This question has been answered before, and there are many people who answer this question below. Then I will say something else this time. How to solve the contradiction in college girls' dormitory? . The following is my personal opinion.
Because girls are delicate and sensitive, they can also imagine some small things. Every girl has a Conan in her heart, and every psychological activity can be made into a mystery movie. So the girls' dormitory is like a powder keg, which will explode at any time.
Many people will take into account a face-saving thing and think that everyone is a classmate or roommate, so there is no need to be so embarrassed and so stiff in the future. Therefore, many people choose to be patient, but the more they are patient, the more they push their luck. The best way is to tear your face. We are all adults, so there is nothing we can't say.
For some people, your's relationship is limited to cohabitation, so what else need to be avoided? Will you meet again after college? Will you continue to get along? Of course, the result is negative. I don't approve of fighting violence with violence, but some people are bullies. Only by teaching them a lesson will they be honest.
Don't follow the crowd, be wise and close to the ink. In a dormitory, there is always one person who is not enterprising and does not allow others to make progress. Please stay away from them. Being with them will only lower your IQ. When you come to the university to study, the library is the best place for you.
Learn to refuse. Many times, many things are brought about because you don't know how to refuse and are embarrassed to refuse. Every time you help her, you are embarrassed to bring her food and express delivery. One day you don't help her because of something, and you will be miserable. You will become a self-righteous and stingy person in her mouth. So in order to avoid this unnecessary trouble, just refuse from the beginning.
If you have anything to say, just say it, don't beat around the bush. Some people may be like this in personality, living habits and ways of doing things, and she doesn't even know that she has caused trouble to others. So I need you to say it, not keep it in your heart, or it will be the fuse one day.
Don't be too blx, some things are better to be pessimistic. Don't take it for granted that you are kind to others and others will be kind to you, so don't take it too seriously.
The most important thing for you to do is to study hard. Instead of focusing on dormitory relationships every day. They are just your passers-by, and you won't think of them again in the future. There is no need to pay attention to them.
If there is a misunderstanding in the girls' dormitory, something bad will happen! !
Moreover, the university is a small society, and female college students are the most difficult creatures in the world. Maybe she doesn't like you for no reason!
Dormitory is home in the university. If the family is not good, everything else will be affected.
Take me for example, when I was in the second day of junior high school, I transferred to a residence, where there were 8 people. At first, I felt embarrassed that I couldn't fit in. Later, when I joked with my roommate, she was very serious and angry. After that, the cold war began. Not only she, but also other people in the dormitory and the girls in the class came to isolate me. Of course, there are also some naive people who speak ill of me, accusing me of stealing, throwing things at me and locking me out of the dormitory for one night.
I'm completely at a loss. The whole person is not good, and I wonder, huh? Later, me? I transferred to another school!
University may not be some childish behavior, so don't take any chances to test the bottom line of human nature.
If there is anything, let's talk openly. It's over when it's solved. If not, you can't afford to hide!
My good friend at school is also from my hometown, a beautiful girl from the city, with good family conditions. I am also healthy, active and motivated. I just went to school and became the host of the school TV station. Such people are naturally the most concerned people in the school. I don't know why I was nervous with my roommate, but I cried many times and finally couldn't move out of the dormitory. I don't want to judge who is right or wrong. What I want to say is that sometimes bad things are not necessarily bad things. Since she changed the dormitory, she has been in a good mood and spent more time studying. She graduated and was admitted to colleges and universities, and bad things turned into good things. Taking history as a mirror, I believe that in the new environment, she must have learned how to get along with others and be welcomed by more people. I also hope that everyone can be more understanding and tolerant. After all, one more friend is one more way!
The relationship between girls' dormitories is not good, that is, there are several bullying in the dormitory. When I was at school, there was a girl in our department who asked my roommates to carry their schoolbags and wash their feet every day. A girl in their dormitory told the tour guide about it. When the girl knew it, she kicked her face and legs with high heels. It was a tragedy. After that, they called her big sister.