1, don't compare with depraved people. It's easy to fall, but it's hard to go back after falling. Don't give yourself a chance to be decadent. Don't think that you can ignore the cruel reality of the outside world by hiding in school. Competition is getting more and more fierce: more people, but less work. Although the school is very gentle, you can't let it live a life of drunkenness. Otherwise, after a comfortable meditation, a person has stepped on his head when he wakes up, only to find that he has no strength to stand up. This is called a happy death! The world is a bit ridiculous, because there are always people who are confused. Therefore, when someone takes the fake seriously and someone takes the true and false seriously, don't pay too much attention. As long as you do it, without regret and guilt, everything will come naturally. If you can't go home often, call home often. You should know that your parents and relatives still miss you very much, but they won't call you because they are afraid of disturbing your study. If you grow to such a big age, even parents who are nurturing tend to ignore you. Don't think about yourself all day. You have no right to think that you are excellent! More and more people are playing with love. If you have a brain, don't just follow suit. If you are good, don't be bad. Love, love: the point is love. If it's just a moment of happiness and you're not sure if you want to be together for life, it's best to be single. Don't love too many times, youth is short. Find someone to cherish and travel seriously together. If you gossip all your life, why make regrets for yourself? Otherwise, the man is called philandering, fickle and disloyal; Women are free and loose, easy virtue. Although others don't talk about you, they will definitely have opinions about you. Know how to live an honest and clean life. 6. Don't think that you can do whatever you want by yourself. Although you are really a person, the responsibility on you belongs to a group of people. You can't shirk the burden and responsibility you shoulder, and the hopes of many people you carry can't live up to. Think twice before you act, willfulness is not an adult's performance. Pretend to be naive, others say you are simple, and you will be treated as an idiot in your heart.

7. Don't be too emotional, but learn to control your emotions. If you really love someone, you should also leave some love for the people around you: relatives, confidants and friends. 8. Many things that have no result no matter how you do it or how you think about it, you should know how to pay time. Some things, no matter how hard you try and how reluctant you are, don't have enough time. Wait patiently. 9, don't blame some people often misunderstand you, some people who misunderstand you, explain a little, whether he understands or not; Other unworthy people do not need to explain. Sometimes things get darker and darker. If a person has to misunderstand you, the more you explain, the more guilty you will appear. Explain to the necessary people and let the unnecessary people go. 10, impulse is the devil, because it will only harm people. Be calm when something happens. 1 1. The ugly duckling will become a swan, Cinderella will become a princess, and the frog will become a prince. No matter who you meet, don't give ta a negative answer too early. Don't feel that you are superior, handsome and beautiful, narcissism can't get a clear score, and then you simply look down on others. When you look at others, you are not high in the eyes of others, and the distance is between the two sides. 12. Go your own way and always listen to others, especially the advice of the elderly. What some people say may not be right, and it may not be in line with their own situation, but it is beneficial and harmless to refer to the opinions of people who have experienced it. 13, believe that life is beautiful. There must be bright hope. When there is no hope, even the best life will only be left in the dark. 14, remember the person you should remember carefully, and don't forget to remember yourself. 15, some things don't think that they are only temporary, but they are actually lifelong; Some things are not considered as a lifetime, but actually only a short period of time. 16, don't listen to people say that you are handsome and beautiful, and you will lose your head and be complacent. First, people may compliment you; Second, even if you are really good-looking, you should keep a cool head. People who only see your good appearance are just like seeing a flower. They only see your appearance and never really pay attention to your inner emotions and temperament. Listen to people who know everything. They are the teachers and friends you should really respect in your life. 17. Don't just go online and entertain yourself. Read more books and improve your inner temperament. Boys should not only understand the NBA, but also pay more attention to the world dynamics; Girls should not only know fashion, after all, long hair and short knowledge are easy to be deceived. Regardless of boys and girls, a necessary pursuit in college is to make yourself wise, which will benefit you for life! 18, don't flaunt that you are still young and sing that you don't want to grow up. First, you are in high school, not young; Second, even if I want to be spoiled occasionally, I will whisper it in my lover's arms when I go home. Everyone is no longer a child, so why take the guise of a child as your wrong instruction and don't indulge yourself. 19. Being strong at once really faces a lot of pressure and difficulties. Find more sincere friends and find someone who really loves you. They will always give you encouragement and support, listen to you when you are wronged and protect you when you are injured. It is lucky to have someone who loves you around to grow up with you. 20. Don't change the decision you have made unless it is really necessary. Self-willed, reneging, very hurtful. I don't want others to hurt me like this one day, and I don't want to treat others like this myself. Do to others what you don't want them to do to you! People's hearts are all fleshy, although tough, but they are very fragile when they are unprepared! 2 1, work and rest on time, and plan your own time. Don't think it is a trivial matter. If you do a lot of simple things that should be done, then you are not simple. Think about how long you spent in a positive and correct state after entering the university. 22. Don't be childish. Remember, you are an adult. Adults should act like adults. No one will spoil you, spoil you. Yelling at others will only make people think you are crazy. If you feel wronged, you can either find someone you can rely on to talk quietly or hide it in your heart (of course, it is easy to be depressed if you often hold it back). Don't focus too much on arguing with others, but know how to speak with facts. First, argumentation can't produce meaningful results, because everything still stays at the level of speech; Second, even if you are right, don't you think it's a waste of time to argue for too long? When actions turn everything into an indisputable fact, others will naturally have no confidence to argue with you again. 24, to know how to admit their own advantages, but also know how to find the advantages of others. Be confident and trust others.

25. Be good at discovering your own shortcomings and change them as soon as possible. But don't stare at other people's shortcomings. Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. 26. Don't swear. Swearing is dirty, and it is often said that it can only lower one's level and make oneself look uncultured and tasteless. 27. Don't flinch when encountering problems, but try to solve them. Staying there is not the most effective solution, and problems will accumulate. 28. Relax occasionally, listen to some favorite music and watch some sublime movies. 29, things have happened, no matter good or bad, calm down! 30, don't do it with evil, don't do it with good.