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Inviting skills that college students must learn.
As we all know, it is inconvenient for girls to work overtime and rain, which are all excuses for girls not wanting to see you at all. Why don't I want to see you?

(1) Because you didn't talk well. Can't see your value

I can't make her happy. Why did she come out with you?

First of all, I say a mistake that most boys make, that is, they just invite girls habitually, which doesn't interest them at all.

Boys only talk about eating, sleeping and doing every day, which is not fun.

Then girls will definitely not have any expectations and will not waste time on dating.

When a girl doesn't expect to see you, her work is more important than you, her friends are more important than you, and even the weather is more important than you.

Boys don't think this sentence is cruel, but it is true.

So I will let the boys chat with the girls first, and then the next step is to make the girls feel that being with her is exciting and interesting, and she will feel very excited.

For example, she loves to listen to bands, so let's say, I used to form a band at school. Guess what I am? Can you brag properly in front of her?

When girls see this topic and are interested, they will definitely talk to us. Then we will properly show our advantages and let him see our value. The more he thinks you are excellent, the more he looks forward to seeing you.

(2) You can ask her to meet you when you are happy.

Of course not. This is often the reason why your invitation failed. You are too impatient to make girls feel safe! !

She is just chatting well with you now, but he must be wary of you. You are not familiar with it. If you invite blindly, girls will wonder if you have any purpose.

Generally speaking, I dare not see you until I know your real purpose. Unless the girl is very open and has rich social experience, your inviter will naturally not refuse.

So in the later chat, when talking about going to the band scene, we said that girls should pay attention to their own safety in crowded places and don't patronize for fun.

That girl will definitely think that we are deep and sincere people when she sees this sentence, and will slowly put down her guard against us. Girls are also more open to chatting with the boys behind them and will make jokes.

(3) After seeing this sign, I started to ask out girls. The result was rejected.

That's for sure. Why do I say that? You can see what they are talking about now: bands, singing, no love topics.

This is also a common mistake made by many boys. They talk to girls like friends. If there is no emotional connection between you, she won't have feelings for you.

If you can't have emotional ups and downs in the chat, then he won't feel warm for you.

I thought it would be embarrassing to meet you, so I naturally didn't come out.

Then when we invite girls, we must first establish a feeling of excitement and then invite them.

So later, when the girl told us about her experience of joining a band with friends, we replied that it was ok to go with friends, but with boys, I would be uneasy if you didn't show it abruptly. If you properly express your concern for the girl, she would feel a little warm and have a loving atmosphere.

We have played the music, and now is a good opportunity to invite.

(4) Ask her out naturally and let the girl know that she may be only one of your options, not all.

So make a vague invitation, we said, I will make you feel safe when we meet next time, and deliberately don't tell the girls the date clearly.

Then she will stay in her mind for a long time, giving her time to prepare, which is neither abrupt nor makes us look like gentlemen.