? As a master of family counseling, Teacher Li Nanyu is recognized as the highest authority of family counseling in Korea. She obtained a doctorate in psychology from the University of Odenburg in Germany, and worked as a family counselor in Germany, responsible for the coordination and resolution of family conflicts.
? Since 2004, she has returned to work in Korea, actively promoting the importance of family therapy and establishing a healthy family, and promoting the treatment process of "family psychology". She has consulted more than 30 thousand times in the past 30 years. At present, he is a professor at Hita University in Germany, a professor at the Korean Graduate School of Psychological Counseling and a professor at the University. He is currently the director of the Seoul Couple Family Therapy Institute.
? Establish good interaction with mothers and give timely care to children when they need it. When I grow up, I develop an independent personality, gradually complete the differentiation from my mother, form an independent personality, trust others and be easily believed by others, have a lot of love and respect experiences, and be able to love and accept the love of others.
? Because of the lack of maternal love, there is no benign interaction with the mother. Indifferent human feelings, it is difficult to empathize with other people's feelings, nor will you pour out your feelings to others. In most cases, they avoid emotions, don't like to rely on others, and don't like to rely on others, so they can't integrate well into society.
? The mother does not consider the child's feelings from the child's point of view, but gives the child care or indifference from her own needs. As a result, children can't form positive feedback, grow into a complex of contradictions, both eager for love and afraid of being hurt in love, and become a contradictory personality with poor emotional stability and suffering from loss.
? The family environment is bad and the growth process is bumpy. Instead of growing up in a warm environment, the process of growing up is mostly accompanied by violence and cold violence.