Dormitory etiquette rules
1, dormitory hygiene
Keep the dormitory clean and tidy, and often clean the dormitory, including floors, tables and chairs, cabinets, doors and windows, etc.
Clothes, cups, lunch boxes, thermos bottles, etc. Should be placed in a unified and tidy place.
It is strictly forbidden to connect the power supply privately, use super-high power light bulbs and soldering irons, and use electric furnaces and water heaters.
Bedding should be folded neatly and beautifully, and placed in a certain position. Mosquito nets should be hung, sheets should not be exposed from the bed, and other items should not be placed on the bed. Bedding should be kept clean and tidy.
Don't litter your important books, clothes, supplies, etc. But put them in your own cupboard.
The changed dirty clothes, shoes and socks must be cleaned in time to avoid affecting the air quality in the dormitory for a long time.
Don't scribble and splash water inside and outside the dormitory, and keep it clean and tidy.
It is forbidden to urinate anywhere in the dormitory area; If you live upstairs, it is forbidden to pour water downstairs.
It is forbidden to cook in the dormitory at any time.
2. Care about each other and don't interfere in other people's private affairs.
There should be a limit to care. If you are too enthusiastic about other people's private affairs, it may also lead to violations of other people's personal rights. If you interfere in other people's private affairs intentionally or unintentionally, it may also cause embarrassing consequences. The correct way is:
There are many people in the dormitory and many letters. You can't open or hide other people's letters privately.
You can't read other people's diaries without permission. Some students don't get into the habit of packing things at any time, and even their diaries are casually placed on pillows or desks, or even opened there. Even in this case, other students should not browse privately under any excuse.
Don't pry into the privacy of your classmates. Some students don't want to tell others about their family or anything, and they don't want to elaborate. This is personal privacy, and he has the right to keep it secret and should be respected. In collective life, every student should respect the privacy and personality of others, and don't ask others what they don't want to say.
Students do not need to inquire and trace the source when they leave school to handle personal affairs, as long as they know that some students have asked for leave from the class teacher or the school.
When students have relatives and friends to visit and talk about some private matters, other students should avoid them properly. Never listen in silence, let alone interrupt or ask questions.
3. Visit in the dormitory and receive visits from relatives, friends or outsiders.
You should call at the invitation of your classmates or with the permission of other classmates in the room. After entering the door, you should take the initiative to say hello to other students. You can only sit on the upper bunk of the classmate who invited you, and you can't sit next to it. Don't touch other people's things, don't rummage through other people's things. Speak softly, for a short time, and don't sit for too long, so as not to affect the normal work and rest of other students.
When going to the dormitory of the opposite sex students, besides paying attention to the above requirements, you should also pay attention to greeting before entering the room and get permission from the students in the room before entering. Choose a good time, not when most students have to deal with life problems, and don't go after turning off the lights. And the conversation should be elegant and the stay time should be short.
When receiving relatives or outsiders, you should greet your classmates indoors before entering. After entering the room, you should introduce yourself to your classmates. If you are visiting relatives or friends of the opposite sex or outsiders, you should say hello first and explain the situation, and then go in when your roommate is ready. Roommates should also be polite to others, so as to respect visitors and classmates.
Don't leave people behind, let alone people with unknown details, so as to avoid problems.
Smoking, drinking and gambling are strictly prohibited. As a student, this is absolutely necessary.
4. Respect the collective and collective life order.
Get up in the morning and greet your aunt and classmates for the first time. Say goodbye to your aunt and classmates before going to bed at night. Are you willing to use public property, especially when using water or drying clothes in public places? Put yourself in front of others? , comity three points.
Don't use, rummage or move other people's things casually; If you lose something, don't doubt others; Usually don't talk and laugh loudly in the dormitory, and go to bed lightly after going to bed at night; And use a small flashlight as much as possible to avoid affecting others' rest; Try to use headphones when listening to music or watching videos.
Get up, invade, study, eat, turn off the lights, etc. It should be carried out according to the timetable stipulated by the school.
Dormitory communication etiquette
Roommates are a very important part in college life. Generally, freshmen will be assigned to a fixed dormitory, and each dormitory consists of 4 to 6 dormitory members. At first, because everyone was strange, there was not much misunderstanding between roommates, and everyone would get along well. But with the passage of time, the understanding between people and the differences between people will appear. Almost every dormitory will be divided into groups, and there will be contradictions and quarrels. Some people even speak ill of their roommates behind their backs. In fact, the root of all this comes from talking. So how do you live in peace with your roommate? Speaking is not only a physiological function, but also an ability.
The purpose of saying different things is to impress people, use language skills politely, say what you want to say, strictly abide by the rules of being a man, understand and respect others. As the saying goes, words must be done, and the level of language expression ability, in a sense, is also the response of its keen thinking. Only by mastering the skills of speaking can we reach the other side of success. This paper puts forward some suggestions on how to get along with roommates.
(1) Basic training for learning to speak.
You can speak freely in the dormitory, but not too casually. We should respect each other's feelings. So we do have a good eloquence, but eloquence may be just words without practice. Only through constant practice and practice can you become an eloquent person. There used to be a saying in the west: Poets are born, but orators are made? . For example, Qiu Qifang, a young woman who won the first prize in the Shanghai Reading Speech Competition, had no expression on her face when she gave a speech for the first time, just like a middle school student was endorsing. Later, she vowed to practice oral English hard. Many days and nights, she practiced with a tape recorder in front of the table and the mirror, saying, please listen to my brother who participated in the amateur drama troupe and ask her classmates and teachers to teach. Her voice was hoarse until the people next to her could recite the article by heart. She still studies tirelessly.
