Touching love articles 1: a touch of sweet potato love.
Text/Xin Li
1995 I'm waiting at Xuzhou station, and I can take the train in 1 hour, so I have to sit on the bench and wait slowly. On the bench opposite me, there is a couple who can't see their age. The man has dark skin, long and messy hair and strong body. That dress is similar to that of a farmer who goes out to work; This woman has short hair, a round face, a cotton-padded jacket and a baby in her arms. Judging from the children's age, both of them are young. I found that one of the woman's front teeth was missing. Their faces are covered with aging and fatigue that are not commensurate with their age.
Because I didn't eat anything all day, I took out fruit bread and ham from my bag and ate it myself.
The man across the street looks at me every once in a while, with his hand in his sleeve. He smiled when I looked up at him. After repeating it several times, he walked to the door alone. When I finished eating, he came back with a baked sweet potato in his hand, steaming in vain. He touched the woman and put the hot potato in her hand without peeling it. Then he held the child in his hand.
The woman waited for a while, looked at her man for a while and blushed. She was probably surprised: Did the sun rise in the west today? Men are usually reluctant to spend money. The woman began to eat sweet potatoes, and she was very happy and obviously hungry. There is no blood in her pale and thin face. In the middle of eating, the woman suddenly remembered something and said to the man, "You eat, I'm full."
The man said, "Eat if you are told!"
When a woman doesn't eat, she says, "You didn't eat, and your lips are still dry."
They pushed each other around. You let me eat, I let you eat. When the man asked the woman to eat, the corners of her mouth wriggled and a drop of saliva quickly dripped out.
He is obviously lying. Finally, the woman forced half a piece of sweet potato into the man's hand.
When a man finished eating, he huddled up with his child in his arms. In the cold, it is warm for two people to lean together.
When I looked at them, I felt an indescribable sadness and a vague emotion.
Sweet potatoes contain all forms. Not so romantic and indifferent, but they really care about each other, know each other well and depend on each other.
I guess that woman doesn't know what a rose is, and she doesn't know how to be affectionate. The way she loves men is simple and concrete. When it is cold, she wears more clothes. Hungry and full; Pay attention to safety at work, that's all.
So is her man, who will never say a sweet word to her woman and make a romantic surprise for the rest of her life. She didn't know how to win the favor of women by buying roses, drinking coffee and sending kisses, but she left the only sweet potato for women to eat when she was hungry.
That sweet potato is more romantic than 9999 roses in his woman's eyes.
True love, bone marrow. It doesn't need a pledge of eternal love, it doesn't need all languages, it lives in the soul. ...
Touching Love Part 2: Love is more persistent than we thought.
My sister and brother-in-law are college classmates. They met in their freshman year and fell in love in their sophomore year. Of course, they faced graduation breakup in their senior year.
In those days, my brother-in-law's performance was average, his ability was average, his appearance was average, and his family was even worse. He has no background, no house and no car. My sister's mother arranged a job for her to go home, and she would never let her sister be with such a man. Like many senior couples, they broke up after graduation, one stayed in the south and the other went back to the north. My sister was 22 and my brother-in-law was 22 that year.
Also, there are no two people in the future, so why delay each other's time. It is better to make a clean break and find your own happiness from now on.
Three years later, they seldom contacted, let alone met. It's just that my sister will receive a gift from her brother-in-law on her birthday, and her brother-in-law will order flowers online and send them to her sister's office on Valentine's Day.
My sister is 25 years old and has never had a boyfriend. Her family began to worry and arranged introductions and blind dates in full swing.
I know several of them, and they are very interested in my sister. In addition, my sister's looks and work are good, and there are many love roles among the company's classmates.
I didn't understand it at first, so I complained that she didn't understand it. But every time she smiled and said, I don't like it. I don't feel it.
Perhaps most of the stories will end here. They will fall in love and be suicidal until he fades out of her memory and never appears in life again.
