1, choose carefully. College students choose lovers, mostly from classmates or fellow villagers, which has certain limitations and disadvantages. First, the narrow range of communication leads to the incomplete range of choosing lovers; Second, with the deepening of knowledge and the broadening of communication, the criteria for choosing a spouse are constantly changing. Because of love at first sight or blind worship, it is unstable to establish a love relationship prematurely with the passage of time. It is difficult to find an ideal partner in such a short time and in a narrow range. Young college students should not blindly and impulsively determine the relationship too early, but choose carefully, otherwise they will be irresponsible to themselves and others.

2. Communication should be moderate. If college students' lovers can't communicate normally, it will not only affect their normal life, study and work, but also dilute the relationship between classmates, hinder the establishment and development of classmates' friendship, and affect their studies and future. The phenomenon of making up the examination room because of falling in love, sometimes someone is there; Both parties in love are often "alone" and are naturally and unnaturally lonely and rejected by classmates. Years of practice have proved that more than 90% of college students' couples find it difficult to communicate normally and eventually go their separate ways. What is even more distressing is that some college students' couples can't control the degree of communication, and they have deviant behavior and are disciplined by the school. Ruined the bright future of his life.

Don't be divorced from reality. Because of the graduation assignment, many college students' lovers live far apart and become contemporary cowherd and weaver girl. They have been unable to solve the problem of separation for many years, which has affected their body, mind and career. Therefore, when college students fall in love, they must face the reality of graduation distribution and treat love rationally.

4. Don't vulgarize. On the university campus, some students put the pursuit of money and family status in the first place when dealing with marriage and love issues; Some students pursue the opposite sex in order to seek spiritual sustenance, which makes them feel empty and lonely. Some students measure their value and charm by whether they have the opposite sex around them. Such people cannot get true love.