Parents and family are very happy to see their son so disappointing. They are going to spend 40 thousand to 50 thousand yuan on banquets and parades with red flowers. When they set off firecrackers at the entrance of the village to celebrate, a phone call came and his father was completely plunged into the abyss.
It turned out that this was just a daydream. The so-called Tsinghua University admission was just forged by his own son. The so-called admission notice was bought online for 3 thousand.
Being discovered, this has to start with this admission notice.
In the online report, the notice is very formal, very formal, and it is difficult to see that there is a problem at a glance. However, a closer look reveals many mistakes: the "highly educated" is marked as "highly educated", the admission notice is missing a "take", and the registration time is "registration time".
When the village cadres who first found something wrong checked the Education Bureau and found something wrong, they quickly communicated with their children's fathers. No news, no firecrackers, no banners. Fortunately, it doesn't have much impact.
But this matter is so hard to understand that it has become a sensational report in the country.
After these two days' reports, the boy ran away from home.
Question 4: What are the scores of 1 and 235?
The total score of four subjects in Guangdong college entrance examination is 750.
According to this classmate's score of 235 points, he is a complete "school scum". If you look at the ranking of Guangdong science, his ranking is also 346,365,438+00 after 340,000.
Will Tsinghua recruit 340,000 candidates in the province?
The possibility is basically zero.
According to the news of Guangdong Education Examinations Institute, there will be 779,600 college entrance examination candidates in Guangdong in 2020, and the number of repeat students is conservatively estimated to be 1.3 million.
In other words, 9 10000 candidates took part in this year's college entrance examination.
No matter from which angle, this student's college entrance examination score can't go to Tsinghua Peking University normally.
2. Why dare you lie to your parents?
Maybe four words can explain the problem: do what you want!
Parents want their children to get ahead and honor their ancestors, which is the simplest pursuit of China parents. When such an ideal collides with the son's "school scum" in reality, parents are often deeply hit.
Many anxious parents will instill the importance of college entrance examination and study in their children from kindergarten. There are countless parents who accompany their children to study and struggle tirelessly.
When I sent my children into the examination room, I was more nervous, excited and uneasy than my children.
The children educated by such parents either grow up under high pressure or collapse under high pressure, or a large number of children wander between the two extremes, but in any case, parents still know how heavy their children are.
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And Cao's parents may be another kind of vanity, regardless of their studies at ordinary times (probably because their parents' own cultural level is relatively low, so they can't discipline their children well), and * * * gives birth to the motivation of loving vanity and not wanting to disappoint their parents.
So Cao made a move.
3. Don't parents check the banquet?
The birth of a school scum is not accidental, just like top student, it is a mixture of numerous trivial matters and various factors.
High school scum, junior high school study is often not good, and strive to become junior high school scum, and the primary school stage will be revealed.
In other words, after studying for more than ten years, parents should have a good idea of their son's academic performance and need time to accumulate it.
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Strangely, after learning that their son was admitted to Tsinghua, parents were not surprised that his son "became top student overnight". They also began to hold banquets, put up banners, set off firecrackers, and even had the idea of parading.
Why not?
My father's personal opinion is that perhaps this kind of falsification of grades is not once and for all, and parents may be willing to accept it.
After experiencing risks again and again, this student has enough courage to forge the admission notice of the college entrance examination. Finally, it was discovered because others found the problem from the typo and then verified it.
From this point of view, parents' attitude towards children's learning is basically ok, which is a kind of herding sheep-style practice, which makes people feel embarrassed. Behind irresponsible parents are children who dare to falsify their grades.
4. What should be done to treat him?
When the truth came out, Cao Ran ran away from home and was under pressure for several days. Fortunately, now I know that he went to a relative's house and expressed his guilt for doing something wrong.
This is what Ting was worried about when he reported it before. Can a boy bear such a big pressure psychologically? In any case, this incident taught him a solid lesson. Deception and forgery can't replace facts and achievements. It is also a direction to learn from a painful experience, stimulate one's own motivation and wash away one's shame.
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In this matter, we still have to be kind to this confused boy, and growth always takes a price. He really went astray. Fortunately, the life of a teenager is still very long. Learn a lesson, learn and grow down-to-earth, and bad things will turn into good things.
So, you have to thank the person who forged the notice?
Yes, 3000 yuan bought a class, which was timely.
The enlightenment of family education is 1. For children, it is understandable to expect children to succeed, but excessive vanity is not desirable. The growth of children needs time and atmosphere. Parents have three correct views, and what they give their children is the correct three views.
Family education is indispensable for children's growth. Perhaps parents' educational level is not high, but it does not prevent such parents from cultivating high flyers and top student. The key lies in the companionship and dedication of parents. Learning is something that needs constant efforts. This requires the encouragement and guidance of parents.
3. Be a man first, then do things. This is why Tingda has always told many parents that virtue precedes wisdom, and only those with virtue can have noble people. There is no need to deliberately raise morality here. If you have basic treatment and empathy, and know the norms and boundaries, you will have a good foundation. Otherwise, how could there be so many bears? It is this basic virtue that is not taught to children.
I am Ting Da, the father of my 8-year-old daughter, the creator of the field of quality parenting, a family education tutor, a post-70 s uncle, and a thoughtful parenting education expert. Welcome to pay attention, forward, like and comment. More questions about parenting education can be communicated with me. Make parenting easier and education more effective.