A little boy in India was accidentally bitten by a poisonous snake in the wild, and there was no first-aid medicine available at this time, so he gritted his teeth and blew a knife at his injured foot without hesitation. Feet and life are undoubtedly important, but at the critical moment, he knows how to give up parts to keep the whole and give up relatively minor things to keep relatively important things.
Giving up contentedly is to become better. Giving up is also an important learning.
5. In the face of the Western Han Dynasty, which he personally participated in, and Liu Bang, a great man who was once in trouble but difficult to get rich, Zhang Zifang chose to retreat quickly and stopped the tragedy of rabbit death with his poor and comfortable old age; In the face of intrigue and intrigue in officialdom, as well as the Pengze county magistrate who could not help the world, Tao Yuanming chose to live in seclusion and sang a lonely poem with "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely"; Facing the tooth marks of poisonous snakes and the rapidly spreading venom, and facing the countdown of the clock of life, the little boy chose to cut off his injured toe and maintain the integrity of his life with the deformity of his toe.
It is to give up and let them seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, leaving a name for themselves through the ages; It is to give up and let them return to the depths, and the birds return to the forest; Is to give up and let them turn the corner.
6. Then, I think giving up should be a kind of wisdom. Some people say, "the world is bustling, all for profit;" Although this statement is extreme, it also reflects the pursuit of life of a considerable number of people. Maximizing benefits is the life goal of many people. Because of this, few people give up those so-called "small profits in name only". Unfortunately, they can't tell small profits from big profits, and they don't know how to bring more colorful music to their lives, so they often get little in the end, or
1, people give up shortcuts, not because they prefer twists and turns, but in order to reach the road to success; Giving up comfort is not that you won't enjoy life, but that you should stick to your ambition; Giving up fame and fortune is not choosing poverty and poverty, but pursuing one's own ideals; Giving up life is not to gain death, but to maintain one's personality and dignity.
2. Giving up is an open mind; Giving up is not cowardice, but courage; Giving up is not compromise, but progress; Giving up is not shrinking, but a kind of growth. Giving up is the demeanor of "looking at human feelings coldly and watching flowers bloom before the court"; Giving up is the realm of "living poor is a dream, forgetting that happiness and worry are Zen".
Too many burdens make people unable to move forward.
You can't have your cake and eat it. Only by giving up can you become better.
Giving up boldly in real life is a sign of maturity. Only by giving up can we get rid of the narrow, depressed, impetuous, passive and different world.
I can be without love, status, fame and laurel, but I can't live without myself, and I can't live without an independent personality. (Moro)
6. It takes courage, wisdom and principle to give up.
Giving up hope means giving up life.
Letting go is happiness.
I once read a cartoon: a monk walks with a cloth bag on his back. After putting down the bag, his body immediately relaxed and comfortable. He said, "Letting go is happiness."
Life is like a trip. If it is the burden of snails, naturally there is no time to enjoy the scenery along the way. Abandon unnecessary things on your shoulders and shake off all obstacles, and the journey will be pleasant.
Giving up is a wise move and a supreme state. People can get rid of all the clutter and life can be sublimated.
Put down what shouldn't be put down
A writer wrote that letting go is happiness. In fact, happiness lies in the balance between letting go and not letting go. In life, at least don't let go of your broad mind; Do things, at least don't let go of kindness. You shouldn't let go of responsibility, conscience and friendship. Don't let go of what you shouldn't, or you will sow the seeds of misfortune. What should be put down should be put down calmly, such as excessive desire, showing off, casual suspicion of others, dark jealousy and so on. If you can't let go of these things, you are actually torturing yourself for no reason, asking for trouble and hurting yourself at the same time, making yourself the most pitiful and hateful person. (Shenzhen Legal News, April 6, Duan Zhengshan)
Characteristics of human nature
A sociology professor at an American university did an experiment: he asked students to choose one of the following three situations and donate money to it. First of all, Central Africa has suffered a severe drought, and many people are dying. Second, an excellent college student can't continue his studies because he can't afford the tuition. Third, he bought a copier and put it in the department office for students to use.
Students voted by secret ballot, and as a result, 85% students chose to donate money to buy photocopiers; 12% students choose to donate money to help students with excellent grades complete their studies; Only 3% students choose to donate money to help refugees in Africa.
On the one hand, this experiment shows that every student cares about the difficulties of others to varying degrees and is willing to help; On the other hand, it shows that most students are more concerned about their own personal interests. Selfless dedication is noble, but we can't simply deny the choice of caring more about our own personal interests, and there are also positive factors. Understanding this characteristic of human nature and guiding it properly can accomplish many beneficial things.
Treat others as you want them to treat you. Treat others as you want them to treat you. Sending roses will leave fragrance. Helping others means helping yourself, even if not directly.
This is a choice, not a "sacrifice"
An American boy has taken a fancy to a China girl and has been chasing her. Finally, the China girl quit her enviable job, married an American guy and flew to the other side of the Atlantic. "I gave up such a good job and came to America with you away from my parents. This is my sacrifice for you." Unexpectedly, he said, "No, no, I don't think this is a sacrifice. In my opinion, it's one of yours.
Later, she realized that Americans will only respect your choice in interpersonal communication, but will not admit your sacrifice. This means that all decisions you make must conform to your own wishes, so that you can become your real choice. In this way, you can have real equality in dealing with people and win the respect of others.
That young American is a doctor who knows six languages. After working for an hour, his income is $65,438+000. But she said to her friend in China, "I must work and learn to make money by myself. Without economic independence, it is impossible to make a choice that truly meets my wishes, and it is impossible to win his long-term respect. " She made her choice. (Unforgettable-Sketch by Chen Da Wei Zhe)
An old man was carrying a pole with a pot of soup hanging on it. Walking, he accidentally fell down and the pot fell to the ground and broke into pieces. The old man got up and bounced the dirt on his body and walked casually. At this moment, a man came up to him and said, "Hey, old man, your pot is broken." I know, said the old man. "Then why don't you care?" "The pot is broken and there is no soup, is there?"
The road of life is bumpy, and everyone has many desires. We always hope to get more and let all the beautiful things belong to us. But in life, you can't have your cake and eat it.
Then, learn to give up bravely. Only by giving up hypocrisy can we have honesty. Give up impetuous, we can be practical. Give up boredom, then we can be more fulfilling.
Learn to give up and choose to start again in giving up!
Dare to give up.
Chang Huamin/Wen
There is a tragic true story, which is enough for each of us to understand the life truth of giving up.
The story happened on Aaron Ralston, a young man from Aspen, USA. He always likes climbing mountains and exploring. He studied at Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh in his early years. After graduation, I worked for the famous Intel company in the United States. Once, because Intel refused to give him a three-week holiday to climb Mount McKinley in the United States, rolston, who regarded mountaineering as his life, fired the company in a rage. Later, he came to work in the mountain bike shop in Aspen, which gave him many opportunities to climb mountains and explore.
Of course, some people will think he is crazy. He has such a good job, but he is keen on mountain climbing. Mountain climbing can't be eaten as a meal. George Mallory, a British mountaineering expert, gave a classic answer as early as the early 20th century. At a report meeting, a woman asked him, "Why do you want to climb the mountain?" Mallory's answer was short and poetic: "Because the mountain is there!"
With his obsession and tenacious perseverance, rolston climbed 55 peaks in Colorado at an altitude of more than 4,300 meters.