His name is Liu, and he is an outstanding alumnus of the history department of Linyi University in 2008? The "first dutiful son" who carried his mother all the way to college gave up his high salary of 55W and returned to Dashan to teach. He became a young vice president at the age of 365,438+0. It was reported by People's Daily twice in a row, and was selected into the "China Good People List" twice.
202 1 The results of the 24th "China Youth May 4th Medal" sponsored by the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League and all-china youth federation were announced, and Liu won the highest honor of China youth-"China Youth May 4th Medal".
What is the thrilling story and unyielding growth experience behind this?
? 1: plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold?
Liu is a child in a mountain village. His father died when he was young, and his family became poor. His mother was greatly stimulated by his father's death, suffering from intermittent mental illness and even unable to take care of herself. Brothers and sisters are even more overwhelmed, and there is no news after leaving home. Liu doesn't have enough to eat and clothes every day, and he is bullied by other children. His life completely fell into the abyss, and finally he and his mother were left ...? His childhood was lonely and painful. He never resented his mother. He said, "Although she couldn't bring me up like other mothers, she gave me a home, a home and care." ?
Liu didn't plan to go to school at first because he didn't have the money to pay the tuition. After the teacher knew about his family, he helped him pay the tuition, so he didn't drop out of school. He gets up early every day, helps his mother dress, wash her face and cook, and then goes to school. After graduating from primary school, he will go to the city to attend junior high school, but there is still a mother at home who can't take care of herself. Liu decided to take her to the county seat. People around him advised him to leave his mother at home. He has never seen anyone go to school with his mother. He is still a "crazy mother". But because he is a "crazy mother", he has made up his mind that he can't leave his mother alone. Liu took his mother to his father's grave before he left. He knelt down and swore:
"Dad, I went out with my mother. I will definitely cure my mother's illness, and I will definitely give her a warm home. If I don't get along well, I'll never come back. "
After finishing junior high school, Liu continued to take his mother to high school.
Because he works in his spare time to support himself and his mother, he doesn't have enough study time. He failed in the college entrance examination for the first time ... he felt that fate had given him too much suffering and didn't take care of him. He had the idea of suicide for the first time. He doesn't understand why he works so hard, but God is so unfair. He can't hold on any longer.
He tried to read something beautiful from the book to save himself, but he seemed very sad until he saw this sentence in his diary:
"When you complain that you have no shoes to wear, you will find that others have no feet when you look back."
Liu's words touched me instantly. He thought that compared with orphans, at least he had a mother and was very happy.
Liu Qu went to the headmaster. He said he wanted to repeat his studies, but the school refused to accept him at first because of his average grades and difficult economic conditions.
Until the fifth time, Liu Cai plopped down on his knees and said that he would be admitted to the university, which made the principal very moved.
Finally, I repeated my studies for one year and studied hard, and finally I was admitted to Linyi University. The moment he was admitted to the university, he cried with joy in his arms, and he felt that his life had finally come out.
? ? 2. Tian Xingjian, the gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement; The terrain is Kun, and the gentleman carries things with morality.
For Liu, being admitted to a university is only the first step in the long March. The joy of being admitted to a university was quickly stopped by the college tuition fee of more than 4,000 yuan. He needs to solve the problem of tuition and travel expenses for two months in the summer vacation, and he started his working life non-stop. At that time, many newspapers reported his story and wanted to help him go to school, but Liu refused.
He said: "A living person should not make people feel sympathy and pity, but should be amiable, admirable and respectable."
After saving enough money, he carried his mother all the way from Guizhou to Shandong to go to college.
During college, he took several jobs to support himself and his mother, and the rest of the money was donated to several sisters he met when picking up garbage. They couldn't afford to go to school.
After going to college, he learned to live frugally by working part-time at school and in society, and supported himself and his sick mother. Liu didn't accept any donations except the accommodation arranged by the school for his mother. He tried to weaken everyone's attention to him, studied steadily, continued to work and provided a better life for his mother.
Someone asked him why he was so stubborn, and he said, "A person alive should not make people feel pitiful, but should make people feel amiable and respectable. 」
Liu's part-time income in college is used for his mother and his basic life, as well as other money.
Everyone was sent back to the county where he once lived. Because he once met two sisters and a younger brother when collecting waste there, Liu knew that the outside world was really better than he thought, so he wanted to help more children come out and see the outside world.
3. Be a lamp burner, dedicate yourself and illuminate others.
College time passes quickly. When he graduated, a company in Beijing offered him an annual salary of 550,000 yuan, but he refused. He felt that he had changed his destiny by studying, but many confused and helpless children in his hometown dropped out of school early and wandered around the society, so his hometown needed him more, so he returned to his hometown where he had tried to go out and became a teacher.
He is thinking about how to help his hometown get rid of poverty instead of poverty. ...
Wangmo County, Guizhou Province is a national poverty-stricken county. There are always many children who give up their studies because of family problems, and there are also many children who think reading is useless. In addition to teaching in class, what he usually does is riding a scooter around and pulling it back to the construction site. Children who don't study because they want to earn some money go to the internet bar to pull them back. Children who are addicted to games and are not interested in learning run home and pull them back.
He has repeatedly expressed to his parents and children whose world outlook has not yet taken shape how important it is to study and how important it is to dream. During the six years of teaching in Wangmo National Middle School, Liu has served as the head teacher of five classes, in charge of the school's moral education, youth league Committee, teaching and research group and grade department. In six years, he traveled all over the country by motorcycle, and the families of students in various towns and villages in Wangmo broke down. ...
He changed from a history teacher to the vice principal of this school. ...
In addition, he became an educator, awakening one sleeping seed after another and rewarding knowledge with knowledge. She said that she hopes to awaken teachers, enhance their sense of responsibility and mission, make teachers feel that they are noble people in students' lives, awaken students, let students know that knowledge can change their destiny, awaken their parents, and let parents know that supporting their children to study is the best way out. ...
When interviewed by the media, this low-key young man didn't say anything big. He just said softly, "I am glad that I have not become a burden to society and have the opportunity to realize my value." 」
People who give up on themselves can't afford it, and people who constantly strive for self-improvement can't overcome it. Liu used his own life to explain what "changing fate because of faith" means. When a simple belief is passed on to thousands of people, the atmosphere and fortune of the whole county have changed, and the power of good thoughts and mountains and seas can also be leveled. The most amazing thing is that he realized where the power of the human heart came from, so he worked hard, was carefree and had a clear mind, so he was a practitioner of contemporary psychology.
He once looked up at the sky at the bottom of the well, but now he is willing to be a ladder in the well, ordinary and great, burning his own life and illuminating others' lives.
He studied for himself and taught for others, which changed the lives of too many children in mountainous areas. ...
He told reporters: you can't say that children in Beijing have a future, children in Shanghai have a future, and children who look at the desert have a future!
He is filial to his mother's study, he illuminates others whenever he has the opportunity, he goes back to the mountains to dispel doubts and preach, he warms people's hearts, he is an example, he uses his own hands and wisdom to seize the throat of suffering fate, and the world kisses me with pain, but he returns with singing, which is really admirable and regrettable!