In May this year, on my sister's 26th birthday, I received a phone call from my brother-in-law, which is rare for so many years. He just said:
"The house has been bought, and the work has been arranged for you. Come back and get married. "
One "take it" is better than ten "I'll give it to you".
Sister and brother-in-law want you to go home and get married.
I don't know if my sister cried at that time, but I did. I knew my tears were hopeless, but I cried in a mess at that time. I saw my sister's status on campus two days ago and was getting married. Simple four words, once again gave me a huge impact. Those nights when we were lying in bed and telling their stories together, those tears that fell because of missing and helplessness, and those doubts and criticisms of everyone fell apart in front of these four words.
They are now living in a first-class provincial capital city. My brother-in-law works in a middle-level state-owned enterprise, and my sister works in a very good company with the help of her brother-in-law. She got married in 10. Those once hardships have turned into full happiness at this time.
Four years, for a man who has nothing, I don't know what he has experienced, and I don't know how he struggled from scratch to such a point. What made him bear the wind and rain alone and believe in love?
For four years, for a beautiful young woman, I finally understand that she refuses others frequently for the sake of * * *, and also needs to wait for a happiness worthy of her persistence with her youth. If you already have someone in your heart, no one can get in.
In such a complicated and impetuous age, how much love can stand persistence?
Postscript: By my side, many people are insisting on love. But not many people can really get through that difficult time and give up their happiness.
I want to say that people who give up first are really stupid, because you never know how happy you will be if you get through it. You never know how lucky you are to have someone who is fighting for your future.
I was hurt in love, too. But I still believe in love. Everyone deserves to be cherished by better people. Live your own life, and others will want to get close. Love is not finding a decent person to fill the vacancy when it is empty and lonely, but trying to improve yourself and be a lovely person when there is no love. We will all gain a beautiful love because of this, and we will be happy because of love.
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Touching love article 3: chasing love thousands of miles away
My friend invited me to Shenzhen Painting Academy to see a photo exhibition. The exhibition is organized by the abstract painter and young artist Dongfang, with the theme of snowy plateau. This is a man with a rough temperament and unusual clothes. I learned from the conversation that eight years later, he went to Tibet many times, not only to pursue art, but also to find the Tibetan girl in his heart.
Snow mountain saves people, and fate leads the way.
Dongfang was born in a military camp on the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau. /kloc-joined the army at the age of 0/5,/kloc-was admitted to the art department of the art college at the age of 0/9. In the mid-1990s, I jumped ship and came to Shenzhen. Although he is in an open special zone, he always has a plateau complex in his heart.
1995, Dongfang spent six months riding a motorcycle from Shenzhen to * * * via Guangdong, Guangxi, Guizhou, Sichuan and Qinghai, and then from front to back to Tibet ... In this "outdoor gathering" across the south of China, Dongfang encountered unexpected difficulties: extreme heat, severe cold, strong winds, heavy rain, avalanches and dust ... Orientals had to live in the wild all the time. I can't find my family, I can't make up for food, and I suffer from hunger, thirst and physical exhaustion all the way.
One day, when he set out in the morning, there were no clouds in Wan Li. At noon, a sudden strong wind blew, and hail the size of pigeon eggs fell from the sky ... He was black in front of him and planted down the mountain with his motorcycle. ...
I don't know how long it took, but he heard a small voice anxiously calling, "Brother! Brother! Wake up! " He tried to open his eyes and saw that the wind and hail had stopped and a vague little face was looking down at him. His head was resting on her thin little arm, and she took a big water bag made of plow cowhide in her hand and poured water into his mouth. ...
A clear spring came and the East woke up. He finally saw that it was a Tibetan girl who saved him. She is thirteen or fourteen years old, with a round face and distinctive eyes. The most beautiful thing is that she has a pair of deep dimples on her cheeks, which are rare in * * *.
