China is one of the four ancient civilizations, and morality has been people's code of conduct since ancient times. On the contrary, western countries regard rules as the code of conduct for people to get along with others. The train of history has run to this day, and I think morality and rules should go hand in hand.
Chinese civilization has a long history and has always been a civilized country famous for its morality. In ancient times, "a gentleman doesn't take advantage of people's danger", "a gentleman doesn't take people's love" and today's "love and dedication" and "honesty and trustworthiness" are all good moral beliefs, which is why China is called a country of etiquette. Although western civilization is not as extensive and profound as Chinese civilization, its awareness of rules is praised by the world. At the beginning of the founding of the People's Republic of China, some western countries stipulated many laws and regulations in all aspects of social life, and a strong law-abiding atmosphere was formed in West Renye Fang.
On one occasion, several China students went to Canada to experience life. When they went to a restaurant for dinner with their Canadian classmates, China students saw students patting long queues in front of the dining window, while the teacher was empty in front of the dining window. As a result, they rushed to the teacher's lunch window and got the meal early, while Canadian students were still waiting in line. Someone asked Canadian students why they didn't go to the classroom window to serve food. Canadian students say that the school rules stipulate that students can't go to the classroom window to cook. In their view, rules are for compliance. Without rules, there is no morality.
There are hundreds of thousands of books in the library of Harvard University, and the school stipulates that students can only read books in the library and are not allowed to borrow them. If they break the rules, they will be dismissed. A student once stole a book from the library. Later, a big fire destroyed all the books in the library. The student realized that the book in his hand was a survivor, so he gave it to the school. The school thanked him very much and accepted the book, but dismissed him. Because he violated the school rules. Their big rules are above everything else, and they lose their morality if they violate the school rules.
From this perspective, we should also accept the rule consciousness of western civilization while retaining the traditional civilization of China. In fact, in the real society, morality and rules are closely linked. If rules are human bones, then morality is blood and meat, and the combination of the two can form a living person. A society without rules will be chaotic; In an immoral society, people lack the minimum trust, and the whole society will lose its sense of security. Morality and rules are inseparable. Only with morality can we abide by the rules. Obey the rules, and you will have noble moral cultivation.
Let morality and rules go hand in hand!
Confucius said, "The nature of a gentleman depends on awe." People are divided into gentlemen and villains because gentlemen have awe of the rules, can act according to the rules, are self-disciplined and never take chances. Just as "it is far more effective to let the school rules guard Harvard than anything else."
/kloc-one night in 0/764, a fire destroyed the Harvard library, and many precious ancient books were destroyed by the fire, which made people sad. However, the sudden fire pushed an ordinary student to a special position. After a painful ideological struggle, he finally made a brave choice. It turned out that before this, he violated library discipline and quietly took a book donated by a Harvard priest out of the library, ready to return it after reading it. Who would have thought that this book would remain after a big fire? The students knocked on the door of the principal's office anxiously, explained the reason and solemnly returned the book to the school. The headmaster first thanked the student and praised him for his courage and honesty, but he was expelled from school a few days later. There are clear rewards and punishments, and there is no carelessness at all. Many people are puzzled by this. The headmaster didn't explain. He just showed Harvard's philosophy: "It is much more effective to let the school rules guard Harvard." In front of the rules, they follow the principle that everyone is equal. In all fairness, they must respect the rules.
Two months ago, there was a news that flashed everyone's mobile phone screen: on the bus in Wanzhou District, Chongqing, passenger Liu asked to stop because he missed the destination station, and the driver refused because there was no stop sign there. Liu ignored the rules, accused the driver and fought, which eventually led to the death of 15 fresh lives. Because a little resentment endangers public safety, hurts innocent people, and the lesson is extremely painful! The dead rest in peace and the living wake up. Emotions in life are inevitably ups and downs, but we should always fear rules, order and life! This lesson of blood and tears is like a whip beating our hearts, which makes us think deeply.
