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In the era of fighting for parents, how can ordinary people break the game?
The bbc once made a documentary called "56UP".

The content of the documentary is:

Children from 14 different families were selected for follow-up shooting, which was recorded every 7 years.

From 7 years old, 14 years old, 2 1 year old, 28 years old, 35 years old, 42 years old, 49 years old, until 56 years old before the film was broadcast.

Decades later, the director changed from a young man to an old man, but the shooting result shocked everyone.

Finally, children gradually become the same people as their parents.

From a highly disciplined family,

Children have always maintained a good figure and figure and become the elite of society;

Families who neglected care and requirements for their children from childhood, most of them have a bad life when they grow up;

Those children whose previous generation had a bad marriage,

In their future marriage, there are more or less parents' mistakes.

We always think that in the palm of fate, there will be fish escaping from the net.

However, most of the time, the fact is:

Whether you admit it or not, this is still an era of fighting for parents.

We strive for financial resources, and we strive for parents' values.

Lifestyle, way of thinking, lifestyle.

Some people say that parents are also hierarchical.

Poor parents,

It is blindly stocking children;

Third-rate parents,

Just doting on children and eventually turning them into disabled people;

Second-rate parents,

Be too strict with children and never consider their specific feelings;

Parents at the top,

It is to follow the laws of education and prevent children from walking independently, making progress together and achieving each other.

I don't want to waste time, so I just muddle along.

But I want to make my children angry and try to get ahead.

This is the biggest joke in the world.

Finally, end with a favorite poem:

Your child is not your child.

They came into this world with your help, not because of you.

They are by your side, but they don't belong to you.

What you can give them is your love, not your thoughts.

Because they have their own ideas.

You can shelter their bodies, but not their souls.

Because their souls belong to tomorrow, which you can't reach in your dreams.

As parents,

The most important thing is not to tell children what to do.

But first, be that person.