Looking at the east, she opened her eyes and shouted in surprise: "Basang, you look at Brother Han, I'll find Abba!" " "A teenage Tibetan boy answered, followed by a skipping sheepdog. Little Basang doesn't speak Chinese very well, but he still listens to his sister's instructions sensibly, puts his thin back against the upper body of the East, and tries to keep him sitting * * * to protect his heart * * * and wait quietly.
Two or three hours later, the little girl finally came panting with a strong middle-aged Kangba man riding a plow. A family of three joined forces to carry Dongfang and his things onto the ox cart. On the way, the East realized that this place was a mountain at the junction of Sichuan and Tibet. The little girl's name is Pubu Zhuo Ma. She goes to school in Bazi and goes home once a month. On my way home this time, I happened to catch a storm and hail. On the way, she found the unconscious East, anxious and desolate. She had to blow the horn for help on the mountain, just as her brother heard the horn to meet her. Zhuo Ma asked for his brother's leather water bag and saved the East.
Over a mountain, the scenery blends in. In front of us is a canyon, the bottom of which is covered with endless soft grass and dotted with dazzling wild flowers. This is Zhuo Ma's home! A sturdy tent with a bright Tibetan carpet, a bright copper teapot on the cow dung stove, and colorful religious pictures on a low table. The roast leg of lamb, sour goat milk and straw mushroom soup have already been packed ... The kind Tibetan mother said to the East in Tibetan: "Eat, son, eat, this is all for you ..."
The pain in the East's right leg was unbearable. Zhuo Ma and Basang took off their clothes and let out a scream. Many places were "raw"! Zhuo Ma's father repeatedly said, "Never mind! We have a doctor who is famous for hundreds of miles in Fiona Fang, Fiona Fang. He can cure more serious injuries than you. I am going to ask him! " Zhuo Ma also comforted the East with her Sichuan-flavored Mandarin: "Brother, you don't have to worry. Uncle Jamba's medical skill is very high! If you use his Tibetan medicine, you will soon run in the valley like a good horse. "
At dawn, Zhuo Ma's father and Jamba walked into the tent. The doctor diagnosed a fracture of the right leg and a concussion. After treatment, if you stop being in a coma, you will be saved.
When I woke up, it was already dusk. He felt refreshed, dizzy and nauseous, and there was only Zhuo Ma in the tent. Zhuoma said with surprise, "Brother, you are awake! Uncle Jamba said you were going to sleep for two days, but you woke up after only one day! " Zhuo Ma's father is a worker in a nearby forest farm and goes to work every day. His younger brother Basan has just entered the "horseback primary school". His mother grazes cattle and sheep, and Zhuo Ma takes care of Dong. In order to take good care of the East, Zhuo Ma specially asked ABBA for leave.
Dongfang spent 65,438+000 days in Zhuo Ma's home, and Tibetan doctor Qiangba came to visit him by bike every few days. Xiao Zhuo's mother feeds him with water and food, carries excrement and urine, wipes his body and washes his clothes every day ... When the weather is good, she moves around outside the tent, singing and dancing for him. The sky is high and the clouds are light, the grass is green and the flowers are fragrant, and all is silent. Only Zhuo Ma, a beautiful spirit, is spinning in the east.
Dongfang told Tibetan A-mei, who was 15 years younger than himself, many things outside the mountain: city, sea, train, car, subway, plane ... He encouraged Zhuo Ma to study hard and do great things outside in the future. Before Dongfang left, Zhuo Ma Sai gave him a plow cowhide wallet with exquisite Tibetan embroidery and 5000 yuan in it. Zhuo Ma said, "Brother, you have been out for a long time. This is the money you flew back to Shenzhen. I don't know if it's enough I heard that the ticket is valuable! "
In the east, I found that the coral beads handed down from generation to generation around her neck were gone! Zhuo Ma said that Zhuzi gave 1 10,000 yuan to the dam and 5,000 yuan to Qiangba for medical expenses. The rest are here. Dongfang is very sorry, but there is nothing he can do: his wallet rolled off a cliff when the accident happened. ...
