is no different from water under the bridge. All we have to do and can do is pack our bags and get back on the road. ?
"High school holding hands, the university walking by itself" is my summary of the difference between high school and university. At the university stage, there is no need for teachers' "gadfly" exhortation and mutual support and encouragement among friends. More emphasis should be placed on self-study. A person "has a long way to go, Xiu Yuan and Xiu Yuan are Xi, and I will go up and down for it", because all you want to pursue is yourself.
Universities decide their own starting point and upper limit.
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A friend was depressed when he failed in the postgraduate entrance examination at Peking University. He called me to comfort me and said that he had decided to continue his postgraduate entrance examination for Peking University next year. I advised him to choose a similar university, and there was no need to go. Suddenly, he solemnly said to me, "If you go to a good university, you will have a high starting point and more opportunities." ?
It's true. The steps you take are different, the scenery you see is naturally different, and the experience you get is different. As far as our school is concerned, there are indeed many "benefits" For example, some top 500 companies will have special job fairs, more internship opportunities, and more places for foreign exchange and study and counterpart schools. However, these opportunities can only be regarded as the starting point. ?
University may determine a person's starting point, but a person's upper limit is in his own hands. Even if there are more opportunities, only if you fight for them can you really count them. Even if the school has more opportunities and better benefits, it will be futile if you don't fight for it. ?
No matter where we live temporarily, whether we are elites in the secular world or ordinary people, we should seize those fleeting life opportunities and don't let birth limit our development. If the school does not have better resources, then go out and look for Bole everywhere; If limited by the school background, we should improve our talents and learn from each other. Even a swift horse has to run to be known to the world, what's more, many of us are not as good as a swift horse.
Comfort is a fatal disaster.
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The difference between universities, for some people, is just the place where they fell. Even famous schools have many such people. ?
Every year, many people in the school postpone graduation, some because of force majeure factors such as health and communication, others just because they fail too many courses and their grades are terrible, which will eventually suffer. ?
Two students in this class unfortunately postponed this year. These two people are equally bad. One failed more than a dozen courses and one failed eight or nine courses. I don't know much about the former, but the latter is the dormitory opposite me. I am also a witness to his step by step depravity. His daily state is slovenly, wearing pajamas, playing games in bed, going downstairs to order takeout is a rare activity to get out of the dormitory, and it is even more difficult to show up in class at ordinary times. This ending is really expected. It was once the top few in the college entrance examination in the city, but now even graduation has become a problem, which is deplorable. ?
Admittedly, comfort is fatal. ?
On the eve of postgraduate entrance examination, there will always be reports about postgraduate entrance examination universities on the Internet. Many people have been admitted to prestigious schools in the well-known holy land of postgraduate entrance examination. Students are determined to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination from the moment they enter the school gate; In contrast, many students in our school seem to think that everything will be fine if the college entrance examination is successful, but they have lost their fighting spirit and motivation to struggle because of this "gentle town", and only got two exams for the postgraduate entrance examination. ?
Obviously, these people regard being admitted to a good university as the peak of their lives, so what they will do in the future must be downhill. Full losses, moderate gains and mentality are sometimes more important than the environment. If you want to live up to your youth and yourself, you must share weal and woe. Laughing till early is not victory, but laughing till the end is success.
Being a first-class self has nothing to do with the environment.
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There is a private message from readers backstage that I am in two universities, but I am very confused about the entrance examination. I feel very hard, but I still do nothing, afraid that I will fail. ?
I replied: that only shows that you are not working hard enough at present. Hard-working people are never too unlucky. If you feel unlucky, it may be that you haven't worked hard enough. ?
James watkins said that rivers can break rocks, not because of its infinite strength, but because of perseverance. I have always believed that quantitative change will definitely lead to qualitative change, and the accumulation of quantity will be completed one day, perhaps inadvertently. ?
The present situation, whether good or bad, is temporary. Like the words on King Solomon's ring, everything will pass. Therefore, if you want to change the status quo or maintain your previous achievements, you can only make unremitting efforts. ?
Please remember that no matter where we are, first-class universities or second-class universities, we must always be first-class!