She said with deep experience: the luck of China women's volleyball team lies in their tons of sweat; The luck of mathematical geniuses lies in their dozens of sacks of manuscripts; The luck of famous writers lies in their thousands of sleepless nights. Rome was not built in a day? . She finally became a lucky dog, beating everyone out of hundreds of speakers and winning the first prize. The masters of speech at all times and all over the world have been so strict with themselves all their lives, never stopped learning, and finally mastered superb speech skills. My friends, don't envy the eloquence of those successful and outstanding speakers. What deserves your envy is their perseverance. So if you want to practice your eloquence, please take your time. Understanding is the most important thing when talking to roommates. It takes some skill to make things clear. First of all, the sentence should be short and pithy, second, there should be a pause, and finally, the expression should be meaningful and logical. If you don't speak well, people in your dormitory will think you are boring. Pay more attention to taboo words when you speak, so as not to hurt your roommates and lead to improper misunderstanding between you. You'd better learn from others.
(2) Learn to speak by mechanism.
When we don't get along well in the dormitory, someone will say something behind your back, or someone will ask you if that person has done something right and how that person is. At this time, we'd better pretend to be confused, take a nap to paralyze the enemy, and then take defense as a job to defeat the enemy. William, the ninth president of the United States? Harrison's family was poor when he was a child. He is so reticent that people even think he is a stupid boy. People in his hometown often make fun of him For example, put a nickel and a dime in front of him and let him choose one. Harrison always gets 5 cents instead of 10 cents. One day, a woman saw him and asked him, son, don't you really know it's more valuable? Harrison replied, of course, madam, but if I take a dime, they won't put it in front of me for me to choose later, so I can't even get a nickel? . You can tell from this that he is shallow? Stupid? But it's not stupid, okay? .
(3) Learn to speak humorously.
Humorous language always has magical effects. Humorous humorists have a good sense of humor and a good idea of not acknowledging the rationality of reality. The same is true in the dormitory. If you want to get along well with your roommates and get along happily, humor is the lubricant of communication between roommates and makes them feel better. Safety valve? . It can not only make people feel relaxed and happy, but also help to make ends meet in the communication with roommates, and get twice the result with half the effort. Humor lies in life. Humor can arouse roommates' interest in you, and they will appreciate you. Your joke is like a ray of sunshine, which instantly illuminates the lonely scene in the dormitory.
(4) learn sophistry.
Language is an important tool for social activities. In college life, one's knowledge, experience and wisdom will play an important role in improvising. Because many things are not out of order, there is no procedure, and they are limited by time. The response and response of the mechanism put forward special requirements for people, that is to say, we should learn sophistry in corresponding occasions. A knowledgeable college student can easily face what happened in the dormitory, observe the truth from all aspects, grasp the key, and will not be at a loss and helpless. If you are experienced, it is easy to avoid analogy and deal with it calmly when you encounter an accident. If you are smart, you can react quickly and intelligently.
Bedroom hygiene etiquette
For college students who live on campus, it is precisely because the dormitory is one of their main living environments. His appearance, to a certain extent, can also reflect and embody the cultural literacy and ideological literacy of these students. Therefore, in the dormitory should pay attention to the following etiquette:
1. Keep the dormitory clean and tidy, scrub the floor, table, cupboard and doors and windows regularly, and clean the dormitory regularly.
2. Bedclothes should be neatly stacked, and clothes, shoes and hats should be neatly placed somewhere.
3. The changed dirty clothes, shoes and socks should be cleaned and dried in time. Don't throw it around before washing, put it in a hidden place.
4. Towels and foot cloths should be hung neatly. Don't lean on others to avoid mutual infection. Washing tools such as laundry balls should be placed in a certain place regularly.
5. Important books, books, tape recorders and other articles should not be littered, but should be safely and reliably placed in your desk or cabinet.
6. Winter heater. Electric fans and mosquito-repellent incense used in summer should be placed in a safe place. In summer, curtains are hung in the morning.
7. Snacks, food and fast food should not only be placed neatly, but also sealed, concealed and covered to ensure hygiene. Deal with spoiled food in time.
8. The dustpan, broom and other public goods in the dormitory should be put back in time after use. Open and close the door gently, and pay attention to turn off the lights.
9. Borrow other people's things, even if you sleep together, you must get the owner's consent and return them in time after use. If something is damaged, it should be compensated according to the price.
10. In the dormitory, it should be different from other people's places. Don't call your classmates nicknames, swear words and swear words.
Most students are teenagers, and they don't know life, let alone have any life experience. Under such circumstances, leaving parents and joining collective life will inevitably bring a lot of trouble. If roommates can care about and help each other, it will be easy to overcome difficulties and make students feel warm. Remind you that it is necessary to care about each other in collective life. However, there should be a limit. If a student is too keen on other people's private affairs, it may also lead to infringement of other people's personal rights. If someone intentionally or unintentionally interferes in other people's private affairs, the consequences may be embarrassing.