Singapore is called "Garden City" because of its small land area and beautiful environment. But this country still uses an ancient punishment: flogging. In Singapore, flogging is applied to at least 30 crimes, not only in prisons, in the army, but even in schools. They use this way to restrain the behavior of the state. It is true that flogging is an act of force to supervise citizens to abide by the rules, but the awareness of rules stems from awe! Everyone respects the rules, which makes Singapore one of the countries with orderly society.
"awe" is a kind of self-discipline, a kind of self-supervision, and a kind of self-motivation. If everyone emphasizes freedom and ignores the constraints of rules and discipline, then breaking the rules is only a temporary rush, and what you get is everyone's contempt and inner anxiety. When the rules disappear, so does freedom. Therefore, only by obeying the rules and fearing the rules can there be real freedom.
Rules are turbulent waves, leaving all those who try to violate them helpless; Rules are a bright moon, under which we appreciate the beauty of society; Rules are fragrant flowers, so that persistent people can share sweet honey.
Let us fear the rules.
As soon as I opened the book Mirage, I was deeply shocked by its beautiful, poetic and touching language, which made us realize the power of morality, aesthetics, art and language and nourished the growth of children's spiritual life.
The first article "Dream of the Great Bluestone" caught my attention, and I read the whole article with curiosity.
It tells a story: Qing Shi, who has lived in the wild for a long time, overheard the children say that she wanted to be a whale, so she began to inquire about the ways to become a whale and tried to do it according to these methods. But when she found that realizing his wish would bring more pain to her life, she gave up her ideal. Although he has not become a real whale in the sea, he has become a "whale" that can play with children, and is also the only "whale" in the world that can be embraced and embraced by children most enthusiastically. This change is enough to satisfy Daqingshi, because it is a space more suitable for him.
The protagonists in fairy tales seem to have some unrealistic ideas, but as long as they work hard and go through all kinds of hardships, they can always realize their ideals and wishes in the end. This experience has given us great encouragement and encouragement.
Each of us has our own beautiful ideals, some want to be scientists, some want to be writers, some want to be doctors ... but we all have to work hard, sweat and work hard for the same goal, in order to realize our beautiful ideals. I also have a beautiful ideal to be an astronaut, because I can travel in space and explore the mysteries of the universe. Can people live on Mars? If there are more people on the earth, can you move to the moon? Why are ultraviolet rays getting stronger and stronger? These strange questions often haunt my mind and spur me: now I should study hard, read more popular science books and enrich my knowledge of astronomy and geography.
But as in the Qing Dynasty, we gave up our ideals and wishes in order to protect others and protect more lives, which made us even more moved and revered.
Aren't there many such cases in life? Our mother is such a person who is willing to give up her youth and dreams for her children. In order to support us, they simply broke their hearts.
Some people harm the interests of most people for their own benefit. Like in a car, one
Some people eat bananas just for convenience and then throw them out of the window. Pedestrians will slip if they are not careful. They only pay attention to the cleanliness of their position, but they destroy the environment. Isn't it disgusting to imagine such behavior?
In fact, we can also give up ourselves to protect others, just like this big bluestone.
What kind of behavior is the most touching and admirable.
If you have no rules, you can't be Fiona Fang. Rules are rules, and rules are rules. There are examination rules in the examination room, sports rules in the playground and traffic rules on the zebra crossing. You can't run a red light when crossing the zebra crossing. Everyone should abide by this rule, but there are still many people who choose to take risks on their lives.
"Chinese-style red light running" is called the freest way to cross the road. As long as there are enough people on both sides of the road, you can go, which has nothing to do with the red light and green light. Anyway, the target is big, and the car will definitely not dare to hit it. It is precisely because of this concept that people have traffic accidents on zebra crossings every day in our country, and the safety line has become a dangerous line.
This time, I also became one of the people who violated the traffic rules. When my mother and I were playing in Zhengzhou, when my mother and I arrived at the intersection, there were already many people gathered there. At this time, there are almost no cars passing by, and the air seems to be still. People seem to be thinking: whether to break through or wait for 30 seconds without crossing this red line.