She is the snow lotus in his heart.
The East brought back a large number of videos, photos and paintings from the plateau, which became an instant hit. Not only won the unanimous praise of Shenzhen citizens, but also aroused widespread concern in the art world, and art dealers at home and abroad also surrounded him.
He sent Zhuo Ma Jr. 20,000 yuan, but after three months, the money was returned because "the address is unknown and there is no such person". The east immediately returned to the canyon as quickly as possible. The grass was still there, and the lake was still there, but no one was there. He rented a car and searched hundreds of miles around, but still found nothing. The Zhuo Ma family, as well as the Tibetan doctor Qiangba, have all disappeared without a trace! The east thought, did you have a dream? But the right leg still hurts obviously!
The east returned to Shenzhen decadent, and time passed in the busy. Although surrounded by colorful beauties, the East still can't forget * * * and Zhuo Ma. They are priceless on the plateau! He goes to Tibet once or twice a year. He visited all the residential areas, but never found Zhuo Ma!
In a blink of an eye, Dongfang is 30 years old. Parents and comrades-in-arms are anxious about the marriage in the East. He also longs for love, but what he needs is love that is bloody and transparent as crystal!
Many times in his dream, he went home to Zhuo Ma and saw dimples on Zhuo Ma's face. In the dead of night, he often takes out the cowhide wallet that Zhuo Ma gave him. Zhuo Ma's voice seems to ring in his ear: "Brother, this is 5000 yuan, which I bought for you in Shenzhen ..."
Dongfang has been to Beijing Xisi Jewelry Street, where he saw a string of artificial coral necklaces, and the price was as high as tens of thousands of yuan. Zhuo Ma Jr.' s strings are natural and have been passed down for a hundred years. In order to save him, she sold this heirloom 1 ten thousand! It suddenly dawned on him that a girl like Zhuo Ma Jr. was the one he loved! Because she is as beautiful as the goddess of snow mountain, and her true feelings are as priceless as red coral beads! His love has been bad, because Zhuoma is hidden in the deepest part of his heart! He prayed: Zhuo Ma, grow up quickly. When you grow up, I will marry you and go home!
Not far from Wan Li, pursuing true love.
The East has started a life journey into Tibet by motorcycle again. He has endless love for the mysterious snowy plateau and the simple and kind people there. Zhuo Ma's beautiful face with moving dimples, with the passage of time, more and more clearly engraved in the heart of the East. He will spend his whole life looking for Zhuo Ma!
Many trips to * * * and thoughts of Zhuo Ma have injected great energy into the artistic life of the East and made unprecedented breakthroughs in art, but he still hasn't found Zhuo Ma. He only took the whole * * * as his lover. On his way to Tibet, he adopted Tibetan orphans and became the father of 17 Tibetan children. He paid all the expenses for their study and life.
One day in the early autumn of 2003, Dongfang went to visit a friend at * * * University, which coincided with the start of school. The students are very active, singing and dancing. Among the girls dancing in the group, a Tibetan girl wearing a costume was found in the east. She danced lightly as if she had seen it before! Crowded near, the girl has a delicate round face, ruddy as an apple, black eyes, and a pair of dimples looming on her cheeks ... Dongfang shouted excitedly: "Zhuo Ma! Zhuo Ma! The girl did not respond. When he squeezed into the dance floor, the girl disappeared like a breeze. ...
Yes, I have known Zhuo Ma for several years, and Zhuo Ma is old enough to go to college! A voice reminded the East: Zhuo Ma may have gone to college! So Dongfang, who is 35 years old, decided to study Tibetan at * * * University at his own expense, so that he could better communicate with Zhuo Ma and Tibetan relatives in the future. He thought that maybe one day, he would meet Zhuo Ma here.
