Every woman has a different idea. There are five common factors: money, kindness, vitality, handsomeness, intelligence and so on. These are all things that women will consider. In long-term relationships, women tend to consider whether they are rich or not, while in short-term relationships, women tend to consider whether they are handsome or not.
If you attract women from the beginning, that's good. You can keep this heat and develop with her.
If you can't attract women at first, you can turn into a protracted war and keep in touch every day at the lowest cost. If your value is not too low, women will usually date you within two weeks if conditions permit.
If you don't come out after two weeks, change someone else, but don't delete this girl, just refrigerate her.
The way of dating and chatting is also very simple. You should anticipate a date plan and then tell her that it must be a complete and feasible date plan.
1. When making an appointment, just ask "Are you free on Saturday? 」
If my sister says yes, she will continue to say, "Let's go and play. 1 1 I will pick you up in the morning. 」
3. If my sister says she is not available, she will continue to ask, "Are you free on Sunday?" If there is, it will be Sunday.
If your sister still says she is not available, you can ask, "Are you free that day?" Then make an appointment for the same day.
If your sister says she doesn't know, you should answer politely, "Thank you very much. Goodbye. Then switch to protracted war mode.
6. A protracted war is to contact you every day, but don't invite you first, until the girl appears and is attracted to you and wants to ask you out. (I only call, WeChat and chat QQ every day)
7. If there is still no progress after two weeks, you can change people and refrigerate the girl.
Finally, dare to make an appointment, don't think so much. If I follow my routine, chatting is the most important thing. What else to play here, where to play, and what to play may be to chat with my sister and build a stage to make me chat with my sister more happy.
Two people have a chance to be alone. It's simple and wrong for you to want to fall in love with her. If you don't come out in two weeks, change it quickly. If you succeed, you must take her to play here and there. Gradually you will be accepted by her.
How to ask girls out to meet is also a headache for many of our brothers. We two brothers often talk to a woman for a long time, and finally my sister ignores you. It was originally a last chance to fail. Just because you didn't invite the girl in time, you didn't invite the girl correctly!
I think asking a girl out mainly depends on three dimensions. 1. How charming you are. 2. familiarity. Step 3 be comfortable.
1. You had a good chat with her on WeChat, which shows that you have established superficial comfort. But there is no strong sense of connection. What is a strong sense of connection? For example, you are colleagues, classmates, people with overlapping life circles, work partners and so on.
If you are a person who can provide her with value, you will establish a strong connection with her. The value here not only refers to money, but also includes emotional value and life value. For example, if she is lovelorn, you are the only person she can talk to, and you provide her with emotional value.
The size of your personal charm is also very important. For example, it's not you who asked her out today, but Jay Chou. I'm afraid she will run out to see him before getting dressed. Therefore, the deeper reason is that you need to improve your aura. Experience more and make yourself a mature, confident and attractive man.
Remember, you should always regard yourself as a prize and let her beat you. Since ancient times, moths have put out fires. Should it be flames or moths? It all depends on your own choice.
Also, don't worry too much, be calm. There must be a reason why my sister refused you. Do you have time, don't know you, don't like you and so on. We just need to find out the reason and solve it!
After that, I'm talking about the skills of inviting girls!
(1) Clear purpose
People are afraid of meeting each other, but trees are afraid of uncovering their skins.
Many times, girls are very cold and push around on WeChat, but if you cheat her out, she will have a good time.
The purpose of the invitation is to meet. As long as we can meet, we can say anything. All the demands of girls can also be compromised. For example, girls say, "I can't come back too late." "I don't like singing." "I'm not feeling well and I can't climb the mountain." In the face of these excuses, you should have special words to treat!
(2) Short words
Invitation is not a chat, don't ramble, no head or tail. Express the invitation simply and clearly,
But under special circumstances, invitations can be used as a means to keep in touch with each other, and invitations are the topic of communication. For example, if you regularly invite her out to play or eat, even if the other party refuses, you can call to harass her in this way; Every time the other party refuses, it will form a refusal debt and finally come out.
(3) reduce expectations
As soon as he came up, he said, "Let's get a room!" No girl can promise. You said, "Let's go shopping and get something to eat!" Many girls won't refuse.
Don't make too many demands at first, use the strategy of camel entering the tent and make demands on the girl bit by bit.
Although the first thing I said was to go out for dinner and chat, I had a good time chatting. Sure, I can go to the park again.
(4) Keep it interesting.
Women like interesting men. You should distinguish yourself from other men.
For example, when you finalized the appointment time, you had an appointment with her at 7 pm. You can say to her, "I'll see you at seven."
I'm sure she'll wonder why she doesn't date on the hour, because other men will ask her out on the hour. You can say to her, "Because seven is my lucky number."
For example, the location of the date, you can tell her: Let's meet under the tallest tree in this city.
She will think you are a very interesting man.
For example, I often ask girls to play in Chimelong Happy World, and I will say you know first? Recently, a man in Chimelong fell off a roller coaster. Girls usually gossip about what happened. I can follow suit and invite: Do you dare to explore with me this Saturday? Arouse women's curiosity, and the chances of women agreeing to the invitation will increase.
(5) insist.
Stick to the end, in other words, have a strong desire to satisfy.
For the rejection of girls, insist on at least three times!
I have an appointment with a college girl. It took me a month to invite her many times through WeChat and telephone, and finally I came out.
To sum up, in fact, a good girl is not just a boy who is not familiar with drinking, but goes out to play alone. If asking a girl out to play is rejected, don't be too busy to get discouraged. This shows that at least this girl is not a casual person. Learn the above dating strategies to enhance your attraction to her. I believe you will succeed in asking her out.