Finally, a chubby man in a white shirt dared to be the first in the world and walked straight through the crowd to the other side of the road. Then, the crowd relaxed, and we all started to "cross the road in Chinese style", ignoring the red light and filing out. I rushed out of the green belt, twisted my neck to observe the car next to me, strode, waved my hands and held my head high, like a national flag honor guard passing through a phalanx. Suddenly, a black figure roared past me. I was so scared that I felt a hand pull me across the street. I still can't remember whether that black figure is a car or a truck. The experience of running a red light sounded the alarm for me and made me understand the importance of rules.
Back to my hometown of Xiantao, I still see many "Chinese-style crossing the road" phenomena. That day, I came to the road after school and waited for the green light with many people. I saw such a big sister beside me. She looked around and left the roadside steps without hesitation, ready to take the lead in running a red light. She has crossed three zebra crossings and there are more than a dozen squares in front, but I didn't move, and the people around me didn't move. Sister stopped, hesitated, but didn't come back. Just then, the cars on the left and right sides came, and none of them slowed down, so the elder sister had to stand awkwardly in the traffic. How dangerous! However, when the traffic stopped, she suddenly accelerated and ran to the opposite side. There are about three or four seconds before the red light. These people around me finally couldn't stand it anymore and strode to the opposite side together, but I waited until the green light came on before raising my feet. In my heart, I am ashamed of those who have crossed the red line of the rules. They make fun of not only their own lives, but also other people's lives. Have they thought about the terrible consequences?
Looking back, I saw the person who ran the red light and crossed the rules with his own life. It's really common, and I thought of a thought-provoking sentence: treat the symptoms rather than the root cause. Only relying on the reminder of traffic lights and China people's own consciousness, these superficial constraints can't make "Chinese-style crossing the road" hide. Then, how can we strengthen the awareness of rules and fundamentally solve the problem of "Chinese-style crossing the road"?
A 5 6-year-old girl and her parents crossed the street at the zebra crossing. Because parents don't know that the child suddenly turned around and was hit by a speeding car and died, the tragedy made us cry, but it also shows that no one alive should ignore the rules.
The occurrence of tragedy makes people feel sympathy. Everyone must be thinking that if parents had taken good care of their children, such a tragedy would never have happened, but in my opinion, this view is only superficial and fails to see the inherent nature of the tragedy. On the one hand, from the perspective of parents, parents ignore the rules and don't obey the traffic rules. It stands to reason that the road must be at the zebra crossing. This is a traffic law, and you must slow down at the zebra crossing when driving. If parents obey the rules and cross the road at the zebra crossing, the safety factor will definitely be greatly improved. From the owner's point of view, he is the same as the former, because the rule is that the cloud is speeding on the road, so he can't respond effectively at the moment when the child turns around, which leads to such a tragedy. Neither of them paid attention to the rules, which led to the tragedy, so that the 6-year-old child lost his life because of ignoring the rules, and they also paid the price of their lives because of their ignorance of their own behavior. This is a warning to everyone alive, and it is not advisable to ignore the rules.
It is not that the sense of rules, like a tiger, will constantly make us lose our vigilance, but will inadvertently cause a fatal blow to us. A man in Ningbo Zoo risked his life to avoid the tickets during the Spring Festival, and did not abide by the zoo management regulations, so that he was attacked by a tiger and paid the price of his life. It was because he had no sense of rules that he relaxed his vigilance and suffered a fatal blow. Everyone is free, but freedom is relative. Everyone is bound by rules and laws. Only by obeying the rules can we live in this world better, and ignoring the rules will pay the price. Parents took their daughters across the street and had an accident. It seems that there are always many incidents of tigers hurting people in Ningbo Zoo, which happen again and again. This also reflects the current situation that citizens generally ignore social rules. If this kind of incident won't happen again, then we can only strangle this tiger who ignores the rules in people's minds. However, there are always people in the society who like to risk their lives to face their own interests and convenience and use their lives to win that little bit of luck. So until now, the tiger in people's consciousness has never appeared.
Tragedy has become untraceable, but we should learn from it and abide by laws and regulations. Let's abide by the rules and traffic laws from the heart, and live and walk in this world better.