One night, a few days after entering school, Dongfang sat in a coffee shop in Bajiao Street and looked at the wallet that Zhuo Ma Jr. gave him, sobbing. Suddenly a burst of laughter came, and a group of female college students crowded into the coffee shop: they came to celebrate their friends' birthdays. A girl approached him gently: "Brother, can you sit at another table?" When he looked up, he saw a slim young girl standing beside him, wearing a dark red denim suit with black hair shawl. If the red tide on her cheeks didn't explain the identity of the plateau people, no one could distinguish her from the fashionable young people in the metropolis. Her delicate round face, bright black eyes and flashing dimples ... Isn't she the girl who mistakenly thought she was Zhuo Ma II that day? Dongfang dared not expect anything, but said, "Can you help me find someone? Her name is Pubu Zhuo Ma ... "The girl saw his leather wallet, grabbed it in her hand and looked at the East carefully. She shouted, "Brother! East side! It is really you! I did not expect to meet you here! " The East asked doubtfully, "Are you ..." The girl said, "I am little Zhuo Ma! You were injured in my house that year. " The sudden great happiness made the East almost faint: he couldn't believe that this fashionable girl was the simple and shy little Zhuo Ma.
The girl took out a small clip and handed it to him. It's a veteran card with a photo and the name of the East on the title page. This is a token left by the East in those days, and she always carries it with her. It's really her-Pubu Zhuo Ma! In the east, there is a sudden excitement of finally reaching the "western paradise" through hardships. He lay prone on the table and burst into tears!
It turned out that shortly after leaving in the East, Zhuo Ma's father went to Houzang, and the family moved to Yadong Mountain. Now Zhuo Ma is a junior majoring in environmental science!
Dongfang asked Zhuo Ma why he didn't write to Shenzhen. Zhuo Ma said it was this * * * "habit: Anyone who comes to the Snow Mountain is our most sincere friend, and we can save them with our lives; But friends left the snow-capped mountains, and we didn't take the initiative to contact. * * * That's how generations have lived! Dongfang said he would pay back Zhuo Ma's medical expenses, but he couldn't talk-he couldn't treat Zhuo as a normal person, and he was worried that it would hurt her. He and Zhuo Ma are the most beautiful, pure and sincere feelings!
Dongfang and Zhuo Ma talked about their experiences of searching for them in Tibet many times, took out a thick picture book and painted Zhuoma in their hearts ... Smart Zhuo Ma blushed and said with tears, "Brother, I didn't expect you to be such an Amdo man!
In fact, a few years ago, Zhuo Ma, who was still young, worshipped the East very much. Because he can drive a motorcycle into the big snow mountain alone! He was injured, but he never shouted that he didn't want to go home. He has endless interesting stories in his mouth. What's even more amazing is the pen in his hand, what it looks like, and what it draws is * * *! How can Zhuo Ma forget a person who loves * * * so much? Therefore, the East has always been in Zhuo Ma's heart, because the words of the East have been echoing in her ears, and she is determined to learn something.
In this way, despite the age gap of 15 years, Pubu Zhuo Ma and Dongfang really love each other! The East protects Zhuomalike with its own eyes, and Zhuoma returns to the East with the unique love of Tibetan girls. Insiders say they are "immortals in heaven and earth".
Dongfang went to Yadong Mountain with Pubu Zhuo Ma and visited Zhuo Ma's parents. Two old people and their younger brother Basang, who has been in the first year of high school, saw the mountains and rivers in the East and found them again eight years later. It was very pleasant. In order to welcome the guests from afar, the collector's son-in-law, Basan, blew the horn specially, and all the villagers scattered in the mountains came to hold a grand bonfire party specially for the East and Zhuo Ma. The young man jumped out of the pot, and the old man drank highland barley wine, and his laughter resounded through the horizon. ...
During the holiday, Dongfang took Zhuo Ma Jr. to Shenzhen, and Zhuo Ma got on the plane, train and ship for the first time. Dongfang decided to go to Yadong with Zhuo Ma and live in the beautiful * * *!
A touching love article