First, teach children how to live independently.
Let children know that life at school is different from life at home. They should take care of their food and clothing. Don't eat too much, don't be picky about food, and eat in order. If you are alone outside, you should call home more if you have anything, exchange personal feelings with each other, and get guidance in time if you have any questions.
We should learn some common sense of financial management and how to allocate money scientifically every month. Don't eat spicy food for the first half of the month, and eat steamed bread for the second half. Usually dress simply and generously, and speak appropriately and peacefully.
Second, teach children how to get along with others independently.
Getting along with people is a university question, which is more important than the knowledge in textbooks to some extent. We should adhere to self-discipline, self-esteem, self-examination, self-vigilance, self-motivation, be sincere to others, do things in a down-to-earth manner, keep your word and do what you want.
Don't care about personal details, don't argue with others at will, be helpful, look at people and watch the big festival, learn to make friends with others, learn from classmates, play together, help each other and make progress together. Pay attention to protect yourself, don't trust strangers easily, be good at keeping a distance from people you don't like, and learn to refuse others.
Third, teach children to develop healthy living habits.
After four years in college, there will be many negative thoughts and arguments. We should adjust our mentality in time, increase our sleep time, increase our study energy, form good habits and keep healthy according to the school schedule.
Brush your teeth, wash your face, run in the morning, read early every morning, don't stay up late at night, don't get into bad habits such as gambling and all-night games, and keep a positive attitude towards life and enterprising spirit.
Fourth, guide children to establish a correct life goal and outlook on life.
Resolutely prevent the wrong idea that going to college is to achieve your ultimate goal, establish appropriate life goals and a positive outlook on life, and have pursuits, ideas, actions and self-discipline during college.